Found nude photos of a co-worker

[painfullyobvious]

Have him point out where on Reddit he found them to confirm his story.

[afoolto no end]

i would secretly put a key logger on his comp, and maybe even a gps on his car, see what he does and where he goes for a while, is this co-worker married, if he is having an affair and she is single find out where she lives, see if he spends time at her place. if he does, bing you have your answer.....

Cheaters lie, my husband's affair was with a employee too......he lied every step of the way until I had the proof............

don't confront him anymore, let him relax and then see what he is up to, you could also put a voice activated recorder in his car, see who he is talking to...

Be strong, don't cause any suspicion .........as to what you are doing...

[ladydesigner]

1. Because Miss America didn't tell the pageant people about her nude photos, and it backfired on her when they turned up.

 

 

2. For reasons akin to why the best-selling issue of a porn magazine was one in which Miss America's nude photos were published.

 

 

 

 

And just because some guys are dumb enough to want to hide noteworthy porn photos in a secret email account without having the common sense to delete them from "sent messages" on the main account doesn't mean that a woman should think her husband that dumb, and then base her entire divorce on such a flimsy thought process.

 

 

So far the OP won't even confirm whether the woman in question is a "coworker" or indeed the husband is "her boss".

 

So far the OP has mentioned nothing concrete enough to warrant even thinking about a divorce lawyer.

 

The OP said it was with a co-worker why does she need to reiterate this point again?

 

OP has enough evidence to pull the D card.

[spanz1]

I smell something, and it ain't roses.

 

 

Lets say I accidentally got ahold of some office worker's pix...like her ex emailed them to me in spite. I would probably not save them to my hard drive...just keep the email link for a couple of days for if the worker wants to see the email to show the cops or something like that. And after that few days, I would erase the email and be done with the whole tawdry mess.

 

 

I would ONLY save the pictures, and do it in a secret place, if I was sexually turned on by them, or worse...if I was sexting back and forth with her secretly.

 

 

So, your hubby has some 'splainin to do. Get a really detailed reason why he did it, and see if your gut believes it or not.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

The OP said it was with a co-worker why does she need to reiterate this point again?

 

OP has enough evidence to pull the D card.

 

 

 

 

OK,

 

then WTF does the highlighted line mean?

 

 

Help! I found nude photos of my husband's co-worker saved on his computer. He had sent them from one email account to a secret email account where he has all of his pornograpic images saved. When I confronted him he claims nothing ever happened, and that someone at work shared them. He also claims that he only saved them because he was planning to tell her but couldn't figure out how to. Eventually she told him that her ex had hacked into her account and posted a bunch of nude photos on Reddit. He says he simply forgot to delete them. 1. I don't know why she would tell her boss about that type of thing 2. I don't know why he would save them in his porn stash (though he claims he sends stuff there so I wouldn't find it and get upset). I asked him to quit his job but he said he can't do that (he is at a really good company and is a Sr. Director). I'm so lost and don't know what to trust. Please can you advise?

 

 

 

The "evidence" mounting here is that the OP doesn't have her story straight.

 

 

Obviously one would behave differently in a work environment where it concerns sharing/confirming her leaked nude photos with the coworkers around the water cooler, than with a "boss", who might be impacted by such a (potential horror story) on a level beyond mere titillation.

 

 

In the day and age of the internet, it is the norm for many people to have multiple email accounts, and to send items which are in various degrees NSFW to those accounts, so as to retain them, but not have them so easy for others to see in 'everyday' circumstances.

 

 

It is entirely plausible that some random babe at the office was indeed betrayed by an ex, who put the woman's nude photos online, and that multiple men (and women) took the links of those photos, AND the photos themselves, and emailed them to secret accounts maintained for just that sort of thing. It is also plausible that, IF the man of whom the OP writes about, IS the nude woman's boss, that he was given regretful warning about the nude photos BY the betrayed one, in case somehow the events might disrupt company business.

 

A "boss" shown that sort of thing MAY WELL retain (an electronic trail) TO the photo evidence, both JUST IN CASE it might affect company business in the near or distant future, AND for his own amusement/curiosity/reference. Yet it just might be unwise to store that sort of photo-evidence in one's employee file.

 

 

 

Now so far, there is little or nothing written by the OP to eliminate my above-mentioned scenarios as being the whole truth, and nothing but the truth.

 

And yet people in this thread are calling for divorce based on the absurd.

 

 

 

This should be common sense to everybody.

 

 

The reason you tell your 12yo daughters NOT to take nude selfies and send them out (all over the internet) is NOT because of your awareness that they too are breaking the law when so doing, or your high moral ground, where someone who has been on this earth for 6600 days has a 'right' to express herself naked on the internet while someone who has been on this earth for 6500 days is too young to make her own related decisions, and her young image is too immoral to be lusted-after by the masses...

 

The reason you get your 12yo daughters out of the habit of taking nude selfies and sending them anywhere is because stories like the one described in this thread may come back to bite them in the ass at a later, unpredictable point in time.

 

 

(Clarity, because some will need it: )

 

*You are only telling her from age 12 in order to keep her from developing bad habits, and hopefully instilling this in her before (most of) the boys start asking... It's the photos taken much later which are more likely to remain online for the longest duration.

[Try]

The OP post 3 times over a few hours, and that was days ago. The OP has left the building.