todreaminblue Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 as another poster suggested not everything a woman does either physically or psychologically is for a mans better view..... a couple of years ago i bent over to look at a trail of ants going into a crack in the cement....unfortunate that i spotted those ants at that particular time as there was a guy behind.....i didnt even think about him...i had ants on my mind they were leaf cutters...they had bits of leaves and had a procession of little ant bodies going on.....what was actually going through my head was......the ants come marchin one by one...the ants came marching one by one.hurrah hurrah...i was not thinking oooh the guy i like can see my bum.hurrah hurrah..even though it does rhyme.. i was definitely 100 per cent being a geek and thinking of ants...so there you go ...thats maybe what women think about....like me....ants...and ant songs...deb Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted December 31, 2015 Share Posted December 31, 2015 No? Oh newmoon, how demure you seem. What if she gives a little glimpse of garter or somehow lets you know that she's not wearing panties? Would that be accidental? You'd probably be surprised at what a sensual, mature woman might do if she's motivated and has some confidence in her assets... and truth be known, the more mature and sophisticated, the more we appreciate it. This is true.. I was only a kid at the time, but vividly remember the bra-less craze in the 70's...There were several times my dad almost wrecked the car when some woman was walking down the street as we drove by.. TFY Link to post Share on other sites
Popsicle Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 Unfortunately, I don't really have cleavage to show, but if I did, I would do this. Because why not? It sounds super fun. I would love to do it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 Unfortunately, I don't really have cleavage to show, but if I did, I would do this. Because why not? It sounds super fun. I would love to do it. Every woman has cleavage to show. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
MissBee Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 I saw in an other thread that this girl posted she was doing that on purpose to send signals to a guy she was into. I'm not sure I ever thought about this before. Do some of you ladies do this to us guys on purpose? Because this has been done to me many times while girls seemingly have no idea that they are providing an easy opportunity to look down their shirts... No. My cleavage exists. I can't do anything about it. Even tops that aren't supposed to really show cleavage often still show cleavage for me, so I don't need to go out of my way to do that. But that's also not my style. I'm way more subtle than that and while I want a man to be attracted to me, I don't want to lead off with trying to entice him with boobs or blatantly sexual stuff. 4 Link to post Share on other sites
WaitingForBardot Posted January 1, 2016 Share Posted January 1, 2016 as another poster suggested not everything a woman does either physically or psychologically is for a mans better view..... a couple of years ago i bent over to look at a trail of ants going into a crack in the cement....unfortunate that i spotted those ants at that particular time as there was a guy behind.....i didnt even think about him...i had ants on my mind they were leaf cutters...they had bits of leaves and had a procession of little ant bodies going on.....what was actually going through my head was......the ants come marchin one by one...the ants came marching one by one.hurrah hurrah...i was not thinking oooh the guy i like can see my bum.hurrah hurrah..even though it does rhyme.. i was definitely 100 per cent being a geek and thinking of ants...so there you go ...thats maybe what women think about....like me....ants...and ant songs...deb I was waiting for the... "and we've been married 20 years now!"... ..lol.. Link to post Share on other sites
PPan Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 Depends on the woman's age. If she's 28+ years old she's probably past the attention-seeking behavior, but if she's in the facebook age group(18-25) then they are probably doing it to get attention, on purpose. I have even seen girls in the middle of the street wearing flimsy futuristic clothes that enabled every guy who still had any vision at all to see that she was wearing a thong and nothing more beneath the cape she was wearing. Yeah, I'm sure she was wearing it because it was comfortable. Link to post Share on other sites
seekingluck Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 (edited) I am busty. I don't do this. Probably because my mom was always telling me to cover up my cleavage. I also accidentally brush my boobs against people. I forget how much space they take up. Now if I am alone with someone special, I might show off some cleavage for that person's benefit. I did semi-purposely not wear underwear. I was wearing a modest dress that day. The guy I was dating was quite surprised when he figured out it during a hug. It made the rest of the evening quite exciting till we got home. Edited January 2, 2016 by seekingluck Link to post Share on other sites
craw Posted January 3, 2016 Share Posted January 3, 2016 Threads like this are redundant - unless you're speaking about a specific situation there are SO MANY different types of scenarios. I have a busty MILF girlfriend, she doesn't like to wear tops that cover her cleavage, it makes her feel suffocated. The poor girl even gets back pain and get never find the right sports bra to fit her. The issue with cleavage is that IT IS ALWAYS DISTRACTING, even sometimes I have to consciously avert my eyes away from a rack. So yes, sometimes women do it - sometimes it's not done on purpose. I have shown my cleavage - not on purpose, but it happens. If I wear a lululemon yoga top that is super tight - POW. Do you think I want to look sexy when I go to a yoga class? No - I'm about to sweat obscene amount of buckets. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
thefooloftheyear Posted January 3, 2016 Share Posted January 3, 2016 (edited) Its funny how the dynamics play out differently between the genders... As a guy with a muscular body, pretty much every time I have to interact with a woman in regular life, I notice many wind up with their eyes scanning my arms, shoulders, etc...They think I don't notice, but it's so obvious... Additionally, I have had various parts of me grabbed/felt over the years by strange women so many times, i cant count...And the crazy part is that I never try to show anything...I even wear long sleeves when its warm! Its sort of embarrassing, but hey, whatever... Now you have some women with huge racks wearing skin tight v -neck tops, bouncing their way down the street, and if they catch a guy taking a quick look, they get bent out of shape...Go figure... TFY Edited January 3, 2016 by thefooloftheyear 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluefeather Posted January 3, 2016 Author Share Posted January 3, 2016 Threads like this are redundant - unless you're speaking about a specific situation there are SO MANY different types of scenarios. I am (or was) speaking about a specific situation: the consensus of women who would bend over on purpose, if at all. I even used a setting to narrow things down: ...my question was in context of a more casual setting - say at work. You trample on my thread and then give input anyway, when I already got my answer 2-3 pages ago. Talk about redundancy... Link to post Share on other sites
craw Posted January 3, 2016 Share Posted January 3, 2016 bluefeather seems defensive. hmmm Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluefeather Posted January 3, 2016 Author Share Posted January 3, 2016 bluefeather seems defensive. hmmm I'm not sure what kind of game that was meant to start here, but I have no interest in playing. Link to post Share on other sites
Jane_Tee_11 Posted January 22, 2016 Share Posted January 22, 2016 Is this post a joke? Men sexualize breasts? How about that they are a major fertility indicator and we are naturally interested in them? Then you compare ogling to trespassing and making demands. Trespassing and making demands? Getting to my boyfriend's house to do 'unspeakable things' to him is a far stronger sign of fertility than the size of my breasts combined with having to bend over to pick something up (rather than for the nearest man who thinks it is all about him when it's not). Link to post Share on other sites
blueskyday Posted January 23, 2016 Share Posted January 23, 2016 I accidentally show cleavage all the time when I bend down to pick something up or do something low to the ground. Most gentlemen avert their eyes. Only creeps take a good long opportunistic look. I don't mind the guys on the street who admire my figure with a glance as I walk by. Discretion is the key. For both men and women. My mom used to tell me not to fish with sexual bait. It only catches the worst men!! But, yeah, with a boyfriend, in private, I bend over or flat out flash him my boobs. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PinkInTheLimo Posted January 23, 2016 Share Posted January 23, 2016 Cleavage? What cleavage? I have many assets but big boobs is not one of them :-D. Perfectly happy with them but their "in your face" level is very low. Link to post Share on other sites
acrosstheuniverse Posted January 23, 2016 Share Posted January 23, 2016 I accidentally show cleavage all the time when I bend down to pick something up or do something low to the ground. Most gentlemen avert their eyes. Only creeps take a good long opportunistic look. I don't really think it's fair to say men are creeps if they end up looking for a while. I obviously think it's the guy's responsibility not to stare so much they purposefully make you feel uncomfortable, and not to say anything inappropriate, but having 90% of your breast visible other than the nipples IS extremely distracting, I'm a straight woman and even I find it hard not to glance when someone has serious cleavage going on, and I don't even find it attractive! It's an intimate part of your body, when I go out with loads of cleavage on show (not often, nothing against people who do) I'm well aware of guys staring and I don't judge them for it... if I find it hard not to look at someone's chest when it's on display, I have no idea how difficult it must be for guys not to stare... 4 Link to post Share on other sites
notoriginal Posted January 23, 2016 Share Posted January 23, 2016 I would never do this. Then again, I'm not looking for a relationship based purely on sex. Link to post Share on other sites
LivingWaterPlease Posted January 24, 2016 Share Posted January 24, 2016 I know you got your answer two-four pages ago, bluefeather (think that's the OP's name?) but my answer is different so thought I'd weigh in (excuse the pun). No, I absolutely never try to show cleavage or any other parts of my body I consider private to attract a man I'm not involved with already. I favor wearing simple elegant clothing that covers up private areas and make every attempt to move in such a way that nothing personal is revealed. I'd much rather attract a man initially through eye contact, smiles and conversation and have found it's possible to attract top of the line men this way. When I'm in a committed relationship, though, I tend to dress in a more provocative way for dates or at home. However, I still am careful not to reveal too much, through clothing or behavior, when out in public as I don't care for other men to view areas of my body that are private. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
jen1447 Posted January 24, 2016 Share Posted January 24, 2016 I don't really think it's fair to say men are creeps if they end up looking for a while. I obviously think it's the guy's responsibility not to stare so much they purposefully make you feel uncomfortable, and not to say anything inappropriate, but having 90% of your breast visible other than the nipples IS extremely distracting, I'm a straight woman and even I find it hard not to glance when someone has serious cleavage going on, and I don't even find it attractive! It's an intimate part of your body, when I go out with loads of cleavage on show (not often, nothing against people who do) I'm well aware of guys staring and I don't judge them for it... if I find it hard not to look at someone's chest when it's on display, I have no idea how difficult it must be for guys not to stare... I'd say there's a creep line, and some of it's on us bc we have to own the situation if we're putting it out there. So ....if I'm deliberately going around in a low cut top and bending over and flashing boobs for whatever reason, I'll personally tolerate a guy looking longer than normal as long as he's someone who could realistically have a shot w/me (sorry if that sounds mean), and as long as the look doesn't cross over from good-natured admiration to "I want to rape you." That's the creeper line for me. (You should also calmly look away after a couple seconds if I catch you.) If you meet the first two criteria I'll probably even smile back at you - without there being any tacit indication that I want you to take a shot. btw the rules are diff for women. Not fair I know, but tough s**t. I'll let a woman stare at my boobs all day. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
blueskyday Posted January 24, 2016 Share Posted January 24, 2016 I wear higher necklines, but if I bend down, then I will accidentally show cleavage. A glance or a quick look from a guy is ok. It's often unavoidable to not notice sudden displays of cleavage. But, most guys look away after a second. Creeps stare longer because they don't have manners, and think only about themselves and their own prurient interests. A woman has the right not to be ogled. Glances and looks are fine. Long creepy stares are not ok. Same with men. They don't deserve to be ogled by women for their muscles and nice butts. I'll glance discretely, however. ? Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluefeather Posted January 25, 2016 Author Share Posted January 25, 2016 Wonderin how many times I must repeat this. It looks like a lot of you are missing the point. I was not asking for opinions on walking around and getting glances. I was asking about those who specifically bend over, attempting to make it appear unbeknownst, when it is, in fact, on purpose! Anyway, this thread is so last year... 1 Link to post Share on other sites
bachdude Posted January 25, 2016 Share Posted January 25, 2016 Breasts are designed for feeding offspring, if they have been sexualized, then it is men who have sexualized them... Haha I'm quite certain there was no real choice on my part to sexualize women's breasts! I'm pretty sure mother nature had a little something to do with it! Link to post Share on other sites
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