Any experiences with online bdsm-style relationships?

[mavlast]

I'm a loner and proud of it, and since my depression has been acting up lately I don't really feel like dating anyhow. Has anyone ever tried findom/femdom/online humiliation who can share their experiences? I'm just kind of looking for something casual and am wondering if it might be something to try.

 

The few problems I see are that some of the guys who are REALLY in to in can spend hundreds/thousands of dollars, all on some girl who doesn't really care about him. I could never do that. But maybe your experience is different. Thoughts?

[jen1447]

I doubt you'd find any inexpensive option if the woman is a 'professional.' She'd have to have a reason to do it, which means the $ keeps flowing in at an acceptable rate. She won't likely do it out of the kindness of her heart, and depending on how accomplished she is it may get pretty costly.

 

You could try a webcam girl if you just want to pay what you feel like, kinda like tipping a dancer. A dicier option would be to try to get an agreeable friend to virtually smack you around - might not cost anything but you'd have to risk being exposed as a bdsm guy to other ppl you know.

[AspenBaldwin]

I would spank you for free if you were a brit.