jb1809 Posted December 10, 2015 Share Posted December 10, 2015 Hi guys!! So I posted here a while ago about how my ex broke up with me...I was pretty devastated and heartbroken at the time. I'm not going to lie..I acted like a crazy person...blew up his phone and all that (not my finest moment). It got to the point where he literally told me we are done- I want nothing to do with you. Fast forward to a month later and I found myself finally starting to be happy again- not think about him as often and be able to start feeling good about myself!! So when he EMAILED (not texted...I'm guessing he deleted my number) me yesterday with a simple "how are you," you can imagine my surprise!! Low and behold he had hidden motives. A couple weeks ago I ended up going on a date and "hooking up" with someone. I'll be the first to admit- hooking up with this guy was not a smart move on my part- I was vulnerable and it was too soon (lesson learned). Well this guy that I hooked up with is friends with one of my ex's friends and somehow it got back to my ex so that is the real reason he reached out. He had the audacity to actually ask me about it....he sent a few emails pretending to be interested in how I was doing and by the third email he basically came out and said " so I heard you hooked up with so & so...I was surprised." At that point I know I probably shouldn't have responded at all but I was so shocked and honestly OFFENDED he even thinks that he has the right to question who or WHAT i'm doing. Since we have broken up- a lot of things he did and shady stuff has come to the surface and so I feel like he has NO RIGHT to judge or question anything I do- he BROKE UP WITH ME and lied to me half the time we were dating. I emailed him back- I never confirmed or denied what happened but I basically just said that I don't feel like he has the right to question me and to take care. I'm guessing I probably didn't handle this situation too well but I have to say I'm proud of myself for not feeding into him- I'm not going to lie a part of me wanted to tell him how much I missed him and all that stuff but then my BRAIN told me nooo....this guy hurt you. Any feedback will be greatly appreciated. Thanks Link to post Share on other sites
Mrin Posted December 10, 2015 Share Posted December 10, 2015 I don't see anything wrong with what you did in your response to him. It is actually perfect. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
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