Author Protec Posted December 13, 2015 Author Share Posted December 13, 2015 Just talked with her for 1 hour in phone... To her kids she said "i am talking with my friend". I still don't know what is going on. She said that she is very busy next week and she is free at friday, but she did not sound very exited when i asked her to come watch the stars with me into observatory... Maybe i should just tell her that i am interested in her more than just being friends...? Link to post Share on other sites
Redfisher Posted December 13, 2015 Share Posted December 13, 2015 Give me her number and I'll straighten it out in 5 minutes... She'd be right over... If you don't make a move shes gone before the end of the week. Link to post Share on other sites
winny Posted December 13, 2015 Share Posted December 13, 2015 OP u r making it more complicated than it needs to be. You need to kiss n make out with her next time... If she wants more then give her more. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gaeta Posted December 13, 2015 Share Posted December 13, 2015 Just talked with her for 1 hour in phone... To her kids she said "i am talking with my friend". I still don't know what is going on. She said that she is very busy next week and she is free at friday, but she did not sound very exited when i asked her to come watch the stars with me into observatory... Maybe i should just tell her that i am interested in her more than just being friends...? Here is what's going on. She wanted to go to bed with you. She slapped your butt during 2nd date, offered you a massage, invited herself to your home..Don't you see this? So she did not get what she wanted out of you so now she's losing interest. She realized you're gonna be much more work and investment and she's not interested in you 'that way'. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Protec Posted December 14, 2015 Author Share Posted December 14, 2015 Here is what's going on. She wanted to go to bed with you. She slapped your butt during 2nd date, offered you a massage, invited herself to your home..Don't you see this? So she did not get what she wanted out of you so now she's losing interest. She realized you're gonna be much more work and investment and she's not interested in you 'that way'. Kinda hard having sex with her since her kids were at home. But we cuddled...that's something. Isn't it? I wanted to cuddle her, since i like her. And she wanted to cuddle me because....she likes me? And yes, she massaged me. I feel stupid now for not kissing her... She asked me as her facebook friend yesterday. I accepted. Today I talked with her for 30 minutes in phone. When she answered she sounded like a sunshine, very happy answer. That is a good sign. We talked about this and that and suddenly she asked me about friday, and what time the Observatory is open. I asked her about how she has time at week, well, suddenly she is now very busy. And that contradicts a bit what she said to me last week...she said i could visit her anytime i wanted. Now, she is too busy to see me. Weird. Also i have noticed that she sends me more messaged via whatsapp now as well. If i see her again, im gonna hug her give her that "i missed you" type of hug. Also i need to touch her more. Argh! Why didn't i kiss her. I had perfect chance! Stupid me. I just don't want to blow things up. I said to her last night that i want to get known to her better. So she knows i am interested. Ok, maybe i will ask her later this evening that "can i come visit you later this week, we could watch Modern Family together etc.". I feel like i'm in some kind of "push-pull" game now. She said all kinds of things to me. Is it really just because i did not kiss her?! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Protec Posted December 14, 2015 Author Share Posted December 14, 2015 All signs still point that she likes me. I guess she would "dissappear" if she would think that i am no good. I would dissappear. She has friends, she doesn't need me around as friend, she can get friends. And she knows i am interested in her more than just friend since i said to her last night "i would love to get known to you better". I mean that hug after 4th date, that was no friends hug. So why should she suddenly change her mind...just because i didn't kiss her? She has to know i am interested in her. Do i just have to say it then? "I like you, i think you're beautiful and i want to kiss you *smack*" Link to post Share on other sites
Author Protec Posted December 15, 2015 Author Share Posted December 15, 2015 (edited) Well... I saw her today. She invited me to her place to watch a movie, which was surprising since yesterday she said she would be busy all week. Things happened, oh yes. No sex but...she took my pants off I was sitting on the couch next to her "damn these jeans are tight and uncomfy" "well, take'em off" "noo, i'm too shy for that." Next thing, she jumps on me, opens the button and fly of my jeans and...well yeah. We "watched" movie. But basically we just talked about everything. Pyramids, ghosts, ufo's....which is VERY GOOD. We cuddled and snuggled...and finally we kissed. Our faces were next to each other and i thought "here goes nothing!". And she did not pull herself back. I was bit rusty, since last time i kissed a woman was my ex at summer. Also she said "i feel like i'm 16 again". Is that a good thing? Since i've never been with a woman of my age...it feels like i bring out her "younger self". There was lots of touching from her. Her hand went up and up and up on my hairy leg and well she almost touched my...well you know. But god damn i did it. She is so damn hot woman, i should never have to worry about not being good looking enough for someone. I mean this woman is definitely beautiful. But i will not let this get on to my head. But i am just happy. I never thought i could pull something like this off. When i think about how i was few months ago "oh i will never find anyone. I am too ugly. What is wrong with me?" etc. Edited December 15, 2015 by Protec Link to post Share on other sites
Redfisher Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 This has to be a troll....Come on are you 12? You can't be an adult. After all the other stuff and now she takes your pants off and you still don't have sex... I'M out. It was fun. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Protec Posted December 16, 2015 Author Share Posted December 16, 2015 This has to be a troll....Come on are you 12? You can't be an adult. After all the other stuff and now she takes your pants off and you still don't have sex... I'M out. It was fun. She has KIDS sleeping next room. Really can't do anything. It would be awesome if the kids wake up, "mommy! i can't sleep!" as they did when we were watching that movie. Kinda would have ruined the mood. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Protec Posted December 16, 2015 Author Share Posted December 16, 2015 I also wrote the message wrong. She did not take my pants off, she just opened my button and zipper. Anyway, she sent me a message "i hope i did not advance too fast...i really don't know what is going on etc." something like that. I responded "in my world, friends don't kiss each other." So...she was thinking about the same thing too... Link to post Share on other sites
mssweet Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 (edited) Allright, i spent last evening with her. At first i was bit shy, but little by little we started to came closer each other and then i manned up and i put my arm around her as we sat on her couch. So we cuddled She even came all the way into my "armpit" so i could put my both hands around her. But still...i don't talk that much. She asked me many times "so, what's up? =)". There is nothing to tell. I don't do anything. I go to gym, i do music, i play games etc. There is nothing exiting to tell. I just live normal, everyday life... it's not that i don't talk with her, even if my friends ask me "what's up?" that is my anwer. I have nothing to tell about to anyone And now that i think of it... My ex was not that wrong about me. I am silent. I talk when i have something to talk about. But currently i am unemployed so there is literally nothing happening in my life. But anyway, we had a nice evening. At first her kids made a lot of noise so we could not concentrate on the movie that well... But when i was leaving, we hugged. Properly. That was no friend hug since my arms ended up on her waist and the hug lasted for about 10 seconds. And we even hugged twice, indoors, and once outdoors. And again she said "maybe i could come to your place next.." "You're welcome. Only downside is that i have no couch so we need to sit on my bed... ;)" And then we hugged again. And i left. So i guess she likes me. I have had females as friends before, but i have never cuddled with them, or barely touched anyways. In my world, friends don't cuddle etc. Yes....she likes you! Edited December 17, 2015 by mssweet Link to post Share on other sites
DrReplyInRhymes Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 She has KIDS sleeping next room. Really can't do anything. It would be awesome if the kids wake up, "mommy! i can't sleep!" as they did when we were watching that movie. Kinda would have ruined the mood. Learn how to have sex quietly, stifle her screams with your hand, For this lesson will need to be learned if you're ever a father AND a man, having kids around and not being caught while doing the deed, is sometimes a rush in itself, so give her what she wants, it's painfully obvious what she needs. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Protec Posted December 19, 2015 Author Share Posted December 19, 2015 So, last evening, she came over, she gave me a drycake she made me. That was sweet of her She also bought some candles and few candle holders...it was very nice from her. We watched a movie (again), we had some wine...hugging...kissing...one thing led to another so eventually I gave her what she needed. Few times even. So now i am man again. Yey! She stayed overnight, and even gave me good morning kisses. But we still haven't talked about are we actually a couple now. We have seen each other 6 times now. Maybe i need to bring it up. I have developed feelings towards her... nothing strong yet, since i am careful not to burn myself again. But i definitely want to continue seeing her. And i would feel bad if she would date other men instead of me... So yes, it has to be brought up. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Protec Posted December 19, 2015 Author Share Posted December 19, 2015 I sent her the message that i have feelings towards her (not much, but enough to understand i don't treat her as "friend", anymore). So we'll see what happens... I don't want to end up in some "friends with benefits" situation because i know i would just end up hurting myself, badly. I've seen her 6 times, and ever since the 1st date i've known i want to get known to her better. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 Treat her like a GF then. Just like driving.....look to where you want to go. Link to post Share on other sites
Karine26 Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 Where did you meet this woman? Sorry but it sounds like she may be using you to get over someone. I don't see any woman who wants to be in a relationship acting like that, especially if she's as beautiful if you say she is. She shouldn't have to throw herself at men like that. Something's not right here. I wouldn't get emotionally invested just yet. Good luck!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author Protec Posted December 19, 2015 Author Share Posted December 19, 2015 Where did you meet this woman? Sorry but it sounds like she may be using you to get over someone. I don't see any woman who wants to be in a relationship acting like that, especially if she's as beautiful if you say she is. She shouldn't have to throw herself at men like that. Something's not right here. I wouldn't get emotionally invested just yet. Good luck!! I met her on Tinder. Yes. I know. Tinder is known as "i am horny and searching for sex"-app, but i know people who have even found long term RS from there. Even gotten married! Well...truth is i've wanted to have sex with her since date 1. There is definitely some chemistry between us (obviously). I've had sex sometimes at the first date, i see nothing wrong with it. If both feel like it, then just do it. Anyway, she did not reply to my message at all! She read it, did not reply.Well, i guess i just should bring it up face 2 face. Pretty immature saying things like that via text message, i admit it, i did wrong. But i always think about stuff like this when she is not around and i have this uncontrollable urge to let her know what i think about her. Anyway she said "good night *kisses*", it was the first time she used kiss-icon in a text message... And she also said "you know you can talk about everything with me, and even face to face ^_^" I just would like to know what she thinks... I am afraid that if she is just using me...for sex. Now that we broke that barrier. If it would be really only sex she's after, why wait for 6th date? I know for a fact that almost any woman can get a sex partner via Tinder in less than 1 day, maybe even in less than 1 hour! But we really get along well too. We talk, we laugh, we hug and kiss, we talked about her childhood and mine, etc. we discuss, we get to know to each other. No woman would see the trouble of doing all that just for sex. I know i wouldn't. But still...i have somewhat confused feeling about all this... Link to post Share on other sites
Matt Uchiha Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 Dude...just f*ck this woman already. Stop acting like a woman. Why are you so worried about wanting a "relationship". That's a woman's worry. Worry about getting your d*ck wet. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Protec Posted December 20, 2015 Author Share Posted December 20, 2015 Dude...just f*ck this woman already. Stop acting like a woman. Why are you so worried about wanting a "relationship". That's a woman's worry. Worry about getting your d*ck wet. I did it already. 2 times. Link to post Share on other sites
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