BF doesn't trust me!!

[Space Ritual]

Please end the relationship.

 

From what you describe, it has devolved into a game on both sides.

Nothing good is coming out of it, no matter how you slice it.

[Diezel]

This is what you to say him, "Things aren't working out between us, because of your insecurity."

 

And that's how you end it.

[Spectre]

Yes you see the wrong in every woman even if they never cheated.

 

Wouldn't it be more helpful if you just encouraged her to be strong and remove herself from this situation?

 

I've posted here for a while, and given your other advice in other threads about how you can't change people, wouldn't it be more helpful for you to just focus on encouraging her to be strong?

 

Instead of pointing of phrasing things in a way to suggest I find a fault even when there is none. When I have never done that. The OP herself admitted she broke up with him for stupid reasons, and yet ran back to him.

 

So now with your post we can go back and forth about this if you want, but then that wouldn't be very helpful, would it?

[Spectre]

Not sure what you're implying but I've never been " curious" to see what other men are like.

 

I am not implying anything, I am merely telling you what I have seen here. In that you have people who have been cheated on and the reason was due to the partner not having much sexual experience and thus eventually cheating out of curiosity.

 

I never said you would do this, however since your boyfriend has been cheated on in the past I was merely saying it might be something he worries about. Toss that in with the constant breaking up and whatnot and..well you can see the potential issue. Not that you did anything wrong in that specific sense.

 

I am merely trying to help you understand what his mindset potentially might be.

Edited December 15, 2015 by Spectre