bigdog93 Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 I am a 23 year old guy. I have had the same girlfriend for 3 years and we currently are long distance. I go to visit her and she comes to visit me and she stays at my place/ i stay at her etc.. My parents for some reason have a big issue with this. I work for the same company as my dad and live near my parents so i see them frequently. Every time I go see her or she comes to visit they make a huge deal of her staying with me in my place. They are very religious so they cite that her staying with me is not right morally but how else would i see her if we are long distance? I know I'm old enough to not have to listen to them anymore but i want to have a good relationship with them but it just really bothers me when they act really weird/ judgemental and disapprove of something that I feel really isn't a big deal at all. It would be nice top have some other parents thoughts on this. Thanks! Link to post Share on other sites
mrs rubble Posted December 4, 2015 Share Posted December 4, 2015 I am a 23 year old guy. I have had the same girlfriend for 3 years and we currently are long distance. I go to visit her and she comes to visit me and she stays at my place/ i stay at her etc.. My parents for some reason have a big issue with this. I work for the same company as my dad and live near my parents so i see them frequently. Every time I go see her or she comes to visit they make a huge deal of her staying with me in my place. They are very religious so they cite that her staying with me is not right morally but how else would i see her if we are long distance? I know I'm old enough to not have to listen to them anymore but i want to have a good relationship with them but it just really bothers me when they act really weird/ judgemental and disapprove of something that I feel really isn't a big deal at all. It would be nice top have some other parents thoughts on this. Thanks! Don't let it bother you, it's up to God to judge the morality of your actions not your parents....if need be tell them so. In fact they could be in the bad books with the big guy for being overly judgemental of you. :-) Link to post Share on other sites
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