What to expect?

[redbaron87]

So I met this girl last year on a app unfortunately, in which I have been knowing her for a year now. At first she did came too strong on me giving me compliments, telling me I was hers, she liked me, in which we only had a week talking.......we would skip she would blow me kisses and stick her tongue out licking her upper lip. Of course we message each other on k.i.k in which I kinda saw a red flag when she would only respond at certain times in which at the time she said she was busy working with her mom (she wasn't going to school and not working independently). After certain time she would bring up marriage, what would I name my kids if I had some, and how I plan my wedding. I guess I did my mistake on been a bit defensive by telling her is she was sure she wasn't getting married or was she pregnant? I kinda jump into the idea that she was with someone.

 

The months came and she told me that she only saw me as a friend and she could not see me as a boyfriend material. So I ignored her and stop giving her my attention, she would send me a message a day before her birthday telling me that to wish her a happy b day and not to forget. Of course I did and told her I remember. She thank me and then later on she invited me to meet her mom in which I drove about 34 miles to go meet her mom. She told me a day before in which at the time I was working the night shift (2200-0630) and I told her that I will be tired if I go and she told me that she already told her mom that I would be there. So the next day I rented a car since my car would not start and drove with 2 hours of sleep. Then after that she invited me to go to church and I went (in which I am Catholic and she is Christian) for her. Then she would call me that she thinks I am the one and then later on no she wanted to be friends and yet again the same thing. I asked her to give me a chance so I can make her forget her pass and I can treat her like a queen. She said no so I stop talking to her and continue with my life. We went about 4 months without communicating.

 

She came looking for me started to talk again and here I go having feelings for her. I told her what I felt and wanted to be more that friends in which she said no I see you as a friend only, someone that I can open up to, and I enjoy talking to you. So I told her to stop telling me that she likes me and etc and she responded back "Don't worry we all have our taste and preferences and I am not interested in marrying you" in which I took like a slap in the face. I told her lets go our own ways and not talk in which she said she will respect my decision. Yet the next day she message me a sad face, then told me good night, and kept messaging me for days. I do not look for since I do not want to get taken advantage of. I answer about a week later all dry and etc, as time went own she wish me a happy b day, asked me what I did and how I spent it. Then this past weekend she invited me to a youth service in which I told her I will see since I had things to do (those things was to sleep all day). I remember her telling me that she had a final told her good luck she had it made and she thank me and told me hopefully we can see each other later on. Of course I just look at the message and on her end she could see if I received it or read it. I left it at that and she said hours later or not, your ignoring me, I wanted you to go with me but I guess I am going to convince my brother to go with me. I woke up from a nap and told her well you maybe can go and find yourself your christian boyfriend and she was like that's what I am not going for, I want you to come with me so my dumb ass went. They talk about some camp event in which she wanted me to go, she told me I was going to miss out, we could of gone together and spend time and got to know each other. I cant go due to work schedule conflict. She told me why I was ignoring her in which I told her that I wasn't I was sleeping, I went to the service with only 2 hours of sleep that's why I wasn't really paying attention. I made her laugh here and there at the service. After we left to our own houses she called me (she has my number but I do not have hers in which she only calls me on private) she told me hey thank you for going, thanks for making the effort with the little sleep you had and I know your tired. I told her no problem and she said she had a nice conversation with me when she told me about a guy she met in the past. Today she told me that I should of gone camping with her church, I was missing out, and that it was going to be fun. When we message each other she would read them and not reply back until a few hours later......am I expecting too much?

 

What can I expect from this? Like is she wanting to take things slow and see if we can become more than friends? Is she trying to see if I am willing to change for her? Is she seen that I am coming with good intentions? Anyone can give me their opinion? Thank you and sorry for the passage lmao

Edited November 23, 2015 by redbaron87

[inpursuit]

I think she is crazy. You should cut contact with her shes not worth it.