tsa902 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Should I wish my ex a happy birthday next month? I do wish for a reconciliation. She does have a new bf couple of months after breakup. However, Im not waiting or hoping for her to come back. Im just doing whats best for me. Link to post Share on other sites
angel.eyes Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Deep down, you know the answer to this. A big fat, NO!! Focus on your healing. She has already moved on if she's dating someone else. You need to too. Hoping for reconciliation is a fool's errand at this point. It's over. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
privategal Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Absolutely not. An ex isnt part of your life anymore, special days are reserved for friends and You will get to the point you no longer care if her birthday is happy. While you were dating her would you like if an ex reached out to her? Just keep going. It shows strength and confidence to not reach out on these days. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author tsa902 Posted December 26, 2015 Author Share Posted December 26, 2015 Thanks for the advice guys. Yes, i wont wish her anything. She probably wont care anyway to be honest. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Mcnulty Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 Good for you, please do not wish her Happy Birthday. Little mad story..11 days ago after 2 and a half months NC, I got a Happy Birthday, then, (big mistake) chatting every day. Xmas eve, her:" I've come home to flowers, guessing they're from you?" Ha, nope..the ex psycho she was with from 3 years ago..I was so pleased we were talking, then this!! Then yesterday, her: " I didn't want to ruin your day, but he sent me a happy Christmas message" I said thank you for the info and that's it..poof, she's gone again for the last time, unbelievable...why message me on my birthday and engage with me?? Knocked me back when I asked to see her on Monday..what a fool i was, thought she wanted to properly re engage...this is what can happen when nothing has changed. Good luck on yours and mine healing process. Link to post Share on other sites
11012015 Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 Should I wish my ex a happy birthday next month? I do wish for a reconciliation. She does have a new bf couple of months after breakup. However, Im not waiting or hoping for her to come back. Im just doing whats best for me. This this way: Why would you want a girl who left you for another guy? Whether that happened while you were together or after is irrelevant. She didn't think you were bf material anymore and thought another guy was. Have some self-respect. If it helps, think of them having sex and her screaming his name. So the answer to your question is NO. Link to post Share on other sites
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