stillafool Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 Just tell her to leave you alone. There's really nothing else to say. Do it. Link to post Share on other sites
Amelie1980 Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 If you are going to say anything, I think you're going to have to be abusive to her and let her know what you think of her...hell even tell her to F - Off. If you're nice to her at all...she will probably just see it as licence to reply. Can your school give you a new email address? Perhaps speak to someone understanding and saying you are dealing with unwanted contact. Nothing will speak louder than the next time she emails you that email doesn't exist anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Simon Phoenix Posted December 17, 2015 Share Posted December 17, 2015 If I was to respond (though I wouldn't if i was you) I'd send something short like "Remember when you said there was nothing else to discuss? I've thought about it and agree with you. Please stop contacting me and harassing me. Best, na49" But if you do go through with something like that, be prepared for the guilt trip of all guilt trips and other manipulative ploys. Link to post Share on other sites
Author na49 Posted February 9, 2016 Author Share Posted February 9, 2016 I wasn't sure where I should post an update on how I've been, so I figured I'd post it here. I'm more at peace with everything now than I ever thought I would be. Life hasn't been perfect, but my biggest worries are about where I'm going to be after graduation. not who my ex is dating, or if I'll ever meet someone else. Of course, I only come here when I'm feeling down, so I'm here today because I saw her. I didn't do anything different than if she was a stranger, but I knew it was her. I also noticed her looking at me. Seeing her still reminds me of how she did me wrong, and it upset me. She's very loud, and I heard her say "my boyfriend" which was unfortunate. I've had enough days like this over the past year where it doesn't turn into a depressive episode anymore. I feel upset about it for a little while, and move on to something else. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
mightycpa Posted February 9, 2016 Share Posted February 9, 2016 (edited) Respond this way: Me, me, me, me, me. You haven't changed a bit. I don't want to talk to you. I don't want to be your friend. Where'd you get that crazy idea? I'm doing good and I have no desire to **** that up by bringing you back into the mix. If you have unresolved issues or something that you feel you have to say, then leave me out of it. Go turn to all those other places. Walk away. Have fun. God bless. Clear enough or do I have to get mean? Grateful to be an Ex, na Edited February 9, 2016 by mightycpa Link to post Share on other sites
Chi townD Posted February 10, 2016 Share Posted February 10, 2016 You know dude. I remember when you first came here and you were an absolute mess. And you were not listening to anyone's advice and doing all the wrong things and even when you did things that were suggested, you did them half-heartedly. But, now in this thread, you sound more annoyed that she's contacting you. Which is a LOT different when she contacted you in the past and you were over the moon; yet, questioning everything. Dude, you're healing. Stay the course. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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