tanbark813 Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 Originally posted by Pocky It's an LDR - the only option they currently have is verbal affection, you banana! My point is that just because someone goes overboard with the making up doesn't mean they necessarily innocent in the first place. And they do have physical affection as an option on the weekends. She said herself she got some great head. Link to post Share on other sites
Pocky Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 My point is that just because someone goes overboard with the making up doesn't mean they necessarily innocent in the first place. He's not innocent - he's just trying to make up for being an ass by whispering sweet nothings into her cell phone. And they do have physical affection as an option on the weekends. She said herself she got some great head. I wonder if I was so lucky... Unfortunately, I mainly only remember the a**h*** part. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EC Posted May 31, 2005 Author Share Posted May 31, 2005 Awe tanny boy I do listen to you. you DO count. And yes you are right he really tries hard and showers me with affection when he feels guilty for doing something wrong or when he wants great head Link to post Share on other sites
BrotherAaron Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 Do I not count? Of course man, we're glad you came to the party. As far as what alpha would say... well, I can't speak for him. But I can quote him. Originally posted by alphamale swift retaliation is called 4 here. Blame him if the idea blows up in your face Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted May 31, 2005 Share Posted May 31, 2005 Originally posted by EC Awe tanny boy I do listen to you. you DO count. And yes you are right he really tries hard and showers me with affection when he feels guilty for doing something wrong or when he wants great head Thanks. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EC Posted June 1, 2005 Author Share Posted June 1, 2005 So yeah he went out last night with his boys. He called me @ 9:00pm and right before he left to the club. I text him at 12:00 telling him Happy 21! Then he called me at 2 when he left the club. He went home and called me as soon as he got home and he said the club sucked but that he had fun because it was his first experience ordering drinks at the bar of a club. lol He also said babe dont get mad but I sent drinks to girls just for fun so I could be like in the movies. We have joked about this before so I know it nothing serious. The two drinks he sent were sent back with a no thank you. So yeah I still don't know whats going on this weekend though because all of his roomates are still renting a hotel and coming down to Orlando for the weekend. He says hes not going anymore? Link to post Share on other sites
jmargel Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Why can't he come upto you for the weekend? Is it you doing all the traveling? Even if it was my 21st b-day I would rather spend it with you then my buddies. Personally his priorities aren't straight. Just becareful because if he's the type to go out with his friends alot, I would hate to see you be having to do your own thing all the time. Link to post Share on other sites
SexKitten Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by EC I text him at 12:00 telling him Happy 21! Then he called me at 2 when he left the club. He went home and called me as soon as he got home and he said the club sucked but that he had fun because it was his first experience ordering drinks at the bar of a club. lol He also said babe dont get mad but I sent drinks to girls just for fun so I could be like in the movies. We have joked about this before so I know it nothing serious. The two drinks he sent were sent back with a no thank you. this dude is weird, EC. he does a lot of weird, very questionable things. if this were my boyfriend, i also would be convincing myself it was normal. as in, no big deal, he'll never really do anything wrong. but everyone listening is like, wow. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EC Posted June 1, 2005 Author Share Posted June 1, 2005 this dude is weird, EC. he does a lot of weird, very questionable things. if this were my boyfriend, i also would be convincing myself it was normal. as in, no big deal, he'll never really do anything wrong. but everyone listening is like, wow. lol I know he IS weird. But thats what I like about him. He does do questionable things but I don't know if its because of the distance, him, or because I am his first girlfriend? I get so mad sometimes at things but I forget that I am his first relationship and I constantly have to have patience and teach him things. For example he doesn't know how to communicate or share feelings because he has never had to before. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by EC For example he doesn't know how to communicate or share feelings because he has never had to before. I think this is a function of testosterone. Or having balls, I dunno. Every guy I've ever dated has this issue... Link to post Share on other sites
Author EC Posted June 1, 2005 Author Share Posted June 1, 2005 I think this is a function of testosterone. Or having balls, I dunno. Every guy I've ever dated has this issue... I KNOW LOL But I mean all the other guys I have gone out with have had GFs before and so some of the things I fight about with 'R' I never had to worry about with the other guys. Hes never been heart broken or had to deal with arguments or getting to know someone or u know 'relationship stuff' that you learn not only about people but about yourself. Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter I think this is a function of testosterone. Or having balls, I dunno. Every guy I've ever dated has this issue... You're just dating the wrong guys. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 You're just dating the wrong guys. Then again, i have such an issue with cry guys (seeing a guy cry literally makes me sick to my stomach and turns my sexual attraction down to zero)...anyways I think tanbark is starting to take over Moose's title as "king of thread hyjackers". I think it probably is both a function of both his relationship inexperience and being a dude. A lot of men actually have difficulty expressing their emotions, some psych researchers say it's the legacy of having a generation of men raised without fathers. I think it's an interesting idea. Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Sorry for contributing. I'm just pointing out that not all guys are incapable of verbally expressing emotions. And the ones that are aren't all cry guys. Put me on ignore if you hate my feedback so much, BO. I also had a father. So did many of my friends. So I don't know where you get this "generation of men raised without fathers". Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by tanbark813 Sorry for contributing. I'm just pointing out that not all guys are incapable of verbally expressing emotions. And the ones that are aren't all cry guys. Put me on ignore if you hate my feedback so much, BO. Jesus, Over-reacting much? I never said I hated your feedback. Do I need to put smilies after every sarcastic comment? There's one. And honestly if anyone thinks "the guys I've dated" counts as a statistically significant sample they can blow me. Lord, if my posts are so offensive to YOU, you can put me on ignore. I'm personally not offended by you. Mr. over-sensitive. And the "generation of men raised without fathers" isn't my thing. I read it in an article. I want to say Psychology Today but I'm not sure so don't go ripping my jugular out. Take a valium, dude. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EC Posted June 1, 2005 Author Share Posted June 1, 2005 OK OK OK Fight on your own thread!!! Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by EC OK OK OK Fight on your own thread!!! Sorry. I was trying to avoid hyjacking your thread. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EC Posted June 1, 2005 Author Share Posted June 1, 2005 lol its ok... As for your theory I can completely understand. His father is very strict and hardly even talks to his boys so its like he has a father but not really? Hes onlt there to criticize and tell them what they are doing wrong and what they need to be doing. Not affectionate at all. And he also trys to buy them all the time. So that plus being a guy plus his relationship inexperience drives me nuts. I have to be really patient sometimes and remind myself of all of that. Link to post Share on other sites
SexKitten Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 i just think that he is making "an LDR that sucks really really bad and is really really hard" even worse. i hope it works out in a way that makes you happy. you seem to deserve better than this, but if this what you want and what makes you happy, then by all means, work at it. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by EC lol its ok... As for your theory I can completely understand. His father is very strict and hardly even talks to his boys so its like he has a father but not really? Hes onlt there to criticize and tell them what they are doing wrong and what they need to be doing. Not affectionate at all. And he also trys to buy them all the time. So that plus being a guy plus his relationship inexperience drives me nuts. I have to be really patient sometimes and remind myself of all of that. My exhusband's family was like that. It's really frustrating - I feel for you. You don't deserve to be put through the wringer like that. Link to post Share on other sites
BrotherAaron Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 So your his first girlfriend? Cool. You own him. Have fun, you're gonna break his heart. Link to post Share on other sites
tanbark813 Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Originally posted by blind_otter Jesus, Over-reacting much? I never said I hated your feedback. Do I need to put smilies after every sarcastic comment? There's one. And honestly if anyone thinks "the guys I've dated" counts as a statistically significant sample they can blow me. Lord, if my posts are so offensive to YOU, you can put me on ignore. I'm personally not offended by you. Mr. over-sensitive. And the "generation of men raised without fathers" isn't my thing. I read it in an article. I want to say Psychology Today but I'm not sure so don't go ripping my jugular out. Take a valium, dude. I don't need a valium I need a beer and a nap. It's cool though, I was just making sure we're on the same page. With the lack of smilies I couldn't tell if your response was sarcastic or not. Link to post Share on other sites
Author EC Posted June 1, 2005 Author Share Posted June 1, 2005 So your his first girlfriend? Cool. You own him. Have fun, you're gonna break his heart. Im his first gf, his first love, future wifey and mother of his children..etc. etc. I'll try not to break his heart. Link to post Share on other sites
blind_otter Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 LOL. I can't have dated THAT many guys - enough to represent the whole nation? Wait. What? Oh my God I thought cutting down on pot would improve my memory. I'll take a valium over pretty much every drug except pot, any dern day. Even over alcohol. On topic: LDRs are a beyotch, though. I can't see that, this close to being with you, he would ruin his chances of having a tolerable relationship. That's what comforts me, at least. You just need to turn him over your knee and spank him. Good and hard. With a paddle. Wearing latex. Ok I'll stop. Link to post Share on other sites
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