midthirtiesguy Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 I'm nearing 35 and I haven't had any success with women. I've never had a girlfriend or relationship and have been rejected by every woman I've ever been interested in and asked out since Jr. High School. I'm really hopeful 2016 is the year that I can change that. How do I become interesting enough for a woman and how do you know when a woman is actually into you vis-à-vis being polite and how do you make yourself attractive? Link to post Share on other sites
PegNosePete Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Travel. Take up new hobbies. Get a new wardrobe. Lose weight and get in shape. And most importantly... practice. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
lilmissjava Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Confidence is key. 2016 should be a new beginning for you. Join a gym and get a new haircut. Invest in a new wardrobe and join some meetup clubs. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
d0nnivain Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Do you have any close sisters or female cousins you can ask for assistance. You need to figure out what you are doing wrong so you can turn it around. Are you well groomed? Do you make eye contact? Are you interested in women as people not just as sex objects? Do you put yourself out there to meet new people? How are your social skills in other areas of your life? Link to post Share on other sites
Redfisher Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Do not wait for them....You must make the effort. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 seek out a dating coach. Sometimes you can get one for free. They will help you with appearance, how to set up a better dating profile, and make suggestions on where to meet women. Link to post Share on other sites
truth_seeker Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Travel. Take up new hobbies. Get a new wardrobe. Lose weight and get in shape. And most importantly... practice. Glad you mentioned those two... I know I got in trouble with some for mentioning one of them. Link to post Share on other sites
truth_seeker Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 I have to ask: are you a decent looking guy? If you got looks, women will be into you. Let me also ask you: are you picky? I mean, there is someone for everyone. I'm single right now because I'm picky. I won't date over weight women, women who are divorced, women with kids, women with tatts, women who smoke, women 35+, with that being said, it puts a dent into my dating options. If you have zero standards, you can definitely get yourself a woman. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
hasaquestion Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 "If you build it, they will come" - Field of Dreams (1989) 1 Link to post Share on other sites
WaitingForBardot Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 JOOC, how many girls/women in total have you asked out since Jr High? How many in total did you ask out in 2015? Link to post Share on other sites
BronzeAgeJaeger217 Posted December 22, 2015 Share Posted December 22, 2015 Well another male FA thread who is 25+ years of age, really must an epidemic in this generation, I can sort of relate and I'm thinking it might be best for me to get off this forum permanently, because it probably is too much of a distraction that only adds fuel to fire in making me turn out to be a bigger FA 1 Link to post Share on other sites
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