random tears Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 hey ya- I am 26 my boyfriend is 32...the problem is he doesnt speak english and I dont speak spanish....we speak enough to get by. We have been together for 11 months now. Lately, I have been really confused about his actions. It seems like he is being really decietfull with me or maybe he always was only I never caught on..or maybe it is our language barrier...at any rate, I need help! I now live with him at his persistance and insistance, have been for about 6 months. I do truly love him...people, dont start! I can hear you saying "how do you know you truly love him if you cant understand him" trust me, I know....who has advice???? ******* Seriously, I need help....I dont have family, or friends to go to for advice...I am on my own little island, and I feel like I am sinking....fast. He seems to have a with people, very charming, lots of family and friends...LET ME GIVE YOU ONE TINY IRRELEVENT EXAMPLE of what I mean: Okay...So naturally I eat with him and his family...welll......sometimes I am really confused about the meat that they cook so I ask...and they tell me it is pork or chicken. I DO NOT EAT COW MEAT...(nothing religious, I am just scared of it) anyway, he AND his family tricked me mutiple times telling me it was pork...No, I didnt know the difference because they season it so much and some pork looks dark like meat.... I seem to be dealing with issues of deciet both large and small, but I am not sure if it is just the food deciet or true deciet...I sense something amiss...not sure what....HELPP MMMMMEEEEE! Link to post Share on other sites
RoxStar Posted June 1, 2005 Share Posted June 1, 2005 I would imagine part of it is the language barrier. How can you truly communicate when you speak different languages? I guess there is no universal language of love. I suggest you brush up your Spanish and he brush up his English. Link to post Share on other sites
Author random tears Posted June 6, 2005 Author Share Posted June 6, 2005 Thank you for your advice...I guess that seems to be the common concensus.... Link to post Share on other sites
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