Heretostayy Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 I dated this girl going on 3 years in Febuaray. In October she met a new group of friends, along with that group of friends she met a guy she has always had a crush on. I asked her about it and she got mad and started a huge argument. Started bashing me about my ex's(who I didn't ever have contact with) So the day after Halloween she leaves me, and to find out the very next day, she's posting pictures with this guy already. Yes it hurt because I'm like WTF we just spent that day together then next you're already with this guy. One day she sent me this ugly message saying "you never loved me I can see that. I'm sorry I fell out of love with you because you never truly cared or loved me" I didn't even believe that so I just ignored it. 3.5 weeks of NC there was a random knock at my door. I go open it, it was my ex. She's at my door, I wasn't expecting this. She sat down we started talking (I never talked about the relationship only if she did) so everything was good she asked if I was willing to hang out 2 days later and we did. She said the guy she left me for was playing her, that's when she realized she messed up...She was apologizing about it and said " I don't know what I was thinking, I truly love you and care about you". 2 weeks go by everything is perfect she's staying over with me, we're going out reconnecting, she's showing me off all social media, going to church, she came out 2 hours to watch my football game, etc. everything was clicking then BOOM!!!! I saw her texting the same dude she just left me for. I saw a message from a girl that said "no offense idk why you went back to your ex, you deserve better". My ex replied "I know Im concidering giving that dude a chance cause we connected so well" I asked her about it all and she got mad. She got very defensive and started saying " you don't care about me idk why I came back, you're just selfish and only care about yourself" I'm like wtf are you talking about.... I went to check her Twitter / Snapchat but she had me blocked already. I saw she went back to the dude again, my friend said she posted about him all on Twitter now. It sucks why somebody you thought loved you would make you feel love just to hurt you all over nothing... Link to post Share on other sites
TaraMaiden2 Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 (edited) Can I ask why you are posting repeated threads without actually addressing any of the replies you receive? You already posted once this morning... We can't help you if you don't interact and respond to comments. Edited December 19, 2015 by TaraMaiden2 Link to post Share on other sites
pidgeon1010 Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 She said the guy she left me for was playing her, that's when she realized she messed up...... And that's where you should have asked her to leave. Did you get what she was telling you? she came back because the other guy was playing her. You were Mr. old familiar. She knew she could get her ego stroked and feel wanted by coming back and you let her waltz right back in with no accountability. She didn't truly love you. She was distraught because the guy she actually wanted was treating her poorly. She probably came back to get his attention and make him jealous. Sorry to say but the writing was on the wall. Don't EVER give her another opportunity to make a fool out of you. Link to post Share on other sites
LostOnes05 Posted December 19, 2015 Share Posted December 19, 2015 She is dumb, selfish and childish. Acquire currency/good grades...disregard women. Haha but seriously, screw her dude (not literally...nevermind). Link to post Share on other sites
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