Bobbi7 Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 I'm getting frustrated with OLD, I have such high hopes that I will meet a guy as good as the last, but it seems like it's come to a halt. I bunch of guys just message, I message back, then nothing. I can't deal with the rejection. Link to post Share on other sites
Snakechammah Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 Aww I hear ya. Same here. I've deleted my profile eons ago - it didn't make me feel any better. Just a little bit relieved that I'm not putting myself out there anymore. Sometimes, in my sudden burst of social-gratification, I find myself wanting to go back into OLD again... and then just as easily, I delete my account after just a week! To no doubt search for the right man, but like you, I feel extremely JADED hoping a decent, level-headed, healthy-minded man could exist! I wish we can man-shop as easily as picking out a nice panty from Victoria Secrets! Doesn't work that way... I'll just rely on the universe to someday give me a good guy. I wish the same for you! Link to post Share on other sites
FadedSign52 Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 How big is your list of requirements for guys? Give a few guys that may not meet all of them a chance and go on a few dates with them and they may grow on you. A lot of women seem to be extremely picky when it comes to online dating... Link to post Share on other sites
sportygirl89 Posted December 24, 2015 Share Posted December 24, 2015 (edited) I hadn't been on OLD in a couple years. Signed in an account saw the prospects and when I signed out I deleted it. Edited December 24, 2015 by sportygirl89 Link to post Share on other sites
aprilisi Posted December 29, 2015 Share Posted December 29, 2015 I deleted my okcupid account recently. Never get any mail anymore. And never get approached in public either anymore. I have accepted at 38 I will die alone. I have been trying for three years. I don't know what's worse being alone. Or all the rejected. Guess I'm about to find out Link to post Share on other sites
GingerVixen Posted December 29, 2015 Share Posted December 29, 2015 I deleted my account a few weeks ago and it was a relief for me. Not only because I just met jerks and weirdos there - I could spend the whole night telling amazing stories about my dates - but also because I felt like I was wasting time I could be spending trying to meet real guys in my real life. Link to post Share on other sites
Snakechammah Posted December 29, 2015 Share Posted December 29, 2015 I deleted my okcupid account recently. Never get any mail anymore. And never get approached in public either anymore. I have accepted at 38 I will die alone. I have been trying for three years. I don't know what's worse being alone. Or all the rejected. Guess I'm about to find out Aww.. Don't worry, we are all in the same boat. I wish I could take you out, meet my girlfriends and we can all go manhunting together! A support network is always best. Link to post Share on other sites
five2nine Posted December 29, 2015 Share Posted December 29, 2015 I deleted my okcupid account recently. Never get any mail anymore. And never get approached in public either anymore. I have accepted at 38 I will die alone. I have been trying for three years. I don't know what's worse being alone. Or all the rejected. Guess I'm about to find out You aren't alone. I am 32 and I get a message a week if I am lucky. 90% of them have one-word messages like "Hi". I don't get asked out in RL. I thought I was decently good looking but maybe I was wrong I always end up deleting my account after 2-3 weeks. Link to post Share on other sites
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