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that's not true.... speak for yourself. i don't ... i see people actions and their behaviors.... i suss out people's intentions ..... i see more of someone every single day.

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The outer you is all anyone will ever see in you.

 

Well then, make it count!! Be valuable inner and outer :bunny:

 

Work out, wear good clothes that shows off your best physique, behave in a manner you'd like to be remembered, maintain good karma, and always keep calm.

 

All these outer matters.

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The outer you is all anyone will ever see in you.

Whether it's outer or inner or whatever, I've learnt that people will see in you what they want to see.

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That's not true. If you know someone inside out and you can read them like a book, then it's not only the outter part that is seen.

 

My ex came across as a confident a-hole who didn't need anyone in his life.

Whilst he was still an a-hole (troubled childhood), underneath he was nothing but an insecure little boy (meant in the nicest way possible) who needed lots of love and reassurance.

 

Remember that we are like onions; we have many layers!

 

:)

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The outer you is all anyone will ever see in you.

 

Well of course. But what's more important to note is that we ourselves don't easily see our own inner selves either.

 

Think about how we feel after each emotional personal loss, grief, heartbreak, heartache: we end up discovering and defining another new layer of who we are.

 

Think about how many times you yourself have said "wow, I'm just starting to understand who I am" or "I had no idea this is who I was".

 

But either way, it's still a rather lonely feeling though--that in the whole wide world you are the only one who knows anything about what's going on inside.

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