Author Cappycorny Posted December 30, 2015 Author Share Posted December 30, 2015 Omg. Well that apology email I wrote 3 days ago sparked a message back. Thanking me for writing back and hoping I've had a nice holiday run. Message back or leave it be? I did mention in the message that I valued the communication and missed it. What am I doing? Help! Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 30, 2015 Share Posted December 30, 2015 You can't fix a broken relationship using technology. The next e-mail can be "can we meet to talk?" If she won't agree to that then imo there is little hope. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cappycorny Posted December 31, 2015 Author Share Posted December 31, 2015 You can't fix a broken relationship using technology. The next e-mail can be "can we meet to talk?" If she won't agree to that then imo there is little hope. Don't think we ever had a relationship per say. Friends with a benefit here and there. And you mean he? And you are right about the next email. But I doubt he will ask to meet as he pulled away from seeing me claims he's emotionally dead and sneaking around not beneficial for his kids. In agree. Guess I just should leave it as an apology or wait a few days and thank him for his message back and wish him a good life. Oh wait I think I already did that. I don't know? Link to post Share on other sites
Amelie1980 Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Ive been through this. Now I'm heartbroken looking at facebook at the women he dumped me for. Why the eff wasnt I good enough to be his gf? he lied to me and intimated we would see each other for a long time and kept saying as such while looking for someone else. Why did you apologize to him? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Blanco Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 You can't fix a broken relationship using technology. The next e-mail can be "can we meet to talk?" If she won't agree to that then imo there is little hope. This is why people shouldn't start multiple threads discussing the same relationship. Context is lost and new people come in to comment on it, unaware that if they did have context, they would say stuff like, "Holy god, stop talking to this man." 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Blanco Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Ive been through this. Now I'm heartbroken looking at facebook at the women he dumped me for. Why the eff wasnt I good enough to be his gf? he lied to me and intimated we would see each other for a long time and kept saying as such while looking for someone else. 2016 resolution: Stop self-sabotaging. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cappycorny Posted December 31, 2015 Author Share Posted December 31, 2015 Ive been through this. Now I'm heartbroken looking at facebook at the women he dumped me for. Why the eff wasnt I good enough to be his gf? he lied to me and intimated we would see each other for a long time and kept saying as such while looking for someone else. Why did you apologize to him? First of all get off FB! That's going to drive you insane. You are plenty good enough and so am I. We both I think have some sort of something we are missing about these guys. I sent an apology because I was really rude and I'm not sure he deserved that. He's been very hard to read. But now I'm thinking about him again. Not writing back for a while if I do at all. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cappycorny Posted December 31, 2015 Author Share Posted December 31, 2015 This is why people shouldn't start multiple threads discussing the same relationship. Context is lost and new people come in to comment on it, unaware that if they did have context, they would say stuff like, "Holy god, stop talking to this man." New here. Was I suppose to go back to my other thread? I guess I did not know. Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 Don't think we ever had a relationship per say. Friends with a benefit here and there. And you mean he? And you are right about the next email. But I doubt he will ask to meet as he pulled away from seeing me claims he's emotionally dead and sneaking around not beneficial for his kids. In agree. Guess I just should leave it as an apology or wait a few days and thank him for his message back and wish him a good life. Oh wait I think I already did that. I don't know? I didn't go read your other thread. But based on this alone, take him at his word. He's done. Leave it be. Honestly from your 1st post here I thought you were a teen. Knowing he has kids, just give up already. Link to post Share on other sites
Amelie1980 Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 2016 resolution: Stop self-sabotaging. I cant. I dont know why. I will know they have broken up if they unfriend each other..... I know I know..... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cappycorny Posted December 31, 2015 Author Share Posted December 31, 2015 I didn't go read your other thread. But based on this alone, take him at his word. He's done. Leave it be. Honestly from your 1st post here I thought you were a teen. Knowing he has kids, just give up already. Teen? Lol. I know he's done. I did not expect an email back at all. Think it's because he likes to play the please feel sorry for me game. That's what got me hooked to begin with along with his incredible looks. From day one it was all about how messed up he is. I took the bait and my heart got in it. You know what happens when your heart gets in it right? The brain seems to go in the opposite direction. Just left with the reply and I so want to fire back in a few days in a very generic way but where will it get me? No where and it sucks and does not suck all at the same time. If that makes any sense whatsoever? Link to post Share on other sites
Amelie1980 Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 First of all get off FB! That's going to drive you insane. You are plenty good enough and so am I. We both I think have some sort of something we are missing about these guys. I sent an apology because I was really rude and I'm not sure he deserved that. He's been very hard to read. But now I'm thinking about him again. Not writing back for a while if I do at all. Look just send him a text saying fancy a new year f u c k. He'll answer that and probably do it. It is all he wants. If that is waht you want.....go ahead. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cappycorny Posted December 31, 2015 Author Share Posted December 31, 2015 I cant. I dont know why. I will know they have broken up if they unfriend each other..... I know I know..... You can. So can I. Seriously get off fb. Haha. That's like asking for torture. Link to post Share on other sites
Author Cappycorny Posted December 31, 2015 Author Share Posted December 31, 2015 Look just send him a text saying fancy a new year f u c k. He'll answer that and probably do it. It is all he wants. If that is waht you want.....go ahead. :lmao: omg that's too funny. No. Not going to happen. I'm better then that. I do wish I could get him out of my head though. Never imagined he'd reply back to me. That's the point of now what? I guess get over it. lol. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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