FaithInTheDark Posted December 11, 2015 Share Posted December 11, 2015 my bf and i have been together for over 4 months....things have been good for the most part. He started a new job very far away for 2.5 weeks at a time then comes back for over a week... during the time away he was so good with keeping in touch. hed call every day, even if it was short, it meant alot to me. we would send cute texts, and things felt solid. last time he was back we had a good visit ,..went on a nice vacation.and both said we were happy. we do have problems in the bed room because of his low sex drive which was affected me and ive expressed this. before he left, things were good, he told me that i was his world, and how much he loved me. he called when he arrived he called and said " i really love you and am serious about making you happy" ie bedroom problems well hes been gone 10/11 day...and the communication has been alot different. He doesnt call everyday. the texts are brief... im going through a bit of a bad week so i really feel it. we have talked maybe 2-3 times on the phone in the 11 days...he did call when my car was broken down... but I said how he seems really quiet these days and he text " im fine- just focusing work" i told him how his calls make me feel better when i miss him and to give me a call if he wants. he didnt respond at all. until i called him out on it...he said "ohok miss u too" the fallowing day no call. he did text to see how my day was...but never responded after... finally i asked if things are ok between us and couple hours later he wrote "yes" finally i said "you hardly seem to care to keep in contact anymore, were in a long distance now, so this isnt cool...i dont know what to think" he never responded, that was last night now its the fallowing morning and nothing. im just really weirded out by this because hes never been like this. i guess im scared to get hurt. am i over thinking this? should i call him to confront him or just ignore him too? when i noticed he still didnt respond, i almost texted to ask what was going on but decided not too is this in my head? Link to post Share on other sites
emi Posted December 13, 2015 Share Posted December 13, 2015 What is his job? This is not cool at all. My boyfriend and I stay on call all the time unless hes at work or we need to go somewhere that wearing headphone would be unwelcomed or not comfortable. But when hes at work, i would get some texts throughout 8 hours. Not all the time but i get it once every 2,3hours. Maybe my boyfriend has less demanding job or so i dont know but seriously no way one day without calling is acceptable. I dont accept my text to go unanswered for a day neither. When will he comming back? Link to post Share on other sites
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