Learning_tobe_better Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 (edited) About 6 weeks ago I got dumped out of the blue. In my opinion our relationship was great as we were in the get to know you phase. We did get hot and heavy the last night were were together but no sex. She was into me and I was falling for her. 6 hours later she ended the relationship via text. I figured she found someone else but of course when someone breaks up with you they never tell you the truth. When I was with her she told me about her Pinterest account. Last week I found her Pinterest account and she had no posts out there the time we were together, she was happy texting and seeing me in-between texting, she was happy no time to post. In the last 3 weeks she posted quotes about love, clicking with someone, you just know when someone comes into you life its meant to be, and then a day later she posted about cleaning an oven and then lastly she posted its not about who hurt you, or broke you down but who made you smile last. I have no proof she has a guy but I think she does and these are about him. Question is does anyone think it is odd to post these out on Pinterest? Is she trying to make herself believe this is how she wants to feel? I thought when you are in love and happy you don't need to post things to social media. Am I the only one that thinks this? We haven't talked or texted since she broke up. Edited December 26, 2015 by Learning_tobe_better Link to post Share on other sites
Amalyn Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 I wouldn't read too much into her Pinterest account. I have one and my pins of quotes are never a direct reflection of my current mood. Link to post Share on other sites
Hyperfocal Posted December 26, 2015 Share Posted December 26, 2015 I thought when you are in love and happy you don't need to post things to social media. While that is so-so true, it is a weak qualifier for your conclusion. I have an ex who has the quoted behavior, yet look beyond... Is there a connection between your romantic evening and her leaving you? Some anxious-attachment types will do that to you. They want love, start to see it, and run. While hard on you, that is something that rings a bell her, not sure. How long was the rel? And you approximate ages? Link to post Share on other sites
Author Learning_tobe_better Posted December 27, 2015 Author Share Posted December 27, 2015 I don't believe there was a direct connection as it wasn't the only time we were passionate with each other unless she wanted to have sex and I didn't push it, out of respect for her. I do believe she was falling for me and might have panicked and ran. I don't know her as well as I wanted to but I have been around long enough to not to want to make it about sex, I want a long term relationship not based on sex. We were only together for 2 weeks and I am 41 she is 35. We were in the getting to know each other phase, at least I was. She has told me no one has treated her so well in her life and she didn't think guys like me existed anymore. Link to post Share on other sites
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