monkey00 Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 Anyway, this is a continuation from another thread...http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t63424/ So anyway after several days from last chilling with her and her friends. it appeared that we were cool again as always and she was glad to see me. So today i called her up to see if she wanted to hangout with me and my friends. I called her up, no answer. so 2 hours later she calls back saying she just got of work, and she's heading out regardless, which is around where i am too. So i told her what the call was about, and told her to give me another ring when she got out. When she called back she said she was with her friend and was gonna go eat and asked if i wanted to come, i said "oh , i already ate" then she said she'd call back after she'd finished eating. Nope, no call at all, it was obvious after an hour. So im there with my friends chillling at the park, and we went to shoot pool afterwards. Since i didnt really tell her what we were going to do or that i was with my friends, im guessing she assumed i was asking her out on a date... So now im just really confused... Can anyone shed some light onto this? or perhaps if there is some way, for me to clarify this whole ****. I was telling my friend f#ck it, im gonna ask her what she wants from me after contacting me 4 years later...cause she's really confusing me. if she wants a friendship, im up for it. if she wants something more, im willing to talk it over. But now thinking about it, it would seem hasty, and putting pressure on her or maybe even mess things up worse than already. Link to post Share on other sites
Marshbear Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 I would forget her. Do you really want the headaches? If she is interested she will let you know. If not then you don't really care, do you? You say you want her as a friend or more but that can't be true. If you have feelings for her then you casn't be "just friends". Let her go and find another women. I wouldn't waste time wondering if she's mad or WTF her problem is. Peace... Link to post Share on other sites
blue16 Posted May 30, 2005 Share Posted May 30, 2005 if she wants something more, im willing to talk it over. You like her, be honest with yourself. Just wait a few days and see if she calls back. I think that's the best thing you can do at this point. If you call her, then she'll think she has you on a string and she can do whatever she wants and you'll still want to be with her. Let her wonder a bit about you. Link to post Share on other sites
Author monkey00 Posted May 30, 2005 Author Share Posted May 30, 2005 Originally posted by Marshbear You say you want her as a friend or more but that can't be true. If you have feelings for her then you casn't be "just friends". Let her go and find another women. I wouldn't waste time wondering if she's mad or WTF her problem is. Peace... Well i dont really give much crap about her in that kind of way. In the past she has always been a good friend, and if possible i'd still like to have that friendship with her again. You like her, be honest with yourself. Just wait a few days and see if she calls back. I think that's the best thing you can do at this point. If you call her, then she'll think she has you on a string and she can do whatever she wants and you'll still want to be with her. Let her wonder a bit about you. Im not sexually attracted to her. But im attracted to her personality. And you're right....if she wants to hangout again or apologize for yesterday ill let her make the call. If not, forget her, she's not worth the trouble. I dont need to give up my self-respect for anyone, even if it's her. It just aggravates me how every girl i ever meet always tries to play stupid games with me, i just find it bull****. Even if i put them into a friends zone, they almost always do that ****. Link to post Share on other sites
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