RedRobin Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 Well, contrary to how I come across, I am not "blaming" women. Women are just morphing into whatever societal changes dictate.. I do not feel they are any more happy than ever before.. Most likely more empty and less happy, is what almost all studies show. Food, drugs, promiscuity, pharmaceuticals, alchohol and other crutches mask their misery in most, but not all cases. I think we have two sides.. One that is sort of engrained in us through evolution and biology, and another weaker but also important side unnaturally formed by the culture we live in.. I am interested in the aspect of sex and when it comes to choosing a mate..Example.. Back in the day a woman would need certain characteristics in a mate to insure the survival of offspring.. A man of character, honesty, well raised, and the type who wants a commitment. He needed to prove himself before she gave her body. For a man to have sex he needed to be the above man. Now we have a govt that forces everyone to pay for a woman's poor decisions. So they choose to bed men who do not need any of the above traits. The govt will pay for their children.. Force men to pay child support. Award alimony if a woman just "gets bored". Sexually, we have birth control, condoms, abortions, cures for diseases, day after pill etc. So sex is something that turned into "just fun" on one hand, but also bonding on the other hand.. If you've ever had sex before marriage, then you likely have birth control to thank. Heck, even AFTER you get married, you'll have birth control to thank for keeping your wife alive. Unless you want to be abstinent. Don't be a hypocrite and claim you don't have sex just for fun. I said in a prior post that YOU need to hold off on sex if you want to learn about a woman's character first. Ever thought of that? How about you exercise some personal responsibility when it comes to your man-parts, eh? Last time I checked, those parts are attached to your body... not hers. Link to post Share on other sites
SerenityNoww Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I said in a prior post that YOU need to hold off on sex if you want to learn about a woman's character first. Ever thought of that? I agree with you. I think too many people jump into sex too quickly. BUT... On the other side of it, theres many women that judge a man's worth on whether or not he beds her within a certain amount of time. These women think a man isnt a man if he doesn't go after what he wants. Lots of blame on both sides unfortunately. Link to post Share on other sites
Gloria25 Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I agree with you. I think too many people jump into sex too quickly. BUT... On the other side of it, theres many women that judge a man's worth on whether or not he beds her within a certain amount of time. These women think a man isnt a man if he doesn't go after what he wants. Lots of blame on both sides unfortunately. I disagree in part.... If a man isn't showing romantic interest, I don't consider him "less of a man", I consider that he is not interested. Kissing, touching, sex - even just making out/sexy talk is what determines if two people are just friends or actually dating. Link to post Share on other sites
SerenityNoww Posted December 15, 2015 Share Posted December 15, 2015 I disagree in part.... If a man isn't showing romantic interest, I don't consider him "less of a man", I consider that he is not interested. Just because you dont view men that way doesnt mean other women dont Link to post Share on other sites
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