Last Question: Can you love someone more powerfully after your first serious love

[GunslingerRoland]

On her dating profile she was saying she was looking for a "Baptist Christian " and she is a virgin waiting until marriage

 

When I met her the first few times she was very sweet and innocent like

 

She confessed she was with a guy for two years at the ages of 14 and 15 and it was her first serious love. She said they never had sex but they "fooled around"

 

I asked her through text if she ever got fingered at least and she said "slightly"

 

But when I asked her more about what happened in person she described he mostly reached up her shirt as they made out.

 

She said the relationship was "lustful" and it was more like a "lets hook up" sort of ordeal. But she said it was an actual 2 year and 2 month relationship.

 

 

And so what would be so sweet about her getting back together with him? It doesn't sound like anything based on true love, just a couple of horny teenagers experimenting?

 

 

You're overly romanticizing something that isn't even romantic.

[loverage21]

They say it is possible to be in love with multiple people at the same time.

 

Let me approach this a different way:

 

Let's say you were in a polygamous relationship with your first love from high school and a love you met in college. You are now in your 30s or older. Would your first love hold more value? Would the first love give you more gidditiness feelings?

[neowulf]

They say it is possible to be in love with multiple people at the same time.

 

Let me approach this a different way:

 

Let's say you were in a polygamous relationship with your first love from high school and a love you met in college. You are now in your 30s or older. Would your first love hold more value? Would the first love give you more gidditiness feelings?

 

Man, you're asking the wrong question.

You have demonstrated a completely pathological obsessiveness about this topic. You ask it over and over again, hoping someone will confirm your view.

 

First loves are an important step in a persons life, but that's all. A first step. You've been told this, multiple times, by different people, in different ways.

 

Please, consider speaking with a counsellor regarding this. Having obsessive thoughts about something like this isn't healthy for you. This isn't the 1950's and you're not likely going to be a girls "first love". You need to let this go.