This past Saturday opened my eyes a little: Sex with a prostitute to get over ex

[blind_otter]

Originally posted by Bronzepen

I saw a documentary on Geishas. Very interesting. Women train to be Geishas for 5 years. While in training they are called Maiko.

 

From a Japanese mans standpoint, what attracts them to Geisha's is their submissiveness to everything they say. Speaking from an intellectual point, not sexual.

 

It's like an exaggerated expression of the culture. I was taught to be this way with men by my Vietnamese mother - who is in all other arenas in her life, a complete intimidating battleaxe. How surprised most people are to see her with my father, accomodating his every wish and need, agreeing with him with bemused indulgence. Men seem to find this titillating, some bizarre expression of sexual interest.

[mixwell]

Originally posted by IhavenoFREAKINclue

I have to agree with Alpha on all this. So he paid for sex, so what? Mixwell did just want to share the joy in getting laid. Whether he paid or not. I'm sure he could have gotten laid without paying...but who wants to wait? Go to a bar...meet a girl....hope she's easy.....try to get laid or get slapped in the face for hitting on her. I agree with that prostitutes are for lazy people....but in their life has not taken the easy way out? I'm sure the girl had fun too! I bet the only thing on her mind was making money. She was probably ecstatic that she got a customer......

 

P.S. Congrats on getting laid!! WHOOO HOOO!!!

 

Im Glad you see it from my point of view also.. I just wanted to get laid without the BS. Could I get laid on my own by picking up a girl? Yeah if I put in a lot of effort. . Yeah of course she had fun.. I was her first american sex partner so I was told.. haha.. id sale my ass for money if i could.. Prostitutes make bank ! Assuming they dont get taxed a grip which im sure happens to some..

 

I should feel bad for exploiting someone from a 3rd world country.. O wait I forgot someone else does this too..... Oh yeah its our government. why do you think we buy things from other countries? ? Could it be that they have young kids sewing shoes together to be shipped to the USA?? Could we buy from them because they labor wages there are a joke and production is cheap as a cause of this ? So anyone complaining about this think about it next time you go out to by your Nikes or pretty much any other product not made in the USA..

[upsetnhurt]

Mixwell,

 

I can't believe the attention you are getting on here based on your sharing some of your life's experiences. I for one appreciate you sharing your story and am ecstatic that you felt better based on your decisions to spend some time with this woman in whatever form (therapy, sex, etc....) I would not have chosen that route myself yet as long as it made you feel better than all the best to you. Not so sure why everyone feels they have to condemn you for your actions. You are entitled to live your life any way you see fit and the same goes for others. Give the guy a break here folks as he has done nothing wrong here!

[Lonestar]

Where can I get me a hot young stud for hire? Sure, I could get one for free, but it would be a huge turn on knowing that I'm paying for this guy to be my slave for a few hours, and then I never have to see his face again.

 

Raw, hot, meaningless sex... and I wouldn't have to listen to the himbo ask me afterward how much I like him and if I would go to dinner with him next week.

 

This is tempting.

 

You go, mixwell. Glad you had a good time.

[Weird]

I think paying someone outright for sex is lame but whatever...not my life. All I ask is that the people who do this protect themselves and don't pass on diseases.

 

I personally find it pretty sad people pay that much just to hump. Wow....get a damn hobby or control your friggin urges. Sheesh. Humans...they continue to embarrass me every passing day.

 

Oh and I also don't know why someone would try and brag about banging a whore...wow that takes a lot of skill/effort on your part. Seriously.

[mixwell]

Originally posted by Lonestar

Where can I get me a hot young stud for hire? Sure, I could get one for free, but it would be a huge turn on knowing that I'm paying for this guy to be my slave for a few hours, and then I never have to see his face again.

 

Raw, hot, meaningless sex... and I wouldn't have to listen to the himbo ask me afterward how much I like him and if I would go to dinner with him next week.

 

This is tempting.

 

You go, mixwell. Glad you had a good time.

 

All the reasons you just listed are the same reasons I did it Lonestar !!! I couldnt have said it any better.. I am glad you can understand.. I don't know where you can find a guy at in yours? ? maybe a massage place ?? They are out there you just have to find em..

 

Take care

[mixwell]

Originally posted by Weird

I think paying someone outright for sex is lame but whatever...not my life. All I ask is that the people who do this protect themselves and don't pass on diseases.

 

I personally find it pretty sad people pay that much just to hump. Wow....get a damn hobby or control your friggin urges. Sheesh. Humans...they continue to embarrass me every passing day.

 

Oh and I also don't know why someone would try and brag about banging a whore...wow that takes a lot of skill/effort on your part. Seriously.

 

I have hobbies actually. My new hobbie is going to be banging hookers.. haha j/k. The whole point in banging a hooker is that it doesn't take skill or effort.. I will use skill and effort when I try to find a g/f.. for the time I am just having fun.

[XNemesisX]

Originally posted by mixwell

Unfortunatly in society quality is judged on a bank account by shallow greedy people..

I have hobbies actually. My new hobbie is going to be banging hookers.. haha j/k. The whole point in banging a hooker is that it doesn't take skill or effort.. I will use skill and effort when I try to find a g/f.. for the time I am just having fun.

 

Half of all jokes are really serious.

 

I think you sound like a male chauvenist, Mixwell. I'm usually a pretty liberal person and I don't get offended easily but you have offended me in the way you talk about women and prostitutes. It just seems like you have no respect for women nor for yourself for that matter.

 

P.S. condoms don't protect against certain std's. Better hope you don't see a big wart down there here soon....

[mixwell]

Originally posted by XNemesisX

Half of all jokes are really serious.

 

I think you sound like a male chauvenist, Mixwell. I'm usually a pretty liberal person and I don't get offended easily but you have offended me in the way you talk about women and prostitutes. It just seems like you have no respect for women nor for yourself for that matter.

 

P.S. condoms don't protect against certain std's. Better hope you don't see a big wart down there here soon....

 

Nah Im not serious about that being my hobbie.. I mean I'm not saying I wouldn't do it again in the future but I'm not going to make a habit of it. Honestly I have a lot of respect for women who deserve respect. I was with my ex for 7 years and I treated her with the most respect. I'm not the type of person that goes out to clubs and what not to take advantage of girls either. I am young also (22) and I guess I am just experimenting or whatever. I'm not a chauvenist either even though you say I sound like one. Thanks for not accusing me of being one like most idiots would. I hope I don't see a wart down there either !! haha.

 

Take care,

 

peace

[Craig]

Originally posted by blind_otter

Unfortunately prostitution is not only a reality, historically it is one of the oldest female professions. Read Tracy Quan.

Of course it is and what irks me is that people don't realize it. I'm not an advocate of prostitution but I acknowledge and accept it always has existed and always will exist.

 

The tongue clucking morons that condemn a person for either being a prostitute or using the services of a prostitute are a shameful example of human ignorance. How easy it is for us to condemn people from the comfort and safety of our chairs while doing zero about anything at all. It is a quirk of human nature that some people feel better about themselves by condemning others and remaining blissfully unaware of their own destructive deviance.

 

The apparent problems with prostitution are not the real problems but only the symptoms of other underlying problems.

[blind_otter]

Originally posted by Craig

Of course it is and what irks me is that people don't realize it. I'm not an advocate of prostitution but I acknowledge and accept it always has existed and always will exist.

 

The tongue clucking morons that condemn a person for either being a prostitute or using the services of a prostitute are a shameful example of human ignorance. How easy it is for us to condemn people from the comfort and safety of our chairs while doing zero about anything at all. It is a quirk of human nature that some people feel better about themselves by condemning others and remaining blissfully unaware of their own destructive deviance.

 

The apparent problems with prostitution are not the real problems but only the symptoms of other underlying problems.

 

Eggs-actly.

 

In a perfect world there would be no poverty, no hunger, no drug-addiction, no prostitution, no war.

 

Now I will go back to covering my ears and eyes and singing "LA LA LA LAAAAAA" over and over again.

[Craig]

Originally posted by blind_otter

Now I will go back to covering my ears and eyes and singing "LA LA LA LAAAAAA" over and over again.

[Lonestar]

Originally posted by mixwell

All the reasons you just listed are the same reasons I did it Lonestar !!! I couldnt have said it any better.. I am glad you can understand.. I don't know where you can find a guy at in yours? ? maybe a massage place ?? They are out there you just have to find em..

 

Take care

 

mixwell, I can see why some guys turn to prostitutes. I have many fantasies, hiring a hot young stranger would be one of them, but I rarely make my fantasies a reality. It's the thought that makes it so hot, but reality is usually different.

 

If you chose to act yours out, you have every right to do so. And it appears you have no regrets, which is a good thing.

[Mr Spock]

If you chose to act yours out, you have every right to do so. And it appears you have no regrets, which is a good thing.

 

 

Would you say the same thing to someone who decided they wanted to f*ck one of your children?? My point is that even though it's been around since the dawn of time one doesn't have to add to the problem. And it IS a problem. Not the paying for sex part, but how people like Mixwell's little piece of ass tend to fall through the cracks. They are one of the most neglected, abused and exploited groups in society and he really doesn't need to add to the problem. He's young, and appears to be normal enough to have had a girlfriend. You dig?

[Mr Spock]

Honestly I have a lot of respect for women who deserve respect.

 

 

All women deserve your respect Mixwell-unless they try and stab you, or steal your wallet.

[mixwell]

Originally posted by Mr Spock

All women deserve your respect Mixwell-unless they try and stab you, or steal your wallet.

 

Maybe I lost a little respect for women after my ex did what she did to me. Who knows..

[Mr Spock]

Your GF broke up with you because you moved. And she TOLD you she'd do it!!!!!! It wasn't a suprise......

[Ladyjane14]

Originally posted by Lonestar

 

There will always be those that fall through the cracks. It's the world we live in.....

 

And THAT's the point. You can either accept that people will just "fall through the cracks".....or, you can stand up, and decry it as UNACCEPTABLE. It's either okay that people fall through, or it's not.

 

Every single person can clean up there little corner of the world. Is it actually gonna happen? Nope....probably (and sadly) not.

 

But that doesn't mean that any of us ought to give up and not try.

[ReluctantRomeo]

Originally posted by Ladyjane14

And THAT's the point. You can either accept that people will just "fall through the cracks".....or, you can stand up, and decry it as UNACCEPTABLE. It's either okay that people fall through, or it's not.

 

Every single person can clean up there little corner of the world. Is it actually gonna happen? Nope....probably (and sadly) not.

 

But that doesn't mean that any of us ought to give up and not try.

 

Word.

[mixwell]

its not that i just moved away.. i mean she started acting all shady spock. i mean yeah i moved away but i never kept her out of my thoughts.. i even told her before that i wanted to move back to be with her and she still went out with this loser.. anyways im over that issue now.. thank god... i wouldnt even take her back if she wanted me too. Honestly i never thought id get to the point of not wanting to be with her but now that i can take a step back without my feelings involded I think its the better choice that we aren't together.. i still feel like she betrayed me but i could give 2 shiz about it now..

 

for the moment its nice to be single and do what i want, but there are the times when i miss the companionship we once had.. o well i hope she is miserable in her relationship with this lame wad b/f... sorry if im rambling im pretty drunk... besides i went to a bar/club tonight and got some girls number AGAIN that i had gotten a while ago but deleted because i thought she wasn't interested.. I have found out now she is and she explained the situation to me.. So we will see what happens.. she is asian too ok im out. i shouldn't even be posting because i am probly talking about pointlesss shiz but o well..

 

take care,

 

peace

[scarlyjones]

Originally posted by Lonestar

 

 

 

 

Unfortunately, if my daughter grew up to be a prostitute, then she would be getting what she asked for.

 

 

It's the world we live in, but there are some hookers that actually like what they do. .

 

Spoken like someone who totally doesnt have any kids. You would NEVER give up trying to help your children and persuade them to make the right decisions no matter how old they are. You really expect anyone to believe that you wouldnt try to talk you daughter out of being a hooker?

 

"but there are some hookers that actually like what they do" ???? How would you know that?

Have you interviewed many hookers?

[blind_otter]

Originally posted by scarlyjones

"but there are some hookers that actually like what they do" ???? How would you know that?

Have you interviewed many hookers?

 

There are sex worker industry conventions. Read Tracy Quan.

[blind_otter]

Originally posted by Ladyjane14

And THAT's the point. You can either accept that people will just "fall through the cracks".....or, you can stand up, and decry it as UNACCEPTABLE. It's either okay that people fall through, or it's not.

 

Every single person can clean up there little corner of the world. Is it actually gonna happen? Nope....probably (and sadly) not.

 

But that doesn't mean that any of us ought to give up and not try.

 

How is chastizing someone who has chosen to have sex with a hooker doing anything to help this world? Would it encourage them to not engage in those types of activities? That's like b*tching at a drug addict and called them a loser (ahem, not to reference anyone directly) or an idiot. Will that make them think, oh wow I should get clean?

 

I'm not defending it, I don't think it's right, and I wouldn't engage in it myself. I would also never be a stripper, or anything like that. But IMO, I have no say over the personal responsibility of other people. Our country has gone too far trying to take the burden of responsibility off the shoulders of the individual.

[Lonestar]

Originally posted by scarlyjones

Spoken like someone who totally doesnt have any kids. You would NEVER give up trying to help your children and persuade them to make the right decisions no matter how old they are. You really expect anyone to believe that you wouldnt try to talk you daughter out of being a hooker?

 

"but there are some hookers that actually like what they do" ???? How would you know that?

Have you interviewed many hookers?

 

Scarly, don't comment on what you know nothing about. I have three children, two of them are girls. You've been ranting all over LS pushing your narrowminded views on everyone, but don't pretend to be an expert on who I am. It's okay to have your own views, but your not just presenting them - you're attacking people, and that isn't cool. You already had to apologize for your posts in the drug thread. The question posed to me by Spock was whether I would feel the same way about prostitution if someone f*cked my child. My response was that if it happened, it was the road and outcome she asked for by selling her body.

 

And yes, I feel I would have already failed as a parent at that point. Most prostitutes have entirely low self-esteem and horrible childhoods. The damage to their emotional capacity to love and be loved on a healthy level has already been established. If a parent fails to give a child the love and emotional support they need to become a stable adult, then suddenly does a flip flop in later years and says "hey, I think I'll be a loving parent now and turn my daughter's life around," they'd be on a road to nowhere. Like I said, too little too late. You'd be fighting a losing battle because your child would have no reason to respect someone who failed them from day one. You could still try, yes, but it's not your place anymore. That's my view, you don't have to like it.

 

As for some prostitutes that like what they do? Of course that's true. There are people out there that like digging graves too.

[Lonestar]

Originally posted by blind_otter

There are sex worker industry conventions. Read Tracy Quan.

 

Otter, I think I saw that on Real Sex HBO. They have huge conventions, and even award shows for the porn industry.

 

I also saw a show on HBO interviewing the prostitutes at a legalized brothel in Nevada. There was a waiting list for employment there.