jase112 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Try to make this short as possible. My X girlfriend broke it off with a text at 5 am. She said, I'm sorry I need time on my own. I find myself always irritated with you for no reason and it's not fair to you. It's all me, I have issues & I need to find out what it is that I want. A lot of things bother me now & I wish they did not. You are a very nice guy but I want more. Right now you have the drive & motivation to be a good father but I want more. I'm taking financially, I'm not asking for someone to pay my bills but some one to be at the same level or better, that's a big one. A few days later I went to her place to picked up my stuff & her daughter came to the door. When I got home she texted me. Sorry I couldn't even have the guts to see you face to face.You are such a nice guy, and you deserve someone that is 1000x better than me.Again sorry for everything. & this is not anything that you did, it is all me. I have to be happy with myself before I can make someone happy.I hope you don't hate me. I didn't respond that was 2 weeks ago. So should I let it be NC? Or did she leave it open with that last text? Confused & heart broken. Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Leave it. She's looking for a sugar daddy. I'm guessing she has her sights focused on one already. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
greenleaves54 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 You should let her go. It's very likely that she found someone else. Make her live with her decision and disappear completely. There is absolutely nothing you can do to change her mind. Grieve, but not where she can hear or see you. It will get better! Good luck! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
LostInNC Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 Money should not be big enough to stop someone from being with another person. If they truly love someone money would not matter. She is looking for someone to fund her life. I would move on and find someone who won't look at my bank account. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Erik30 Posted December 23, 2015 Share Posted December 23, 2015 You do realize that letting go and moving on both mean the same thing right? So you probably already know what you should do. Walk away. She straight up told you that you're too "poor" for her, below her level. She didn't leave anything open. She might come back some day if she's not able to find a rich guy, but you shouldn't settle for someone who treated you like that. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author jase112 Posted December 24, 2015 Author Share Posted December 24, 2015 Thanks for the advice. Helps put light to the situation. The reason I'm so confused is that it took her a year & 1/2 to see money was a issue. I didn't respond to her text, I took the high road & I was cool. Now I'm pissed & I want to give her a piece of my mind! Link to post Share on other sites
D.r.e Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 Thanks for the advice. Helps put light to the situation. The reason I'm so confused is that it took her a year & 1/2 to see money was a issue. I didn't respond to her text, I took the high road & I was cool. Now I'm pissed & I want to give her a piece of my mind! DON'T DO IT!!! Use it to better your situation instead. The best revenge is massive success. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
NopeNah Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 DON'T DO IT!!! Use it to better your situation instead. The best revenge is massive success. This! Let her make her own bed(she might like it btw) and focus on yourself.. When financial status comes up during a break up,it's over(at least for now,but do not take her back!).. I can not stand women like this! Once I see their true intentions I bounce...normally.. Some of them are sneaky...like my ex! Link to post Share on other sites
Captivating Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Thanks for the advice. Helps put light to the situation. The reason I'm so confused is that it took her a year & 1/2 to see money was a issue. I didn't respond to her text, I took the high road & I was cool. Now I'm pissed & I want to give her a piece of my mind! Hi, Yes, take the high road and walk away!!! I am so glad that you have dignity to do so. Being shallow is a flaw in her personality, please don't punish her for that. You know how it is, what goes around comes around Also, I sense that you are an awesome guy, please don't let your pride or ego get in your way. You should always have more class than her. Always be classy, Sir !! I know grief, anger, depression.....all part of the grieving process , just don't act out on it! It won't solve anything, just make things worse. You will be just fine, there are many many girls who would love to have you, I'm sure. Keep your chin up 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Ic1 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Didn't read any post. Just had to respond to the title: Let her go OR Move on? It's the same thing. Link to post Share on other sites
Author jase112 Posted December 27, 2015 Author Share Posted December 27, 2015 Yes I know the title of my posts is screwed up. It was a error. When you make a post after 2 hrs you can't correct. Thank you people again for advice. Each day it's getting a little easier. Link to post Share on other sites
cupcakebunny Posted December 28, 2015 Share Posted December 28, 2015 Thanks for the advice. Helps put light to the situation. The reason I'm so confused is that it took her a year & 1/2 to see money was a issue. I didn't respond to her text, I took the high road & I was cool. Now I'm pissed & I want to give her a piece of my mind! I wouldn't. She is looking for money and little else. She'll learn. While yes, money problems can cause A LOT of problems in a relationship, it doesn't make one better. She'll never be happy until she sits down and figures out how to do it for herself. Go find yourself a person that is sincerely looking for a companion. You deserve better. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Chronotrgr Posted December 28, 2015 Share Posted December 28, 2015 Money should not be a factor in any relationship, this is the first I've heard of a woman walking away from a man over how much money he has, I honestly wouldn't bother if I was in your shoes, unless you suddenly come across a money tree, but could that take the feelings of degradation away that you probably felt upon reading that text message?, if you ever do by chance land on a pot of gold, be sure to find a nice lady who has no interest in it, I feel for you, I'm sorry this had to happen to you. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Glynda Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 I think it's best to let her go and move on with your life. For her, it seems like money is very important and you don't need someone like that. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
nutter78 Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 I may be jaded but move on and find someone who appreciates you for you! And if you need to improve in life then do it but know that the person you will ultimately be with is the person who will be by your side through thick and thin and support you to be the best person you can. Link to post Share on other sites
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