smackie9 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 I was more or less referring to the fact they said everything women do is for men's attention. Not referring to flirting. Lingerie, high heel shoes, cosmetics, push-up bras, and plastic surgery isn't a multi-billion dollar industry for nothing. We will show a little cleavage, leg, flash the tramp stamp, etc to get attention. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
preraph Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Just because a woman bends over and you see some breast doesn't mean it's done for your benefit. Look, I'm a 60 year old woman and there's a girl at work who wears low-cut stuff and bends over every freaking day. Quite sure she's not flirting with ME. Makes me uncomfortable, but I like the girl and just try to avert my eyes! There's another one at work with big ones that always show too much cleavage because she wears her blouses way too tight. Nothing to do with me. So you can't assume anything other than maybe she's not the most appropriate dresser. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
Amalyn Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Lingerie, high heel shoes, cosmetics, push-up bras, and plastic surgery isn't a multi-billion dollar industry for nothing. We will show a little cleavage, leg, flash the tramp stamp, etc to get attention. Lingerie, high heels and push up bras would be done more for a boyfriend, not just some casual man. Link to post Share on other sites
Jane_Tee_11 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 (edited) Really, though? Even if it's a guy you like or one you're seeing? You've never sort of bent over playfully? I mean obviously, I wouldn't do that to some random dude in a coffee shop or something, but as a flirty tactic to someone I'm dating? I knew that without fail, if I bent over in front of my ex, I'd get a playful little slap in the rear. That was fun. I don't think it's immature at all to appreciate someone's body. No, respect starts before you even interact with a man. Now, will I send a cleavage pic to a man I'm dating and looking forward to seeing later on? Yes, I will do that, because I want him, he wants me, it has been established. I do not use sex and sexuality to draw men in though[] Edited January 23, 2016 by a LoveShack.org Moderator 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Jane_Tee_11 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 A better (and less angry, foaming at the mouth) analogy would be the assumption that a guy bought a fancy car in hopes of getting women's attention. The closest analogy to what you're proposing (actually physically climbing into that car) would be some version of assault. People go to great lengths to me noticed, you still should keep your hands to yourself. Other than the foaming at the mouth part (must be a man who is intimidated by women who directly disagree), you've made an excellent point.... probably why I friend-zone men who buy expensive cars. They are a depreciating asset..... buy something practical and donate the rest to an orphanage. Link to post Share on other sites
shoplocal Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Yep! When trying to get a specific man's interest. Definitely not to attract every man I happen across. 3 Link to post Share on other sites
StBreton Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 see a lot of guys answering for women, but you are only guessing. I am looking for real confirmation from ladies... Absolutely I do. I accentuate my feminine side. Tight jeans, pumps, slight cleavage showing ... There's a reason we evolved to look the way we do ... Why fight it? If I felt differently I'd wear one of those granny looking outfits the fundamentalist Mormon girls wear or a burka. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author bluefeather Posted December 26, 2015 Author Share Posted December 26, 2015 Yep! When trying to get a specific man's interest. Definitely not to attract every man I happen across. Thank you. This is practically the only person (some few still) who gave me a simple answer to my question. The rest of you are arguing about who knows what... Link to post Share on other sites
losangelena Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 I'm more of a "bend over to show my butt" kind of gal, but yes this is a thing that happens. I answered your question two pages ago. Link to post Share on other sites
DC77 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 (edited) Of course there are women that do this on purpose. Seen Erin Brockovich? That type of stuff really happens. And a low cut top with a little lean forward and arm squeeze to get someone's interest or attention, yep. If I'm into you on a date, yep and yep... But there are other times though when they're just kinda out there and cleavage just happens Edited December 26, 2015 by DC77 1 Link to post Share on other sites
PrettyEmily77 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Yep, in role-play situations with the BF. Other than that, no. I prefer to look at a guy straight in the eyes with a little smile if I want his attention - worked a treat on the BF, which is lucky as he's not a cleavage guy. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Lingerie, high heels and push up bras would be done more for a boyfriend, not just some casual man. Single women who are looking for a BF??? YES!!! I do not know of any heterosexual man, including my husband that are against it. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
losangelena Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Single women who are looking for a BF??? YES!!! I do not know of any heterosexual man, including my husband that are against it. Really?? The men I know prefer burlap sacks! They work every time! :bunny: Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Oh hell no that is so not true. All women do all kinds of different moves to get a man's attention....it's in our genetic code. One of them is called the bend and snap. We also do the hair flip, mirroring, etc. I had to do some google research. Google is good. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Lingerie, high heels and push up bras would be done more for a boyfriend, not just some casual man. So when not in a relationship you/women never use those items? Link to post Share on other sites
road Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Showing cleavage is just PART of the dance, along with eye contact, flirting, etc. It's called sex appeal.....it's ok to use it....it's empowering. Women should never be slut shamed for showing off their femininity/sexiness. Though some women when using their assets, whether their frontsets or rearsets do not know the difference between being flirting a bit and appearing cheap and easy. Link to post Share on other sites
frus69 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 I may wear something low cut because I find it sexy but if I bent down, that'd be because I dropped something..not to impress a man. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 I never look at a woman's sexuality as cheap and easy. If it appears as cheap and easy, they are doing it wrong.......but that will vary depending on one's perspective. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 I may wear something low cut because I find it sexy but if I bent down, that'd be because I dropped something..not to impress a man. ....again that depends on interpretation of the one who views the action. Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Whether it's intentional or not.....enjoy the view guys! Link to post Share on other sites
smackie9 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 I had to do some google research. Google is good. There's also the bend, snap to looks back. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Jane_Tee_11 Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 (edited) The only realistic man I've seen post in this threat is the 60 YO who acknowledged he knows it is not for him, but he still enjoys it without assuming it is for him. Boom. There is your answer. Edited December 27, 2015 by a LoveShack.org Moderator Edited for civility & respect ~ V Link to post Share on other sites
CrystalCastles Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 Methinks the female posters who are making fun of Jane Tee's post are probably jealous of her breast size and are also probably flat chested and have nothing to show anyway... I've had my share of men stare down my shirt. I don't even wear revealing clothes. I certainly don't bend over to show my cleavage to some random dude. Or even to a date. What happens in the bedroom is a whole different story, but I don't purposely draw attention to my breasts outside of that. Link to post Share on other sites
xcupid Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 Lingerie, high heel shoes, cosmetics, push-up bras, and plastic surgery isn't a multi-billion dollar industry for nothing. We will show a little cleavage, leg, flash the tramp stamp, etc to get attention. Amen! And it works. Link to post Share on other sites
xcupid Posted December 27, 2015 Share Posted December 27, 2015 Whether it's intentional or not.....enjoy the view guys! Views are meant to be appreciated...sometimes even admired. Link to post Share on other sites
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