cleebie Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 Hi, Me and my ex split 4 months ago and have had no contact for 9 weeks until today. I had to contact him to sort out financial arrangements between us. I didn't want to but felt that things would never be sorted if I didn't. I had done so well not to have anything to do with him for 9 weeks that I feel like I am the one who has caved in even though it was necessary. I feel like I have lost the staring competition...I blinked first! and he will find some glee in that, oh well...anyway... I emailed him to ask him to give me bank details to transfer some money, which he duly did. He also said that he had lost his mobile phone and all his numbers and asked me to give him my mobile number. I replied only saying thanks for the bank info but did not give him my number. He emailed me back, again asking for my mobile number "for emergencies" - what does this mean? We have nothing to be in contact for. I don't want him to have my number. Not sure what emergency he could possibly have that he would need to contact me. Not sure why this bothers me so much, but if anyone has any ideas as to what this means and what I should do, please let me know! I wish all the practicalities had been sorted earlier...this contact has set me back. He has got me thinking about him when I had just started to get over him. Damn it! Link to post Share on other sites
outdated Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 It's simple I think. If you have any desire to try and work it out, then you should give him your number. If you don't and want to continue to move on, ignore his request and keep on keeping on. Link to post Share on other sites
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