Tracy21 Posted June 2, 2005 Share Posted June 2, 2005 Ok, I really think I need some major help on this one,something is seriously wrong...well atleast I think so...so it's been like a month since I hooked up with a certain gentleman at a party. HE was very nice, sweet,...talked about all kinds of stuff and this rarely happens. Spent a night at his house but o fcourse nothing happened...we just laid in his bed and talked.....next morning...I woke up.....he asks for my number and says he would call. Mind you at this time my phone was not working...something was wrong with it. It took me about a week to fix my phone. I was really hoping that he would call.....or did he try and couldn't get a hold of me??? I was so stupid enough not to ask for his number..... anyways now I can't stop thinking about him... I really think that we had a connection. Now I will never know...I need to know how I can stop thinking about him and forget this ever happened. I know that I keep asking my self..what if...this..what if..... Link to post Share on other sites
suegail Posted June 2, 2005 Share Posted June 2, 2005 You spent a night at his home. Couldn't you drop by and say 'hey, my phone was out and since I knew you couldn't get ahold of me, I decided to come by.' He might be glad you did. Yes? No? Link to post Share on other sites
ConfusedInOC Posted June 2, 2005 Share Posted June 2, 2005 Originally posted by Tracy21 Spent a night at his house ..... Uhh, you forgot his address already? Couldn't you slip a note under his door? Link to post Share on other sites
Cheeto Posted June 2, 2005 Share Posted June 2, 2005 Whatever you do don't start stalking him or anything like that. I married a woman that stalked me after 1 date...I've since left her...guess I was thinking with the wrong head at the time Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tracy21 Posted June 2, 2005 Author Share Posted June 2, 2005 Don't you think that if I dropped by his house that would be stalking? I know where he lives and everything but I think it would be awkward for me to just knock at his door...I have thought about it but it's out of the question...now I will never know....or do you think that if it's really meant to be...fate will make us meet again? am I being too obsessive or is this a natural feeling? Link to post Share on other sites
Illusion24 Posted June 2, 2005 Share Posted June 2, 2005 fate will make us meet again? Fate is if YOU make it happen. Was he nice, did he seem like a monster...No, it's obvious he likes you because if he didn't # 1 he wouldn't have let you sleep over and not have sex # 2 After NOT having sex with him he still asked for your number... Don't you think this guy was interested...Just swing by and say/leave a note "hey I was in the neighborhood and I wasn't sure whether to stop by but I had problems with my phone here's my number call me some time." That's not hard...but then don't get upset if he doesn't call, he might be with someone else or isn't interested anymore...How long has it been since you've seen/talk to him? Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 2, 2005 Share Posted June 2, 2005 Originally posted by suegail You spent a night at his home. Couldn't you drop by and say 'hey, my phone was out and since I knew you couldn't get ahold of me, I decided to come by.' He might be glad you did. Yes? No? Yeh, go and do just that. Originally posted by Tracy21 Don't you think that if I dropped by his house that would be stalking? I know where he lives and everything but I think it would be awkward for me to just knock at his door...I have thought about it but it's out of the question...now I will never know....or do you think that if it's really meant to be...fate will make us meet again? am I being too obsessive or is this a natural feeling? UHMMMMMMMM HELLO? You SLEPT over at his house! Slept in the same bed. He got your phone number. How the heck now can you see dropping by and seeing him or popping off a note as STALKING??? Sorry, just don't understand that line of thinking. Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 Did you tell him when he asked for your number that your phone was messed up? If not, then you need to set teh record straight. I agree that dropping by his house to tell him about your phone or leaving a note would not seem stalkerish. Stuff like this only looks "stalkerish" if you don't like the person. If you do like them, it seems very thoughtful and sweet. Funny how that works lol.... Do you know his last name? If you are to go to his house or leave a note at his house, then look up his number. All you should need is his first and last name. Unless it is unlisted.... Link to post Share on other sites
Author Tracy21 Posted June 6, 2005 Author Share Posted June 6, 2005 SO, I finally found his number, yeah ....after searching..or is it "obsessively looking" for ways to meet up with hime again...I actually found his digits...but....I am so nervous to even dial...what should I do....I mean I will expect the worse..that he doesn't remember me so I won't be too dissapointed. N-ways let me know what Should I do now..... Link to post Share on other sites
Mary3 Posted June 6, 2005 Share Posted June 6, 2005 Just say " Hey its me Debbie and last thursday nite when you stayed we exchanged numbers but my phone was dead for like a week. I am calling to let you know I had a nice time and did not forget about you. If you get a chance please give me a call " Period. Just try that. If he does not call back then you will know.. Link to post Share on other sites
XNemesisX Posted June 8, 2005 Share Posted June 8, 2005 If you are timid to actually ring him up, then do you know where he works or a place you would be likely to see him? That might make it look more natural. The ideal situation would be for you to bump into him somewhere and then tell him about your phone. if that's not possible, then just gather some courage and call him! Just don't think about it. Dial the numbers and go for it. Don't think about it too much. What is the worst that could happen? He could reject you...OR...this could be the guy for you. If you never call then you will never know... Link to post Share on other sites
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