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I haven't seen MM for four years. He keeps trying to reenter my life. I told him I was getting married, wished him the best, and said please don't contact me again. I am seeing someone, but we aren't at the marriage discussion yet.

 

MM lashed out, told me he was sleeping with some other woman. (Pretty sure he is lying). Said Good Riddance .. so there we are. I'm feeling guilty about lying, but I really just need him to leave me alone.

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How have you not managed to block him after all this time?

He is not the one to break NC, but by responding - you do....

 

He would not succeed in his attempts to 're-enter your life' if you simply refused to engage with him.....?

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Why are you even talking to him? Just block this jerk already.

Four years later, he is trying to rub in your face he is sleeping with other women? I am sorry, but I bet you were the only one who were willing to entertain little MM..otherwise, why else would he still be reaching out.

 

But seriously, just block him, and don't feel guilty, you owe him nothing.

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I thought about that ... I think I'm a kind person, and wanted to be able to be friends - he just can't be. I need to stop trying, and let it go. I don't love him anymore, that's huge. I guess I just don't like being on bad terms with people. Some people, you cannot be around.

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Funny that he lashed out though after you said you have someone else. Did he expect you to be eternally faithful to him when he never was to you?

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What an idiot!

 

The phrase dodged a bullet should be the first thing you think of when you think about this fool.

 

Just think.. this is someone you spent your time with. Not everyone is able to get such a freeing gift (at one time you wanted this prize) Any lingering doubts gone...poof

 

Block... and feel blessed

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