MidwestUSA Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I'm short, brunette, AND a little bit older! Am I getting closer to making the cut? 8 Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveweary11 Posted December 23, 2015 Author Share Posted December 23, 2015 What happened to the tall blonde? Decided there needed to be at least some level of physical excitement. Broke it off with her over Art Basel weekend. Link to post Share on other sites
mrldii Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I'm short, brunette, AND a little bit older! Am I getting closer to making the cut? Ditto. Which, of course, means I'm going to dye my hair blonde, get my bones stretched, and put a lid on my *sparkling* personality. Yanno... ...just to stay *safe*. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I'm thinking.. Do you two live close to eachother! I'm not really interested unless LW has some tits I'm unaware of. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveweary11 Posted December 23, 2015 Author Share Posted December 23, 2015 Funny cos' I watched Shallow Hal tonight, not that I'm comparing you! But that it seems that a lot of people are very much beauty oriented when they aren't exactly "beautiful themself" .. I always wonder whether it's media today and constantly having people on shows and what not telling us what beauty should be.. Are we not expecting too much and aiming above our stations? I dunno. My case is a little different. I never,ever do what other people are doing. Try to do the opposite as often as possible actually. I don't own a tv, so not many media things in my face. Just girls in real life, on Instagram, Snapchat. I just go with what physically gets me going. Primally, as a guy. You know what I'm talking about. You're a guy. Some girls will do it for you some won't.? Last week's learning experience was that even a girl that doesn't initially get you moving can in fact do so once a warm, compatible personality comes out. Girl was exceedingly young, so not pursuing anything with her, but I learned. Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveweary11 Posted December 23, 2015 Author Share Posted December 23, 2015 I'm not really interested unless LW has some tits I'm unaware of. Dead Scarfing down pounds of bacon and birthday cakes while wearing a training bra. But na... I took one of those supermarket deli "now serving" numbers. I think I got #59. A lot of other dudes ahead of me, including the one being served right now. Link to post Share on other sites
Rejected Rosebud Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 What happened to the tall blonde? What about the playboy bunny?? 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Samhain Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I'm not really interested unless LW has some tits I'm unaware of. Haha!! Well, you never know! Link to post Share on other sites
Samhain Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Dead Scarfing down pounds of bacon and birthday cakes while wearing a training bra. But na... I took one of those supermarket deli "now serving" numbers. I think I got #59. A lot of other dudes ahead of me, including the one being served right now. If she doesn't see the potential in those t*ts then she's nuts! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I do have to say: LW11's threads ARE A LOT more entertaining than the whining that typically goes on here. A refreshing change of pace. Have you ever thought of writing a book? You could be a seafaring version of Tucker Max If you finally get your boat to work that is.... 5 Link to post Share on other sites
StBreton Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Ya I'll have to agree with others...when I saw "boring" and LW as the thread starter...incongruent ...had to do a double take Anyway LW ... I feel you've made a breakthrough from "unnatural hot (porn style appearance) combined with a natural lifestyle preference" and very young (from prior thread by xxoo) to... "natural sorta/kinda hot combined with a natural lifestyle chill persona preference" and a bit older ... good choice there. Commendable. Most porn star hot gals aren't going to be the minimalist types...the makeup, clothes, shoes, need for exciting urban lifestyle constant affirmation of beauty is more of what you're going to find. The porn star gals might be excited about your lifestyle for a short time, but they'll get bored. This is your post from the "tall blue eyed hot blond best girl ever" thread ... the girl was hot but you didn't feel the attraction that you do for the short brunettes. "I am looking for a cool pornstar looking type." So I see some growth in your philosophy ... this new girl is not the porn star hot that you normally gravitate toward. It's a good move LW...look for a kinda hot naturalist...who seeks excitement from adventures and not urban excitement. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Robert Z Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 (edited) Maybe you should try the gay thing? I understand where you're coming from. More than ever, in fact I never did before, I believe in true love and I suspect that's what you want, as do I. I also suspect that she could be a bald Amazonian woman and it wouldn't matter if you fell for her. But I also agree that you shouldn't be so picky. You never know who might trip your trigger. When in doubt, resort to the math and play the numbers. That was my thought. This led to 50 or so coffee dates. But I think I finally found a good one. Even though she is very beautiful and extremely fit, she doesn't seem like my type at a glance. But the more I get to know her, the more I like her. Edited December 23, 2015 by Robert Z 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Tayla Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 LW, So pleased that you are turning another chapter. Its good to see a positive approach come from this stage of dating. I've nothing but well wishes for you. You are a wandering soul, finding your own way. And doing so on your terms and time frame. I must be one of the few that comprehended your revelation in a self effacement way, with good intent! Have you found more depth to the gals that is attracting you? Would you say you are more open to varying personalities? In due time it will start to be this change in priorities that will blend well in your relations...may it bring you a loving relationship. Best to you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Taramere Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I'm short, brunette, AND a little bit older! Am I getting closer to making the cut? I'm short, blonde and older...but I haven't ruled out the possibility that with botox, brown contact lenses and some hair dye I might be the one to raise the mast on Loveweary's boat. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
Robert Z Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I'm not really interested unless LW has some tits I'm unaware of. I think you should dom him for a week. That will straighten him out! 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveweary11 Posted December 23, 2015 Author Share Posted December 23, 2015 I do have to say: LW11's threads ARE A LOT more entertaining than the whining that typically goes on here. A refreshing change of pace. Have you ever thought of writing a book? You could be a seafaring version of Tucker Max If you finally get your boat to work that is.... Boat works fine. She's gone several hundred miles with no incident. Just not pretty inside yet. Books... honestly, you have no idea. I barely shared anything here. It gets much, much more crazy and wild than this. Have done an incredible amount of things in life and interacted with even more "out there" people. The stories... Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveweary11 Posted December 23, 2015 Author Share Posted December 23, 2015 Maybe you should try the gay thing? I wish!!! No chance of it working though. Dudes gross me out... Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveweary11 Posted December 23, 2015 Author Share Posted December 23, 2015 LW, So pleased that you are turning another chapter. Its good to see a positive approach come from this stage of dating. I've nothing but well wishes for you. You are a wandering soul, finding your own way. And doing so on your terms and time frame. I must be one of the few that comprehended your revelation in a self effacement way, with good intent! Have you found more depth to the gals that is attracting you? Would you say you are more open to varying personalities? In due time it will start to be this change in priorities that will blend well in your relations...may it bring you a loving relationship. Best to you. Thank you and yes... exactly. Not only are looks opening up, but personalities as well. Realized one of the ones I left back in NY who was stuck there was really good. Disqualified her based on her being stuck. Reached out to her after this revelation. But... too late. She doesn't like me anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveweary11 Posted December 23, 2015 Author Share Posted December 23, 2015 I think you should dom him for a week. That will straighten him out! I have a pretty flexible schedule this winter. Let's make it a month. I'll even have extravagant, expertly cooked meals awaiting her when she returns from work. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author loveweary11 Posted December 23, 2015 Author Share Posted December 23, 2015 Thank you! It's definitely a journey. Trying to grow and it's not very easy, but it's happening. I obviously kept choosing all the wrong ones. Time to choose differently... Ya I'll have to agree with others...when I saw "boring" and LW as the thread starter...incongruent ...had to do a double take Anyway LW ... I feel you've made a breakthrough from "unnatural hot (porn style appearance) combined with a natural lifestyle preference" and very young (from prior thread by xxoo) to... "natural sorta/kinda hot combined with a natural lifestyle chill persona preference" and a bit older ... good choice there. Commendable. Most porn star hot gals aren't going to be the minimalist types...the makeup, clothes, shoes, need for exciting urban lifestyle constant affirmation of beauty is more of what you're going to find. The porn star gals might be excited about your lifestyle for a short time, but they'll get bored. This is your post from the "tall blue eyed hot blond best girl ever" thread ... the girl was hot but you didn't feel the attraction that you do for the short brunettes. "I am looking for a cool pornstar looking type." So I see some growth in your philosophy ... this new girl is not the porn star hot that you normally gravitate toward. It's a good move LW...look for a kinda hot naturalist...who seeks excitement from adventures and not urban excitement. Link to post Share on other sites
Imajerk17 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 (edited) Boat works fine. She's gone several hundred miles with no incident. Just not pretty inside yet. Books... honestly, you have no idea. I barely shared anything here. It gets much, much more crazy and wild than this. Have done an incredible amount of things in life and interacted with even more "out there" people. The stories... Perfect. Can title "The cabin needs work but the mast goes up just fine. A loveweary man's quest to find adventure and head to horizons...." I'd buy a copy man! Edited December 23, 2015 by Imajerk17 3 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 I think you should dom him for a week. That will straighten him out! I have a pretty flexible schedule this winter. Let's make it a month. I'll even have extravagant, expertly cooked meals awaiting her when she returns from work. Be careful what you wish for, the experience can be ....life changing. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
craw Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 Great news that you're still out there meeting women! I dunno why you're waiting to travel though... Link to post Share on other sites
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