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I've been dating a wonderful woman for over 5 months. She is great. Sometimes I think I'm so in love. Sometimes I'm VERY freightened. I have very personal loss issues that I'm now dealing with professionally that (I believe) have prevented me from letting my guard down.

 

My problem is that I'm not ALWAYS extremely attracted to 'Sue'. Sometimes I think she's beautiful other times I don't think she's very sexy. I have a hard time even articulating this but, Sue is a 'hairy' girl. She is very kempt and neat but her arms are hairy and her legs get stubbly FAST. She shaves almost every day - for MY benefit but . . . sometimes I feel I can't get past it.

 

Any ideas?

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1 thing - i hope hairyness isn't the main base of your judgements of people... I mean if hairiness bothers u this much, are you sure you don't only judge her by looks?...

 

some advice for her: maybe she should try other methods of hair removal (not shaving) ... there's waxing, and elecrolysis, and laser, etc.

 

otherwise - this kind of bothers me, cuz i'm fairly "furry" myself... and I don't quite see why men have such a problem with it - it's natural, dammit! ..

 

Anyway - just some thoughts...

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Don't feel bad, Stan. Hairiness on women sort of bothers me, too. I just don't think we can help what bothers us about others phsically. It just does.

 

If you can't get past this, if you can't get to a point of true acceptance of her just like she is, move on. This is not something that will go away easilly. There are a lot of things I really don't like and putting energy into trying to like them is something I don't want to spend time with.

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