What now?

[Nateynate]

Was in a relationship for 3.5years, I put everything into that relationship. My time, my family, my friends, who I was I sacrificed for this.

 

Now here.

Struggling to find who I am, the person I always depended on, who I talked for 6 hours each day. Cheated on me.

 

I trusted that person. I trusted that girl with my thoughts then I trusted with myself.

 

I sit here wondering who I am?

And if I can really trust someone like that again

I don't want to be a cold hearted person and I don't want bring this pain to next girl I meet.

Thanks for reading

[Blanco]

Things you should never have to sacrifice for a relationship:

 

- Your family

- Your friends

- Who you are

 

Sounds like you had poor boundaries. I assume that this was a LDR since you say you talked six hours a day. That's not a particularly healthy thing to make a habit. That's almost a full-time job!

 

Assuming this was a LDR:

 

- Why was it LD?

- 3.5 years is a long time to do LDR; was there an end point in sight where one of you would relocate to be closer to the other?

- If not, where could this go?

 

I'll stop there, since I could be making assumptions about the dynamics of your relationship. If it was LDR, then know that you aren't to blame for her actions. It's likely she just started longing for more physical closeness and your relationship may not have been providing enough of that.