chrisz82 Posted December 8, 2015 Share Posted December 8, 2015 So I am one of those guys that is oblivious or just plane stupid to signals that women send. So I'm not sure but I think that a woman at work may be sending signals so about a month ago we were in the break room at lunch just the two of us and We were talking about our weekend and she mentioned that she ran into her ex and that she needs to find a new boyfriend. Then a week after I was discussing my plans in a couple of weeks about going out and this awesome tiki bar I go to and she replied where's my invite (cogs are starting to turn in my mind). Well then last week I invited her and another friend from work to a comedy club and she didn't seem that interested, then later that week I asked again to know how many tickets to get and she said yes. So what does everyone think I like her but am reluctant because we work together and there is an age difference that I am worried about and I always question people's intentions. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted December 10, 2015 Share Posted December 10, 2015 First, what is the age difference? Second, dating people from work is always risky. Sometimes it can work but more often than not it's a recipe for disaster. Tread carefully. Link to post Share on other sites
winny Posted December 10, 2015 Share Posted December 10, 2015 So I am one of those guys that is oblivious or just plane stupid to signals that women send. So I'm not sure but I think that a woman at work may be sending signals so about a month ago we were in the break room at lunch just the two of us and We were talking about our weekend and she mentioned that she ran into her ex and that she needs to find a new boyfriend. Then a week after I was discussing my plans in a couple of weeks about going out and this awesome tiki bar I go to and she replied where's my invite (cogs are starting to turn in my mind). Well then last week I invited her and another friend from work to a comedy club and she didn't seem that interested, then later that week I asked again to know how many tickets to get and she said yes. So what does everyone think I like her but am reluctant because we work together and there is an age difference that I am worried about and I always question people's intentions. Oh I talk like this woman does with just friendly intentions and nothing more. Try to be a friend and get to know her and see what is really in her mind. Dont jump to conclusions yet. Link to post Share on other sites
CVnine Posted December 10, 2015 Share Posted December 10, 2015 To be honest, it sounds like she is being friendly and interested in hanging out or getting to know you more. I wouldn't go as far as saying she is sending signals she likes you yet. You need to try and make plans whether its just you and her OR a you, her and others and just gauge how things go. Regarding the work part of this, like others have already said, it is risky. It can work out just fine BUT if it doesn't be prepared for at the very least a number of awkward interactions with her at work. I actually had a friend date a woman he worked with and he needed to transfer departments because of drama that ensued after their relationship didn't work out. Link to post Share on other sites
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