johnpennington Posted December 25, 2015 Share Posted December 25, 2015 To try to keep this as short as possible: she came onto me and initated the first date. We met and I became infatuted with her. She has a lot of drama in her life but I was willing to accept it all. For 3 weeks, I would drive up to her, hang out, and hook up. We both liked eachother. After this, she randomly ran into her ex (2 ex's ago) and they hung out, hooked up, and are trying to work things back together. According to her, she didn't want to break up the first time and used excuses like "it was bad timing" "we were both stressed and things just blew up and he told me he never does second chances" "his mother is mentally ill and put stuff in his head and that also caused us to fight" she also told me "i dont know if things are fixable" which doesnt sound too assuring for their 2nd relationship. She said she's not just going to take him back, theyre going to just see eachother for now and ease maybe ease back into it. She told me she felt so bad cause she really liked me and she said "its not that i dont like u or dont think about u, its just a really rough situation" and shes put a pic on facebook calling him "her best friend" She still flirts with me occasionally. She told me last week via text "you looked good in your new pic on facebook all cleaned up" i said "think so?" she said "yeah i do" and sent a smiley face Obviously, I cant put my life on hold for her, but what do you all think the chances are of us hanging out again? Even if its just sex Id take that. Link to post Share on other sites
Erik30 Posted December 25, 2015 Share Posted December 25, 2015 If you just want sex, that might happen because you're basically her rebound and back up in case things don't work out with her ex. Just date other girls in the meantime, don't waste your time to see if they get back together or not. Link to post Share on other sites
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