I want a date with him!

[leah]

Hi, I just recently just started working and there is this guy that works there too anyway is very attractive and I would like to go out on a date with him but the problem is I want him to ask me on the date I dont want to be the one that has to do all the work.I think he is kind of interested in me because I find him staring at me sometimes, I was wondreing if I should talk to some of the other co-workers to drop suttle hints towards this guy??????

 

So if someone has any advice please help!!!!!

[Austin Reed]

First off...if you want to date him then you ask him out. Simple as that. Girls who ask guys out are much more successful then vice versa.

 

Secondly... don't be subtle. Subtly is thing invented by women and only truly understood by women. If he fails to respond to your subtlies you will become frustrated; if he does pick up on it he's gay (no just kidding there)

 

The best way to ask him out would be indirectly. If you work together the best thing to do is get about 4-6 people , yourself and him included, and go to lunch together. Then do this once or twice more reducing the number of people till there is just you, him and one other whom you will arrange to not show up and then it is just you and him in a non-date date. Once lunch is over it leads to the "...we should do this again sometime, I have an idea how about _______?"

 

This is the best way to go so if he does not want to go out it is just you and him and it won't be terribly awkward.

 

Try it.

Hi, I just recently just started working and there is this guy that works there too anyway is very attractive and I would like to go out on a date with him but the problem is I want him to ask me on the date I dont want to be the one that has to do all the work.I think he is kind of interested in me because I find him staring at me sometimes, I was wondreing if I should talk to some of the other co-workers to drop suttle hints towards this guy?????? So if someone has any advice please help!!!!!