Buddhist Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 The debt im in is because of her gambling addiction. I really cant remember too much what I wrote last night and im sorry if I have repeated myself. Your are a co-dependant and you need therapy just as much as she does. Stop living in denial and get help please. Staying with this woman will sink you financially and you will spend the rest of your life digging yourself out of that hole. Link to post Share on other sites
Spectre Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 If you break up she will be left with nothing? AWESOME, break up with her immediately please. Link to post Share on other sites
Leucine Posted December 18, 2015 Share Posted December 18, 2015 Leave her immediately, not because she cheated but because she is a pathological liar and by staying, you would condemn yourself to bankruptcy with no way to escape from it once she decides to get pregnant from you (she won't inform you about that decision, trust me on this one). Link to post Share on other sites
mssweet Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 Omg, please leave this woman. Immediately. Do you really care if she will be left with nothing??? That's what she deserves. Why on earth would you want to be her security blanket?! She will continue to lie and take advantage of you. No need to dig any further, I think you've discovered enough damage. Life is too short to waste more time with this pathological liar. You're only 30 - that's young! Link to post Share on other sites
bubbaganoosh Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 Friend I'm glad that you finally left because if you kept digging the only thing you would have made was a grave for yourself. The next thing is don't answer her texts or phone calls. Link to post Share on other sites
Raena Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 Anyone had experience with staying with someone who has cheated? Did it end well? Yes, I have experience with staying with someone who cheated. No it did not end well. He cheated again SIX YEARS later. I've been in your shoes... listened to the lies, fell for them, hoped for something better, a renewed trust, and a better relationship. I tried to work it out but it didn't work out. Why? Because he is broken, much like your gf is, and no amount of love, time or therapy was going to fix it. It's best if you walk away now before you dig yourself further into a hole. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted December 21, 2015 Share Posted December 21, 2015 Dude, if you would have stayed with her, I would have NO DOUBT that she would try to have your kid so you would be linked to her and indebted to her for at least 18 years. She would have trapped you. It's best that you just walk away and start with a fresh and clean slate. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
No Limit Posted December 21, 2015 Share Posted December 21, 2015 Look, some people are just broken. They just are. They don't function, morals or other people's feelings are nothing they'd ever care about. Stay away from people such as these and you'll see how much better off you'll be. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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