rdons1 Posted December 6, 2015 Share Posted December 6, 2015 I have been in a long distance relationship with a girl for the past few months. I live in New Jersey and shes away at school in Charlotte. I recently have been feelings indecisive about the relationship. I see her every few months and when I am with her I am very much in love with her. But about 2 weeks ago she went back to school and I have been feeling very indecisive. I know I love her but I don't feel it the same way when I'm not with her physically. It has not been like this long. About 3 weeks ago before she had come home I had very strong feelings for her even though I was not with her physically. We had been fighting a lot more recently and that is when I started feeling this indecision. Sometimes I feel like I have just checked out but I know I love her so much and when I actually am with her the indecision isn't there and I feel the love I have for her. She is an amazing girls puts up with so much of my BS and I seriously don't think theirs a girl who can care for me like she does. I want and hope this is just be a phase and I can snap out of it. Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted December 7, 2015 Share Posted December 7, 2015 silly, you posted here. and that was a decision made. chalk that up to being decisive! Its rather normal to have the quandry... out of sight ... out of heart. Love is not a feeling so much as active regards and intimacy. Which do you think is the missing factor at this time? Link to post Share on other sites
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