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Ironically in the last 48 hours I have been asked by 3 different men in my life to fix them up.

 

Sadly I don't know any women who I think would be good matches for any of them.

 

How do you feel when people ask you to fix them up especially if no match springs to mind?

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Ironically in the last 48 hours I have been asked by 3 different men in my life to fix them up.

 

Sadly I don't know any women who I think would be good matches for any of them.

 

How do you feel when people ask you to fix them up especially if no match springs to mind?

 

I've never asked to be fixed up. Although I've had two couples that are friends of mine try to fix me up with one of their friends. The first lady I wasn't interested in. But I dated the second one for about a year. We're not "together" anymore, she's got a lot on her plate she needs to deal with. But recently we've started spending time together again.

 

I have no desire to date anyone, and neither does she. We have AWESOME chemistry, and she's so sweet. So, we're doing the FWB thing a little.

 

Since I'm kind of a perpetual bachelor, nobody asks me to fix them up with anybody. All my male friends are already partnered anyway.

 

I'd probably tell them I'm not comfortable getting involved in their private lives.

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Often the friends of guys I'm dating will ask me to set them up with my single friends. I don't really feel much of anything about it.. I tend to avoid it because i don't want to be in the middle of things. I hate the idea of being asked questions about the other person or having to deal with the drama if there is some kind of fall out. Maybe if I knew someone that I thought would be a great match... but that's never happened really.

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I just feel kind of bad because these are 3 great guys. I would not date them for various reasons: one is my cousin; one is a former boss & one I've known since I was 12.

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