Henley Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 My ex and I broke up 6 months ago after a very difficult period with no sex, fights and growing apart. I have had my doubts for years, but it all exploded 6 months ago. Since she moved out we have not been able to let each other go. We are not committing to trying again but every time we go NC we break it (often it is me). I have seen another girl since the breakup my ex does not know off. I have ended it with her and started seeing my ex. After a few days we get cold feet and do not really commit (mostly me) and then break it off again. We have been going like this for 6 months. It is killing us. I miss her when she is not here, but also seem to be able to take the decision to let her move in and believe in this again.... Should we just dive into it or let go and go NC....??? Link to post Share on other sites
privategal Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 You dont want her but dont want to fully move on or let anyone else have her. Shes your comfort zone..not the "one" your true love or you wouldnt even have to ask. Let her go. When you know...you KNOW. Link to post Share on other sites
justanotherguy1 Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 It looks complicated. The problems as far as i see arent really that bad and u can both work on fixing it. you need to both sit down and have a mature conversation on what you both want and whats best. If you both think its worth trying again then u should go for it, but if there are always cold feet then u need some more time apart and then see what happens. Link to post Share on other sites
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