ilovemusic3 Posted November 30, 2015 Share Posted November 30, 2015 Im a 26 yr. old female, I've never been in a relationship, and I've only ever casually dated 1 guy, but that was over a year ago. I can't date because guys aren't interested in me. Am I the only 1 in this situation? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
AspenBaldwin Posted November 30, 2015 Share Posted November 30, 2015 We should start a support group. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilovemusic3 Posted December 1, 2015 Author Share Posted December 1, 2015 Why is nobody answering? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
shet Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 At 26 I didn't get dates either. It was partly that girls weren't interested in me, and partly that I wasn't interested in them... or certainly, that I didn't focus on what it took to meet them enough. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Glitters Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 It would help for you to find out why guys are not interested in you. You need to look at the vibe that you are giving out. Are you desperate ? Are you looking to get married quickly ? Want babies fast ? Have problems which you think a marriage or having a boyfriend can solve? I'm not saying you are any of above. But sometimes we give out the vibes unknowingly and people can catch them from far away. Link to post Share on other sites
Zippy2000 Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 Why is nobody answering? Slow down tiger! Not everyone is in the same country as you. The net is international and some people are working on different time zones. You have to ask why arent guys interested in you? Are you not approachable? What is your fashion like? How outgoing are you? Are your friends mostley male or female? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 We can't help you much because we can't see you or talk to you physically. Hun it's all about confidence and attitude. I wasn't much to look at when I was 13, but I had np working it and getting a few BFs. I didn't sit there like a wallflower and wait for attention, I really put myself out there and made contact. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Kevin De Smet Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 If you don't like games and you don't like mysteries, dating has nothing to offer but frustration. Viva la revoluçion! In the future we will step into our local clinic and murmer while strapped to a scientific device: "Give me another candidate, doc. because I'm lonely as ****." It will be awesome 1 Link to post Share on other sites
dads new boyfriend Posted December 1, 2015 Share Posted December 1, 2015 Have you tried online dating? This will make you realise any woman can get laid, I introduce u to 'Pig Woman' If pig lady can get dates then i'm sure you will find somebody. Link to post Share on other sites
shoplocal Posted December 2, 2015 Share Posted December 2, 2015 Im a 26 yr. old female, I've never been in a relationship, and I've only ever casually dated 1 guy, but that was over a year ago. I can't date because guys aren't interested in me. Am I the only 1 in this situation? I was in that situation when I was 26! It sucked. I can't tell you much more than that...but if I could go back in time I'd tell 26-year-old perpetually-single me to get out more. Why? Because even if I had zero success with men, I could observe the women who did have success and try to emulate them -- their clothes, their behavior, their speech. There were soooo many single men my age back then! Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted December 3, 2015 Share Posted December 3, 2015 How long did you casually date that guy? So you and him did not have the title of "boyfriend-girlfriend"? Link to post Share on other sites
No_Go Posted December 3, 2015 Share Posted December 3, 2015 Not alone When I was a 26 year old female I NEVER dated in any form or shape. Never kissed a guy, never been on A date, never even thought of it (well, I was falling in love with men, but didn't have the desire to spoil my fantasy by acting on it ) And let me tell you, things at 27 changed (because I wanted to)... I don't think I've missed much by saving my prime years for myself. I had all the time in the world to educate and develop, so NOW I can focus on my role as a partner in a relationship (I think this is way too complicated for an average teen/early 20s to handle) Btw sexually I don't think it was a bad choice either - at least I knew what I was doing when I started, not like some 17 yo unaware of safety and entertainment principles So... all is just ahead of you Im a 26 yr. old female, I've never been in a relationship, and I've only ever casually dated 1 guy, but that was over a year ago. I can't date because guys aren't interested in me. Am I the only 1 in this situation? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
hotpotato Posted December 3, 2015 Share Posted December 3, 2015 I don't get dates unless I date online. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
No_Go Posted December 3, 2015 Share Posted December 3, 2015 The magic of being an introverted person... I don't get dates unless I date online. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Radu Posted December 3, 2015 Share Posted December 3, 2015 Meh, i'm 33 (a guy) and my last relationship was more than 5yrs ago. It was so long ago that i can't be sure if it's closer to 5 or 6 yrs. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
stillafool Posted December 3, 2015 Share Posted December 3, 2015 Why is nobody answering? Why aren't you responding back? 2 Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 So I assume that guy you casually dated OP, you did have a fling at least Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted December 10, 2015 Share Posted December 10, 2015 What happens to your Brain when you fall in Love | News That has been posted too many times Link to post Share on other sites
Nimue Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 If you don't like games and you don't like mysteries, dating has nothing to offer but frustration. Viva la revoluçion! In the future we will step into our local clinic and murmer while strapped to a scientific device: "Give me another candidate, doc. because I'm lonely as ****." It will be awesome Why aren't we funding this XD 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilovemusic3 Posted December 19, 2015 Author Share Posted December 19, 2015 Well should I be really upset about not being able to date, or just a little bummed? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted December 20, 2015 Share Posted December 20, 2015 Well should I be really upset about not being able to date, or just a little bummed? Why do you think you haven't had a relationship yet? Because it's obviously different for women Link to post Share on other sites
Author ilovemusic3 Posted December 21, 2015 Author Share Posted December 21, 2015 Because nobody normal and decent ever likes me. What do you mean it's obviously different for women? Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted December 21, 2015 Share Posted December 21, 2015 Because nobody normal and decent ever likes me. What do you mean it's obviously different for women? Because as a woman, you are dealt with a different set of cards in the dating/mating game than men are, you are on the receiving end. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
SpiralOut Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Because nobody normal and decent ever likes me. What do you mean it's obviously different for women? What do you consider to be normal and decent? What's your ideal guy? Link to post Share on other sites
basil67 Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Because nobody normal and decent ever likes me. Like attracts like. Perhaps you're a bit left of centre and would be better off looking for guys who are more unusual? Are the rest of your friends bog standard 'normal'? Link to post Share on other sites
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