Jack_Bailey Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Now she sends a Facebook e-mail: I need to talk with you it is very--- I haven't opened the e-mail. I'm guessing "very important" or "very urgent". Here's the thing--> She blocked me via Facebook (since 2012) and no contact whatsoever when I tried my best to understand what I did wrong. I so loved her. And I can't lie...I do think of her still daily...not like a nut or anything. It's just difficult to find someone >like< her. And now?! She wants a >friend request< and reply (I'm guessing). She e-mailed me this past Saturday. I haven't responded yet. Going to let this ride a week or two. What's your advice? Jack:( Link to post Share on other sites
foam12 Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 Not sure how it ended and maybe that would make me think differently, but I would just open it and then decide about replying and the friend request after. 3 years is a long time ago. And, who knows, maybe there is a mutual friend or an event that happened, and they want you to know about it. Or maybe they want to do something like apologize for some guilt they're feeling or some exes reach out after a number of years because they realize you were a lot better than the others out there and it took them a while to figure it out. I still think about exes from over 10 years ago randomly and have exchanged messages over FB. I initiated one contact and an ex initiated the other one. Both break ups were pretty bad, but it was nice to hear they were doing well and they were interested with what I did with my life. There were no talks about our relationship in any of the messages. We exchange the normal FB holiday and birthday greetings, but that's about it. Whatever you decide good luck! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted November 25, 2015 Share Posted November 25, 2015 After 3 years I would probably be curious what she had to say. Whether you respond or not would depend on the contents of the message. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Jack_Bailey Posted December 3, 2015 Author Share Posted December 3, 2015 Well, she did ask how was I. So...it's something. Link to post Share on other sites
darkbloom Posted December 3, 2015 Share Posted December 3, 2015 You need to read the email so we can give you actual advice. We literally have nothing to go on... Link to post Share on other sites
SoThatHappened Posted December 3, 2015 Share Posted December 3, 2015 Well, she did ask how was I. So...it's something. So then you read the message? "it's something"? Asking how you were isn't very urgent or important! What was the message? Contents of the breakup? Link to post Share on other sites
Erik30 Posted December 3, 2015 Share Posted December 3, 2015 I hope you actually read the email. It's been this long so you might as well do it. Don't just leave it, and wonder about it for days. You get your hopes up, and then it might turn out to be some dumb meaningless message. Link to post Share on other sites
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