turnera Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 If actually read these posts you would know men actually respect a no. Better make that MOST men. Otherwise, you're trying to assert that men really aren't raping these women who say no, or beg them to stop. Must be those pesky ghosts. Yes I would suggest you wouldn't get a certain level of physical unless you wanted sex. That's not passing the blame on anyone that is just common sense. So, unless you want to screw, you'd better not kiss, pet, hug, or even touch a man. Right? Cuz you must have wanted it. Sheesh.
joystickd Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 Better make that MOST men. Otherwise, you're trying to assert that men really aren't raping these women who say no, or beg them to stop. Must be those pesky ghosts. So, unless you want to screw, you'd better not kiss, pet, hug, or even touch a man. Right? Cuz you must have wanted it. Sheesh. I'm not asserting that. Are you illiterate? The men on here are against rape. Hell we are not out here looking to do a number 6
Timshel Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 (edited) So every 6 minutes and 12 seconds a woman is raped? How is that relevant to the discussion of rape culture? I am thoroughly convinced that the sound of your words is more important to you than any rational/reasonable discussion. Edited January 18, 2016 by Timshel
joystickd Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 I am thoroughly convinced that the sound of your words is more important to you than any rational/reasonable discussion. I think that goes more along the lines of the women on here. What's the problem with if you are unsure about sex not getting physical? What is the problem with not getting drunk in certain situations? What is the problem with using common sense? Why if the issue is rape attack things such as songs and comedy which devoting energy to attacking takes away from the actual crime of rape? WHy worry about consent when honestly women can be fickle? How about teaching women some things?
Timshel Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 I think that goes more along the lines of the women on here. What's the problem with if you are unsure about sex not getting physical? What is the problem with not getting drunk in certain situations? What is the problem with using common sense? Why if the issue is rape attack things such as songs and comedy which devoting energy to attacking takes away from the actual crime of rape? WHy worry about consent when honestly women can be fickle? How about teaching women some things? I rest my case. 2
ufo8mycat Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 WHy worry about consent when honestly women can be fickle? How about teaching women some things? :eek: She said no but she really meant not now? Your view is frightening. While you keep asserting you are right - it doesn't factually make it so.
joystickd Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 :eek: She said no but she really meant not now? Your view is frightening. While you keep asserting you are right - it doesn't factually make it so. I said how about teaching women something. It's not a frightening view to tell a woman if you are unsure dont get physical. What's frightening about that? I just mean use some common sense. Is that too much to ask? If you are not 100% sure and possibly could change your mind then don't even start the process. It's not about placing blame on anyone but protecting yourself. Only person that can look out for you is you. It's not the responsibility of anyone else to do that. Ideally we should all look out for each other and be respectful but that's not the case. There are people out here that are not the best of characters. Rape culture comes off somewhat as a way for a woman not to look out for herself but depend on government and others to protect her. Is that a way to live to be dependent on someone? That's not what feminism is about.
joystickd Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 I rest my case. That would be true if you actually made a case.
Timshel Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 That would be true if you actually made a case. :lmao: Done.
joystickd Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 :lmao: Done. I don't agree you ladies and you want to resort to crazy tactics
Woggle Posted January 18, 2016 Posted January 18, 2016 I knew not to rape ever since I was old enough to understand the concept of rape. Of course men should be taught not to rape but what we are doing in some campuses is pretty much turning every man into a potential rapist. I have never raped or even attempted to rape any woman and as far as I know none of the men I surround myself with have. The kind of gender warriors you see on some campuses and other places would have you believe inside every male there is a rapist lurking just waiting for a victim and that is completely false. 3
joystickd Posted January 19, 2016 Posted January 19, 2016 I knew not to rape ever since I was old enough to understand the concept of rape. Of course men should be taught not to rape but what we are doing in some campuses is pretty much turning every man into a potential rapist. I have never raped or even attempted to rape any woman and as far as I know none of the men I surround myself with have. The kind of gender warriors you see on some campuses and other places would have you believe inside every male there is a rapist lurking just waiting for a victim and that is completely false. This is what some women want division. It's a problem if I say if you are not 100% sure then don't even start getting physical
joystickd Posted January 23, 2016 Posted January 23, 2016 A very interesting read here http://time.com/3393442/cdc-rape-numbers/
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