My girlfriend texted guy friend drunk, unbelievable reply from him!

[Prince6174]

Hi Guys,

 

I have been with my girlfriend for almost 11 months. Binge drinking problems galore. The other night, she went to a club all by herself. Ladies night out. I had no problem. I went out with my friends. I got a text that she needs a ride at 2 am. She got smashed. I offered her a ride. I saw that she texted two guys. One was her ex boyfriend and other her guy friend whom she met in a wedding about a month ago where I was not with her. She was maid of honor. Ex boyfriend text was not that bad and I didn't mind at all. He was teasing her. I thought that is fine. But the text she got from her male floater is blew my mind. She was talking **** with him that how she got smashed, sent him a pic of her getting drunk and stuff. I thought that is fine. Then this is what he wrote, "I really liked when you sat on my face at the wedding". WTF.

 

Time to RUN?

 

Don't understand why I always find these girls. I met the girl in a bar. That explains.

 

What you guys think?

 

Thanks in advance.

[bathtub-row]

This girl is nothing but trouble. Texting other guys? Completely unacceptable. And if or when she cheats on you, she'll blame it on being drunk. I would dump her over this.

[bubbaganoosh]

You answered your own question. She's a boozer and sooner or later it will get her in trouble. Dump her and look elsewhere.

[Sparta]

Did you confront her about the text.? Honestly I wouldn't. you need to show her that's not OK. Why even confront or talk to her about it, Shell just downplay it and lie. If you feel you want to letter know why you are leaving her OK...You need to end the relationship. She needs to learn that there's consequences for her bad decisions.

[Space Ritual]

Your GF is a drunken skank.

 

Have someone else pick up any stuff you have at her place. Seriously I would not even communicate with her again other than to say "Pick up your stuff in the trash bag I left on the porch and get it in 24 hours or I'm donating it to the Hazmat Unit in town."

 

and then delete her from your life. Block her on all social media and then block her phone number and email addresses. I mean it. Disappear and let her and her new Rimjob Romeo ride off into the sunset to a bacteria frap.

 

And It would behoove you to get an STD test. If she will sit on some guy's face at a wedding I'm sure she has sat on more than that on Ladies Night at the Club.

 

Seriously. Get a full STD test as soon as possible. This chick is a walking Petrie Dish.

 

Dude, so sorry. Take care of your health I mean it!

Edited December 27, 2015 by Space Ritual

[Prince6174]

bathtub-row, bubbaganoosh, Sparta, Space Ritual

 

Thanks guys.

 

I did confront her. I didn't tell her that I read everything on her phone. I told her that if she wants to text other guys then door is open. She is free to leave. This is what she said, "I didn't cheat on you". Well, face-sitting probably is not considered cheating in her books.

 

I forgot to add that the guy friend (face-sitting-wedding one) also wrote to her that he is going to bend her and **** her after seeing her selfie that she sent to him while drunk at the club. On the other hand, I was being a good faithful boyfriend all the time. Story of my life.

 

Why it is so hard to find a decent women these days beats me? mgtow may be the only option left for me i guess.

[Sparta]

So you're done with her right.? Did you end the relationship right there.

[Clockwork]

Confront her first. Find out if it is as bad as it sounds. Either way, she shouldn't be texting an ex-boyfriend or a guy who she was canoodling with at a wedding without you. Just wondering, why weren't you at that wedding? That's very strange. 11 months you would think you'd make the cut to go to a wedding with her.

 

 

Anyway, she sounds like a lot of trouble and there are plenty of "girl next door types" that can remain loyal to you. But talk to her first for sure, then make up your mind, although it doesn't sound good.

[Prince6174]

Sparta, I didn't end the relationship yet. I felt bad when she cried because she lost her debit card at the club and someone wiped his ass off with it, buying stuff. So, I had to loan her money for rent. Breaking up with her at this point will be quite painful for her. I couldn't bring myself to break her heart. She is a depressed soul. Eventually, I have to take that step I know. She got problems.

 

Clockwork, I didn't attend the wedding with her because I couldn't get leave from work. Moreover, I was not sure about this relationship after a few months, due to her binge drinking behavior. I could see that she had all the traits of a person who won't be able to hold her ground amid temptation. So, I thought, I should let her go and see if she would remain faithful. Because, without trust and integrity, relationship doesn't mean anything. My 2 cents. I won't be with her all the time to see that she doesn't cheat! I did confront her about texting without getting into specifics. Her reply was that she didn't cheat. So, she lied to me. I think face-sitting is cheating in my book atleast.

 

Thanks for the replies.

[Sparta]

Prince the good news is you're not a lame. The way I see you seem to have a pretty good perspective on your situation.Especially when dealing with a woman good for you. More than capable when dealt a sh*t storm. Yep Sounds like you got it covered, and you're good with what needs to be done. Definitely I would wait for a little while.

[Spectre]

Sparta how is it not lame that this girl treats him the way she does and then he loans her money and doesn't kick her ass to the curb? Dude there is NO chivalry in that! WTF? This is why she treats you this way in the first place.

[SincereOnlineGuy]

Hi Guys,

 

I have been with my girlfriend for almost 11 months. Binge drinking problems galore.

 

Then this is what he wrote, "I really liked when you sat on my face at the wedding". WTF.

 

 

 

Do you even know that this wasn't a situation in which she was drunk and out of control (of her equilibrium) and, while staggering, she landed on the nearest seat only to learn later that somebody's head was already there?

[Darren Steez]

Actively cheating on you, you know and yet you loan her money for rent and you feel bad? She binge drinks, loses her card, while texting a guy who writes he's going to bend her over and yet you still loaned her money and felt bad..

 

dude..seriously..wtf?

[Darren Steez]

Do you even know that this wasn't a situation in which she was drunk and out of control (of her equilibrium) and, while staggering, she landed on the nearest seat only to learn later that somebody's head was already there?

 

Totally explains it. Then when she goes to his house and drops her keys on the floor, bends over to pick them up, then somehow her pants split and the guy doesn't see her and walks into her butt naked

[Spectre]

Do you even know that this wasn't a situation in which she was drunk and out of control (of her equilibrium) and, while staggering, she landed on the nearest seat only to learn later that somebody's head was already there?

 

Even if what you are saying is true(it sounds quite silly but okay) she still doesn't behave in a manner appropriate of someone who actually has a boyfriend.

 

I mean just her sending pictures to other dudes of her getting drunk is strange. But I'm sure you have an explanation for that as well? Maybe she meant to send the picture to her boyfriend and instead accidentally sent it to another man?

[smackie9]

Stop being such a push over and dump her already. It's not where you find these girls, it's why you choose to date this type of girl. Maybe try meeting someone at a coffee shop.

[ExpatInItaly]

Sparta, I didn't end the relationship yet. I felt bad when she cried because she lost her debit card at the club and someone wiped his ass off with it, buying stuff. So, I had to loan her money for rent. Breaking up with her at this point will be quite painful for her. I couldn't bring myself to break her heart. She is a depressed soul. Eventually, I have to take that step I know. She got problems.

 

Clockwork, I didn't attend the wedding with her because I couldn't get leave from work. Moreover, I was not sure about this relationship after a few months, due to her binge drinking behavior. I could see that she had all the traits of a person who won't be able to hold her ground amid temptation. So, I thought, I should let her go and see if she would remain faithful. Because, without trust and integrity, relationship doesn't mean anything. My 2 cents. I won't be with her all the time to see that she doesn't cheat! I did confront her about texting without getting into specifics. Her reply was that she didn't cheat. So, she lied to me. I think face-sitting is cheating in my book atleast.

 

Thanks for the replies.

 

Does this girl not have parents? Can she not go to a bank and speak to a teller? You did not have to lend her any money. I wouldn't hold my breath about being re-paid.

 

She knows you're a doormat, unfortunately. She is playing you like a dang fiddle, OP. And you're enabling it. We teach people how to treat us. You're teaching her she can do more or less whatever she wants and you'll still be around. And even give her money.

 

W..T...F..?

[Space Ritual]

Sparta, I didn't end the relationship yet. I felt bad when she cried because she lost her debit card at the club and someone wiped his ass off with it, buying stuff. So, I had to loan her money for rent. Breaking up with her at this point will be quite painful for her. I couldn't bring myself to break her heart. She is a depressed soul. Eventually, I have to take that step I know. She got problems.

 

What do you mean she lost her debit card at the club and somebody else was using it? So has she reported this to the bank? Has she gotten a new card and gotten these debts forgiven. Surely if it was a debit card it is likely that a purchase would have to have a PIN number associated with it that someone could not steal from her memory bank unless he cracked the code when she sat on his face?

 

So since her Debit card was taken surely her Identity is now in jeopardy and she has been on the phone spending the entire holiday reporting this all not only to the Fraud Division of her bank, but also to the police so any place where the card is used hopefully they can get a CCTV image of the culprit, right?

 

She cancelled everything else right away right?

 

Same for any ATM transaction, since if they have access to the PIN number from the debit card it would be easier to totally take all the money in a few stops at an ATM and not risk having a Face to face interaction with a clerk ?

 

So can you confirm this has all taken place?

 

You didn't have to loan her anything but your foot up her ass.

 

Breaking up is painful, and when you sit on some guys face at a wedding the consequences should be as painful as possible.

 

You don't pay her damned rent. Let Rimjob Romeo pay her effing rent he liked her stank on his face at the wedding so much.

 

Prince, you might as well just stay with her. If you are going to loan her money after what she pulled on you, then she must be tremendously good looking or you have a huge red stamp that says "SUCKER" on your forehead.

 

I'm sorry to be so rotten, Prince, but I am angry for you, because you are not angry enough about this.

 

I'm angry for you because this piece of trash is going to be your undoing.

 

I'm angry for you that you are allowing somebody flashing crocodile tears, a conveniently missing debit card and a suspect cooter in front of you to keep you from doing what you know needs to be done.

 

Get rid of her today and get your damned money back. Wedding guy is not the first guy she has screwed around with since you've been together.

 

She is going to pull your heart out and stomp on it in front of you and you'll be apologizing for bleeding on her shirt.

[Leigh 87]

What a drunken skank.

 

Like space ritual says.

 

It's really easy to keep your legs closed when you're off your face. I've had boyfriends and I've been off my face on drugs and alcohol and had men try and physically pull me towards them and kiss me. I ALWAYS pushed them away.

 

There's no excuse for cheating.

 

She definitely cheated. How else could you explain such a text?

 

Man, that would have hurt. Sitting on his face? I mean, that's def one if the worst ways to find out that your gf is a cheating skank.

 

Just the details were very specific and .....the last thing a bf wants to read

[Leigh 87]

The guys whos faces she sits on should be the ones to pay her rent.

 

Not loyal boyfriends who await patiently at home and pick her up at 2 am.

[ScienceGal]

You should leave her asap.

 

There are good women out there, I am one. Interestingly enough, the last guy I dated was so burned by "crazy" women that he wasn't prepared to be trusting and give me a real chance.

[Prince6174]

Thanks everyone.

 

I know what to do now.

 

I have to stop taking the blue pill and go for the red pill this time. This is it.

[The Way I Am]

You should leave her asap.

 

There are good women out there, I am one. Interestingly enough, the last guy I dated was so burned by "crazy" women that he wasn't prepared to be trusting and give me a real chance.

 

This basically describes about a third of the guys I've dated too.

 

 

FFS Prince, you found out she cheated on you and in response you gave her money! From the point you discovered she was cheating, the heartache and sh*t she puts you through are your own fault for choosing to stay. When you look back on this, remember that you're the one who chose to stay even after you had solid evidence of the type of person you're with. Giving her the money was your choice.

 

 

Dump her before it gets worse and you end up too resentful and damaged to give decent women a chance.

[sandylee1]

Why would you lend this girl money after what she did? This kind of behaviour will have getting used time and time again. I would have ended it right there and then... next time she'll think twice before facesitting.

 

I'm sorry you keep meeting these kind of girls. ... Cheating is just becoming too common with both genders, then they destroy trust in betrayed partners for years to come.

 

Get your cash back and say adios.

[Rejected Rosebud]

Sorry about the face sitting - I am sure that really hurt to see. But really, the binge drinking has been going on the whole time you've been dating and that in itself pretty much renders her NOT a good girlfriend unless what you're into is being trashed all the time - and it seems that's not the case. So this nasty text is probably a blessing for you. You CAN'T ignore that, right? Sorry though.