I know this is weird, but my Bf is actually jealous of me and my brother!

[Spectre]

At this point OP you just clearly are not ready for any true kind of relationship. I mean you are worried more about your step bro's reputation then the feelings of your boyfriend. Sweety if you can't see it should never be anything but the other way around then I don't think any of us can give you any advice you will listen to.

 

This guy is not your friggin dad, stop choosing another dude you messed around with and sat half naked in hot tubs with over your boyfriend. If you can't stop then DUMP him. If you want to preserve your shady step bro's rep then fine, but why do you feel you have the right to do so at the expense of your boyfriend? So sacrifice your boyfriend and his own happiness for some other dude, is that the logic?

 

You truly feel this is the way a person in "love" behaves? Also some advice: you pretty much won't ever be able to have a true relationship with your current boyfriend until your step bro is utterly out of your life. See this is why people shouldn't fool around with close friends or step siblings.

 

Just dump the boyfriend. If your bro's reputation is so important then YOU make the sacrifice for it, not your boyfriend. So that is why I keep saying dump him.

[The Way I Am]

LOL - that is clueless.

 

What in the heck does "health" have to do with relationship priorities? Tell that to all of the partners with cancer-stricken S.O.'s.

 

:lmao: Are you doing this deliberately? Orije clearly didn't mean physical health.

 

The reason OP should tell her bf is because the issue has come up. The bf's suspicions aren't 100% baseless even tho the things that happened were before OP met him. The right thing to do is to come clean and face the consequences. Or let bf go so he can find someone who will put him first.

 

You're wrong about the only reason to be honest with your partner is to remove your own guilt. The reason is to have an emotionally and mentally healthy relationship.

 

The way I see it, the only reason NOT to be honest is to trick a partner into staying with you when you know they wouldn't if they knew they truth. That's not integrity, and that's not love. If someone wants to have a relationship based on deception, that's their choice, but I feel sorry for the person they're deceiving who thinks they have someone who actually loves them.

Edited December 24, 2015 by The Way I Am

[Spectre]

The most depressing thing is I can already tell there is a 95% chance the OP will not tell her boyfriend the truth. With a 99% chance at some point in the future she will indeed do one of the following with her shady bro: half naked hot tub shenanigans, flirty messages on FB, flirty wrestling, etc. But hey she won't do it in front of her boyfriend so HOW COULD HE EVER BE UPSET? Right guys?

 

OP I will ask you this: can you guarantee you will never enter another hot tub again with this man? Never wrestle him again? You also should probably avoid FB convo's. Basically do you feel if you continue to lie to your boyfriend that you will never ever cross the line with your step bro? I also want to point out I am not just talking about you doing these things while your boyfriend is around. See because if you behave shady when he is not around it doesn't mean the shadiness didn't occur, you know?

 

You can of course guarantee this right? That you will never speak to him on FB again, and pretty much avoid any physical contact with him. Oh and also avoid ever ever hanging out alone with just your step bro? The fact that you specifically have had to put effort into not doing these things when your boyfriend is around(when it should be automatic and common sense, not a thing you need to put effort into. Not hot tubbing half naked would other dudes shouldn't be a challenge).

 

Or here I know a way to maybe get through to you: what if another girl was treating your step brother like this? If HE was dating a girl who was behaving like you..would you want him kept in the dark?

Edited December 24, 2015 by Spectre

[Space Ritual]

Op's story is descending into Hee Haw territory.

 

Maybe Floyd Lawson and Goober Pyle will show up from Mayberry and provide some common sense...LOL

[Space Ritual]

The most depressing thing is I can already tell there is a 95% chance the OP will not tell her boyfriend the truth.

 

I think the most depressing thing is I keep coming back to this thread to see how long OP can keep this Hillbilly Love Story going. Christmas is pretty boring at the Space Ritual House right now, so I need something to keep me sane. And this being it is a true indictment on my sanity...lol

[kgcolonel]

I have a couple of thoughts here:

 

1. you speak as a devout Christian, as am I. However you are setting a value on different sins which if you really know the Word, is not correct. A sin is a sin. Lying is Lying is a sin just like pre-marital sex. (Everyone - please i am not judging as I absolutely failed this one myself many times) but it is what it is. One is not worse than the other except you keep doing one over and over again and wondering why your BF is not convinced.

 

2. I personally suspect either your SB is giving away his feelings for you (trust me, no matter what a guy says, it is likely he in fact may be jealous of your BF and giving off that vibe that your BF is picking up on.) I hear you say that your BF is asking about what your SB can see etc....doesn't sound like he asking about your behavior as much as to what and where your SB is and what he is up to. This suggests to me that he doesn't trust the intentions and actions of your SB.

 

3. Eighteen year old males in general are just plain ho_ny all the time. No matter what they say, if it's exposed, at that age, not only will they look but they will be aroused. This is coming from a "former 18 YO Male.

 

What should you do???

 

I agree that at this stage, you should both protect yourself first in not disclosing the past with your SB but you should never dismiss your BF's questions and comments. You should ask him what he needs from you to feel secure in the relationship. Patience with him however.....I think you do know that at some point this will surface whether once you two become more serious and this detail needs to be shared or, and I really have no idea about the true character of your SB but he has a lot of leverage over you now and my fear is that he could use this to either undermine your relationship with your BF or control you in some way.

 

At some point you will need to come forward with your future Husband to protect and respect the relationship. I am sure you know the "Don't build your house on sand" phrase.

[trishaweston]

Wow, i know I asked for honest advice, but.... some of you guys can be really rough!

 

Colonel, I completely understand what you are saying. Yes, I know at some point I must tell him, since it will have been an issue for us in the past, but like I said right now it would only add to the drama. But I do get your point.

 

Spectre, it seems you have a problem with how close my brother and I are. But I can respect that. I can understand how someone who doesn't know us well might think something is going on. I really think you have to appreciate how we grew up to understand all the dynamics of our sibling relationship.

 

When our parents first married they moved us 2 hours outside our city. We had to make new friends and we had no car and there were few neighbors around. I was in 8th grade, and my brother was in 9th, and it was really hard for both of us to fit in. We really only had each other to rely on, and we ended up quickly getting past the awkwardness of the 'new step' thing and became like best friends. Then there was our living situation. Our parents were never home and our rooms were both downstairs, with our own bathroom, a hot tub, and a rec room with a tv, pool table, etc. We would hang out together every day and eventually we got to know each other better than probably anyone else did. We shared secrets like BFFs.

 

Eventually, one thing led to another and for a few months early on, some lines were crossed. It started with us cuddling while watching tv, and progressed to some make out sessions and petting, but nothing more. After almost getting caught by our parents, we realized what we were doing and both felt ashamed. We made a vow to revert to just brother-sister and never mention what we did to anyone else, ever. Since then both of us have been true to that, but we have only grown closer as a brother-sister.

 

So yes, I know what it might look like, but there is nothing going on between my brother and I, sexual or otherwise. My feelings for him are completely different than my feelings for my bf. With my brother, I feel like a sister, and I love him like a brother. But with my bf, I feel like a woman, and a love him like a man. It's a totally different feeling and vibe. The tickling and play fighting and taking baths together in the hot tub is just the result of us living together and being around each other almost EVERY day AND night the past FOUR years. It has nothing to do with any inappropriate intentions or desire on our parts.

 

But your point is understood. I have to remember how it might look to someone else. That is why I am making sure how I act when my bf is over, not to do anything that he might take in the wrong way.

 

As a side note, last week my friend told me that when she was driving by my house, she saw my bf's car parked two blocks and one street over. Then she saw him walking towards it as if coming from my house. That is extremely odd because the time was about two hours after he allegedly left my place and went home. OMG, do you think my bf could have been spying on us after he left?! I wouldn't think he's the type to do something crazy like that, but with his strange behavior lately I wonder. That would be actual STALKING!!! :eek:

[Poutrew]

Wow, i know I asked for honest advice, but.... some of you guys can be really rough!

 

 

 

 

This is the conversation you will eventually be having with your boyfriend. But probably not with this one, unfortunately...

 

 

Eventually, one thing led to another and for a few months early on, some lines were crossed. It started with us cuddling while watching tv, and progressed to some make out sessions and petting, but nothing more. After almost getting caught by our parents, we realized what we were doing and both felt ashamed. We made a vow to revert to just brother-sister and never mention what we did to anyone else, ever. Since then both of us have been true to that, but we have only grown closer as a brother-sister.

 

 

 

 

 

 

As a side note, last week my friend told me that when she was driving by my house, she saw my bf's car parked two blocks and one street over. Then she saw him walking towards it as if coming from my house. That is extremely odd because the time was about two hours after he allegedly left my place and went home. OMG, do you think my bf could have been spying on us after he left?! I wouldn't think he's the type to do something crazy like that, but with his strange behavior lately I wonder. That would be actual STALKING!!! :eek:

 

 

 

Yes, it could be considered stalking behavior. But, do you realize just how twisted up your BF must be to feel the need to do this? Trish, he knows you are lying to him. You are keeping secrets, and his mind is filling in all the sordid details... When you finally do tell him, (and when will that be - after you are married?) you are going to say...what? You just made out with your brother, but nothing else happened? Do you realize that to him it is going to sound like something we here on this board call "Trickle Truth". That's when a wayward spouse finally begins confessing the affair, but only telling the betrayed spouse what they already know, and nothing more. He is going to keep pressing the issue, and he wont be satisfied until you finally admit how many times you had sex with him. Whether you did anything or not, you are going to sound like a wayward spouse. And your BF will just say that if nothing really happened then why did you keep this secret all those years - the horrible secret that you did what? Nothing abnormal? That you only kissed you brother and made out with him when you were a couple of dumb kids? He wont believe it...

 

 

Remember, if your boyfriend is very religious, then he is currently evaluating your suitability, not for sex, or even for wife material, but in terms of "Is this girl worthy of him placing his seed in her field and growing a healthy crop?" He will look at your not telling him as a betrayal, period. It is for this reason I would at this point, the point where you turned him into a stalker skulking around the back alleys for the truth, that I would urge you to cut him loose to find a woman with the same moral values he has. You may be a Christian, but you do not share his morals...sorry for the bad news. You might make someone happy, but not this someone...

Edited December 24, 2015 by Poutrew

[The Way I Am]

As a side note, last week my friend told me that when she was driving by my house, she saw my bf's car parked two blocks and one street over. Then she saw him walking towards it as if coming from my house. That is extremely odd because the time was about two hours after he allegedly left my place and went home. OMG, do you think my bf could have been spying on us after he left?! I wouldn't think he's the type to do something crazy like that, but with his strange behavior lately I wonder. That would be actual STALKING!!! :eek:

 

Yeah. That's the kind of thing that can happen when you have a young person who feels in their heart that their partner is lying to them. They can do nutty things, because they haven't learned yet that when they feel that way, it's a sign to walk away.

 

How do you not see what you're actually doing to your bf?

 

You're convinced that your bf only started suspecting because he looked at your fb page. But the looking at your fb (if he in fact did that) could have been a result of his unease not the cause of it. He probably started feeling uneasy from the start (didn't you say you could tell he was uncomfortable before the fb thing), and that's why he looked at your fb. What he saw just gave him enough that he felt like he should finally confront you about it.

 

How come you don't answer the questions where ppl ask how you would feel in similar reverse situations?

[Spectre]

Colonel, I completely understand what you are saying. Yes, I know at some point I must tell him, since it will have been an issue for us in the past, but like I said right now it would only add to the drama. But I do get your point.

 

But you realize that the longer you sit on this the worse it gets, right? This won't be easier to handle a year from now.

 

Spectre, it seems you have a problem with how close my brother and I are. But I can respect that. I can understand how someone who doesn't know us well might think something is going on. I really think you have to appreciate how we grew up to understand all the dynamics of our sibling relationship.

 

Nothing about how you grew up would excuse fooling around with the dude. Nothing would excuse you ever getting into a hottub with this dude whilst dating your boyfriend.

 

Eventually, one thing led to another and for a few months early on, some lines were crossed. It started with us cuddling while watching tv, and progressed to some make out sessions and petting, but nothing more. After almost getting caught by our parents, we realized what we were doing and both felt ashamed. We made a vow to revert to just brother-sister and never mention what we did to anyone else, ever. Since then both of us have been true to that, but we have only grown closer as a brother-sister.

 

Again: after this incident you still went hot tubbing with the guy IN YOUR PANTIES. You seriously don't see the problem?

 

So yes, I know what it might look like, but there is nothing going on between my brother and I, sexual or otherwise. My feelings for him are completely different than my feelings for my bf. With my brother, I feel like a sister, and I love him like a brother. But with my bf, I feel like a woman, and a love him like a man. It's a totally different feeling and vibe. The tickling and play fighting and taking baths together in the hot tub is just the result of us living together and being around each other almost EVERY day AND night the past FOUR years. It has nothing to do with any inappropriate intentions or desire on our parts.

 

You don't love him like a man because you refuse to treat him like one. You also shouldn't have to put in effort to not hot tub with a dude you used to fool around with while you are in a relationship. Again..why isn't this something you understand?

 

But your point is understood. I have to remember how it might look to someone else. That is why I am making sure how I act when my bf is over, not to do anything that he might take in the wrong way.

 

But you don't see how sick this is? You have to specifically take care as to how you act around this other men you used to fool around with. That means it takes an effort for you to not behave inappropriately.

 

When is the last time your bro saw you in your panties? Or went hot tubbing with you?

 

As a side note, last week my friend told me that when she was driving by my house, she saw my bf's car parked two blocks and one street over. Then she saw him walking towards it as if coming from my house. That is extremely odd because the time was about two hours after he allegedly left my place and went home. OMG, do you think my bf could have been spying on us after he left?! I wouldn't think he's the type to do something crazy like that, but with his strange behavior lately I wonder. That would be actual STALKING!!! :eek:

 

Okay just please dump your boyfriend. You're so utterly disrespectful it's getting ridiculous. Yes your behavior is driving him nuts because he KNOWS something is up and you continue to act like it isn't oh and you lie to him oh and you know what he suspects is valid and yet you constantly seem to dismiss him and just label him crazy when you are the one hot tubbing with your friggin step bro half naked.

 

It'd be one thing if you weren't so disrespectful about it because you know damn well you fooled around with your bro and are lying to your boyfriend and making a fool of him..but you sit and act like he is crazy to feel the way he does.

 

If you love your boyfriend then just set him free. You aren't a good girlfriend. You're just going to steal more years of his life until you eventually do drop this bombshell. I hope you're prepared to give up your step brother forever in order to appease your boyfriend, because you realize that is the ONLY way he will probably ever forgive you if you wait to tell. So just curious: let us say a year or two from now you tell your boyfriend. He says he can forgive you as long as you never talk to your step bro again. Let us assume at this point you are no longer living under the same roof as the guy you used to hot tub with and mess around with. So what happens when your boyfriend tells you to choose?

[The Way I Am]

It'd be one thing if you weren't so disrespectful about it because you know damn well you fooled around with your bro and are lying to your boyfriend and making a fool of him..but you sit and act like he is crazy to feel the way he does.

 

This is true. The way you talk about your boyfriend, it's like you're looking for an excuse to break up with him that makes it his fault.

Edited December 25, 2015 by The Way I Am

[Space Ritual]

Getting my popcorn ready....

[trishaweston]

Way, I'm not "doing" anything to my bf, but yes, I did admit that I can see how he could get the wrong impression. That is why I said I'm going to watch myself when he's over here, and make sure not to play around with my brother in front of him anymore in a way he might misinterpret as "flirting". No more play fighting, tickle fights, water fights, nothing that involves any touching. And I also admitted that I would also be jealous if the roles were reversed, but the cuddling and stuff happened a long time ago, and since my bf moved back I've been scaling back the time I spend with my brother to spend more time with him. I also have tried to pay more attention to him when he's here, so he doesn't feel like a third wheel. So yes, I can understand some of the jealousy, but I have made compromises in this area to help him with that, and to show him he doesn't have anything to worry about, and he knows this. I think if the roles were reversed and I could see my bf making efforts like that, I don't think I'd be nearly as jealous at all. Especially with it being his SISTER!!! Now maybe if it was an ex-gf living with him, then I might get really jealous.

 

Spectre, I sense you have a hang up with us sharing a hot tub, cuz you keep bringing it up. I can understand that cuz of how it might look, but I think you would have to know our history to have the proper perspective. Right after we started living together, our shower went out. At first we tried using our parents', but as we are all shower hogs here that wasn't working. Eventually we decided to just put a bunch of bubble bath into the hot tub and take baths together. With shorts or a swimsuit on, of course. It seemed to work out great, and I know this sounds weird, but it was actually kind of fun taking a bath again, kind of like being a little kid again. By the time our shower got fixed, we had gotten so used to taking our bubble baths, that we just kept doing it. I know it may seem weird, but it's sort of a family tradition for us now. It doesn't mean anything, and both of us think of it as just like hanging out in the pool together, only the water is hot and there is bubbles, and we wash ourselves and shampoo our hair, instead of just swimming or sunbathing. And yes, at some point I did start just getting in in my underwear, and I know how that might look, but it was only for convenience. It was too time consuming for me to always change into my bikini, and seeing how my panties actually covered me as much if not MORE than the bikini did, I saw no need to continue to waste 10-15 mins or more changing before bath time every night. In fact, I think my bra and panties are actually more appropriate for this purpose because of the wet factor. Although you can see right through them when they are wet, my bikini is white and is also somewhat see through too, only it is not lined where it counts and if you look closely you can see stuff. My underwear is lined where it counts so you can't actually see any private parts, even though they become fully transparent everywhere else. But yes, Spectre, I understand how this looks and so I am going to start wearing a swimsuit from now on, which is really a compromise on my part IMO cuz it's a real pain in the butt, believe me, especially when I'm in a hurry to go to bed cuz I have to get up early. Changing into a swimsuit for a girl is not like just throwing on a pair of old jeans.

 

And I don't think my bf is "crazy" for being jealous of us, no, but I do think it's a bit different than thinking the same thing about a non sibling. I just think that the "ick" factor alone should be enough that normally you wouldn't be suspicious of something like that from your SO, especially one that you know is a Christian. I mean, it takes a special kind of girl to lie and cheat behind your bf's back, but it takes a really special girl to do it with her own BROTHER! Just thinking about it makes me ill, and when my own bf who I love so much starts thinking I might go there, well that really makes me question his impression of me.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

 

The way I see it, the only reason NOT to be honest is to trick a partner into staying with you when you know they wouldn't if they knew they truth.

 

 

 

"The way (you) see it" simply is not relevant to "the truth", and "the way (you) see it" clearly has no basis in "the truth".

[SincereOnlineGuy]

Oh and also avoid ever ever hanging out alone with just your step bro? The fact that you specifically have had to put effort into not doing these things when your boyfriend is around(when it should be automatic and common sense, not a thing you need to put effort into

 

 

 

And it remains completely absurd to reference "common sense" while envisioning a world wherein step siblings living with their married parents would "never be alone" in the home with one another.

 

Why even bother writing such fictional visions?

[SincereOnlineGuy]

But, do you realize just how twisted up your BF must be to feel the need to do this? Trish, he knows you are lying to him. You are keeping secrets, and his mind is filling in all the sordid details... When you finally do tell him, (and when will that be - after you are married?) you are going to say...what? You just made out with your brother, but nothing else happened? Do you realize that to him it is going to sound like something we here on this board call "Trickle Truth". That's when a wayward spouse finally begins confessing the affair, but only telling the betrayed spouse what they already know, and nothing more. He is going to keep pressing the issue, and he wont be satisfied until you finally admit how many times you had sex with him. Whether you did anything or not, you are going to sound like a wayward spouse. And your BF will just say that if nothing really happened then why did you keep this secret all those years - the horrible secret that you did what? Nothing abnormal? That you only kissed you brother and made out with him when you were a couple of dumb kids? He wont believe it...

 

 

 

 

 

Speaking of twisted-up, your very effort at being sincere in your reply is twisted-up given that you so willingly referenced "... your brother...", as if these were two people from the same gene pool who took baths together when they were ages 2 and 3, and who have continued to mix and mingle on the steady path until now.

 

 

These two then-young teens were tossed-together, in a household, and moved miles out of town, away from their former friends, and made to begin what was effectively a new life there, with only one another as allies... and they are allowed (religion or not) to have had natural draw to one another at that point. Had one of them (had a far less fortunate prior upbringing, it may well have gone well beyond where it went with them).

 

 

So now, after that introduction (lets call it), the two of them have had to evolve further into life, from that point, and as such, they are allowed to have various hurdles which are unique and unknown to the rest of us.

 

To treat them as, oh, the equivalent to next-door-neighbors who might so easily click one another off at will, is absurd.

 

 

Furthermore, there is no "affair" here... (that we know of - yet)

 

 

So how about you stay with the facts and leave the fiction for another thread.

[Space Ritual]

And it remains completely absurd to reference "common sense" while envisioning a world wherein step siblings living with their married parents would "never be alone" in the home with one another.

 

Why even bother writing such fictional visions?

 

 

Sincere Online Guy....

 

Hold that thought....

 

I need to make some more popcorn. The entertainment value of your indignation is worth the wait as it's making my entire Christmas Eve. If it wasn't for you and Trisha I'd be at the strip joint right now. You both are saving me a ton of money and possibly exposure to an STD.

[The Way I Am]

"The way (you) see it" simply is not relevant to "the truth", and "the way (you) see it" clearly has no basis in "the truth".

 

Thinking your perspective is "the truth". Yep that's totally rational and sane.

 

Sorry, but your opinion is no more the truth than anyone else's. Please continue to enlighten us with "the truth".

[The Way I Am]

Way, I'm not "doing" anything to my bf

 

You're hiding something from him, and he can sense it. He's got to be feeling pretty distressed if he's snooping and spying on you.

 

You think that he can't sense that you're lying, but I'm telling you that some people can. It's painful to have your partner treat you like it's all in your head and it makes you question yourself and your own sanity.

 

I understand how this looks and so I am going to start wearing a swimsuit from now on, which is really a compromise on my part IMO cuz it's a real pain in the butt, believe me, especially when I'm in a hurry to go to bed cuz I have to get up early. Changing into a swimsuit for a girl is not like just throwing on a pair of old jeans.

Ok. Bathing in the hot tub is worse than what I was thinking you were doing. That means you're in there every day (I assume that's how often you bathe). I thought you just shared the hot tub occasionally.

 

Fine you had to use the hot tub at one point. (Tho you never had to use it together.) But you don't anymore.

 

Wouldn't it save you a lot of time and hassle then to just use the shower now that it's fixed?

 

Is the tradition of hot tub bathing more important than your boyfriend?

 

Just thinking about it makes me ill

I know I said it was gross, but it's not "makes me ill" gross. The only reason I think it's gross is because two step siblings were inconsiderately hooking up few feet away from where I was trying to sleep. I don't think it's that big of an issue for most people.

 

You're probably over-reacting. And the degree of your reaction (along with the flimsy justifications you just gave for spending regular underwear bubble bath time with sb) does make me wonder if it's an overcompensation.

 

Sorry, I don't mean to be a jerk. But I feel like the more you say, the more I think you actually do want your step brother. I try to take posters at their word, but you're making that very difficult.

Edited December 25, 2015 by The Way I Am

[anna121]

But ugh this entire line of thought falls apart because why wasn't she thinking "gee what if he tells people" when she decided to mess around with her step brother?

 

(I am sure the convo has evolved but can't help from responding)

 

Um. B/c she was fourteen yrs old?

 

FFS.

[Sparta]

This whole thread says troll. The OP couldn't be this ignorant or naïve... It's just funny how she would more extensively about stepbrother and her sexual relationship. Had truth to it that she really needed help. Then I'm truly sorry... OP and Love Shack

Edited December 25, 2015 by Sparta

[Space Ritual]

Popcorn!!!

LOL I'm going with "probably not much for that Fancy Book Learnin'" as the default answer into the whys

Edited December 25, 2015 by Space Ritual

[veggirl]

The thought of prancing around half naked in front of my brother, SITTING ON HIS LAP and giving him back rubs makes me want to puke. You are very out of line in your interactions and no one who thinks of someone as a sibling acts like that! Making sexual jokes with him?! That's inappropriate! Would you act this way with another unrelated male in front of your bf?

 

Would you be okay with your bf sitting on a girls lap and watching her in her underwear? Give her back rubs?

[Space Ritual]

The thought of prancing around half naked in front of my brother, SITTING ON HIS LAP and giving him back rubs makes me want to puke. You are very out of line in your interactions and no one who thinks of someone as a sibling acts like that! Making sexual jokes with him?! That's inappropriate! Would you act this way with another unrelated male in front of your bf?

 

Would you be okay with your bf sitting on a girls lap and watching her in her underwear? Give her back rubs?

 

 

It is why I don't think this is anything but a troll thread and haven't for a couple of days. As more people became indignant the content of the creative writing increased, although not the quality. It is why I have been cracking the hillbilly jokes. If someone was really having this type of barnyard conundrum and was a true Goober like Trisha is portraying herself as, she would have been going through the roof with insults toward me. Because one thing that Goobers cannot tolerate being called is a Goober.So that in and of itself lent me to believe it was nothing short of trolling. They would drop everything to defend themselves from somebody like me insinuating they were a backwards hillrod if they were real.

 

But it was worth sticking around when Sincere Online Guy bought the whole thing hook line and sinker. He was like the gift that keeps on giving. I'll stick around for some more fireworks if they come. lol

[Spectre]

And it remains completely absurd to reference "common sense" while envisioning a world wherein step siblings living with their married parents would "never be alone" in the home with one another.

 

 

Common sense means you don't hang around alone with dudes you used to experiment with. So maybe that is kinda why you don't do that with people you can't avoid being alone with? Or is that some crazy foreign concept?

 

The best X-mas present the girl can give her boyfriend is to leave him.