turnera Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 What's next? She's having twins, from two different donors? Good grief. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Honourably honest Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 big, what is it you want? Everything you get advice you dig another hole. You are right, she could have you sent down, so advice to you is keep her sweet until you do something else. You are a victim of your own poor standards and inability to take action to sort your life out. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
ChickiePops Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 I'm not entirely sure that any of this is real but in case it is..show your son some pictures of severely handicapped inbred babies. Maybe that'll help him cover up. Also tell her parents. No sympathy left for this mess..it's all on you now. You chose to think with your little head instead of your big one and now you have at least 18 years worth of time to pay for it. Also..obviously your son inherited his lax attitude towards contraception from you..it's awfully hypocritical of you to criticize him for not using condoms when you just knocked up your cheating wife.. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Ariadne Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 Me: she is your first cousin! in what world is it ok to sleep with your cousin?! Him: why is it so wrong dad?? it's just society that says its wrong. It feels right between us, and mums affair has showed me that these things are natural among relatives There is nothing wrong with marrying cousins. In the old times it was a common thing to do. I have an aunt, my mother´s sister, who is married to her first cousin. About the pregnancy, congratulations on the baby! See what you decide. She seems keen on "a new start", I´d be more wary of the OM coming back in the picture after his trip. Link to post Share on other sites
aliveagain Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 Wouldn't you jut like to walk away from all this sh*t? Just reading your post makes me want to go on a Walkabout. Your wife knows your buttons and she's pushing them, it has always been about controlling you to get what she wants and you just play along. Take control of your own life, like I said, you don't need to be married to her to be a great father. Do not put your di*k in your brothers c*m dumpster, get your dignity back. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Lady Hamilton Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 Sorry everyone I have been busy with work and family. This will be a long read so I apologize. I would just like to clarify that I am absolutely certain i'm the father because of the timeline of conception. I won't get into too much detaul, but there is no way anyone else could have slept with her during the time period she concieved. You'd be surprised. It takes 5 minutes and a penis. Get a paternity test. Anyway after discovering that i'm going to be a father again, I hate to admit this but I was not thrilled. Subsequently I messed up bigtime afterwards. WW and I had a huge fight and I ended up pushing her to a wall, she wasn't hurt physically but I feel like sh#t because of it. I would like to go on record and say I have never done that before and I won't do it ever again. I am against domestic violence, but you have to understand what led me to do such a thing. This is basically a shortened version of the dialogue we shared after the doctors visit (very shortened): Ok, so before I thought we weren't past the point of no return. However, now it's time to get a divorce. If a pregnant woman gets you so angry you'd bounce her off the wall, it's time to get out. Edited dialogue So we have a woman who intentionally tried to get pregnant (again, further fuel to the "it could be anybody's baby" fire) to trap you into staying marriage you were thiiiiiiis close to getting out of, who then turned around and used the kid as a weapon to get you to stay, then threatened you with financial ruin if you tried to leave... At which point you pushed her. Just say that, out loud, to yourself. She's a miserable human being who's abusive to her kids and to you, and she's dragging you down that rabbit hole with her so she can avoid the discomfort of being by herself after her affair partner (also known as "your brother") took off. Unless you're hoping to film "Gone Girl 2," it's time to evaluate just how little this relationship needs to continue. Cut the ties, talk to your lawyer, and have a nice day. Also, is it too much to throw out there that you need a paternity test? As for my son, well that's another situation causing me stress. I so urgently desperately need some advice about this! Here is the dialogue I had with him the other day: Tell him to stop watching "Arrested Development" and let him know any child he'd have with her would be it's own cousin. Then show him how much child support he'll be on the hook for if he does have a child/second cousin and remind him that no sex feels that good. Then call a counselor. And your sibling, who I hope to God isn't the child of your brother who was sleeping with your wife. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 I want to put it on record here that my husband's brother is a conniving, dishonest, blustering bully of a man, and I wouldn't touch him with ANYONE ELSE'S 10-foot barge-pole, let alone mine. Thanks. Can you tell us how you really feel? Sounds like you're hiding something. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Marc878 Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 If the 15 years of cheating with your brother didn't tell you who she was did this new episode do it for you? Get a DNA test. Oh and she will take everything she can get during the divorce. Bank on that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
S2B Posted April 28, 2016 Share Posted April 28, 2016 I can see good reasons to move far far away from all of them. I'd be tempted to do just that. Especially if I felt I had no self control around a gal as her. Link to post Share on other sites
ChickiePops Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 There is nothing wrong with marrying cousins. In the old times it was a common thing to do. I have an aunt, my mother´s sister, who is married to her first cousin. About the pregnancy, congratulations on the baby! See what you decide. She seems keen on "a new start", I´d be more wary of the OM coming back in the picture after his trip. I think most of us will have to agree to disagree with you that marrying a close blood relative is ok... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
OldRover Posted April 29, 2016 Share Posted April 29, 2016 DB, First, I'd support your kid and let him have his love. There are some cousin relationship that are stronger than ever. But give him what ever information is as to the risks. Not sure how bad it is, cousins having kids, but they need to know that. There are many cousins and relatives that have GREAT loving relationships. Support them. As for the WW, absolutely, without a doubt, complete the divorce. Stay friendly and get that behind you. If you decide to stay with her, you can and perhaps re kindle a great relationship, but will take some time. Your choice. Hope the best for you, and your kids. Link to post Share on other sites
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