biffyjoe Posted December 29, 2015 Share Posted December 29, 2015 Hi all, basically a week after me and my ex,split I contacted her saying "I'm sorry for being an ass, I would like to see you again. When are you free?" She replied with "I dont think that's a good idea, hope your families alright. " I then said okay text me if you change your mind" she said "okay have a nice christmas :)" A week later with no contact, a girl commented on my facebook profile pic saying "you're cute" I just replied with a wink face. I know it sounds harsh but my girlfriend did lie to me. I then found out she had blocked me. And then a day later unblocked me. I broke no contact, which was dumb I know, saying are you free new years eve.she said "why would I want to,spend my news year eve with someone who openly flirts with others" I just ignored it and then after another week said "look sorry I didn't communicate with you properly at the end. Like I said text me if you change your mind, have a nice day gotta,run x" she then replied "ok have a nice new year?" I know I overpursued too much and I won't contact her again unless she does first, but I just hope all is not lost. I really love her and even though she hurt me I would like another chance to see if it can work . We were together for 2 years so there is that Link to post Share on other sites
goldway90 Posted December 29, 2015 Share Posted December 29, 2015 (edited) You are chasing too much, apologizing for talking to girls when you're single? come on really! She's your ex now, you need to stop being needy and live your life , flirt left and right why would you care about her atm? it's none of her business. Stop putting her on a pedestal. If you want my advice i'd say ask that girl who said you're cute if she's free for new years eve and have fun. If your EX want to reconcile she knows what to do. YOLO my friend. Edited December 29, 2015 by goldway90 Link to post Share on other sites
Author biffyjoe Posted December 29, 2015 Author Share Posted December 29, 2015 You are chasing too much, apologizing for talking to girls when you're single? come on really! She's your ex now, you need to stop being needy and live your life , flirt left and right why would you care about her atm? it's none of her business. Stop putting her on a pedestal. If you want my advice i'd say ask that girl who said you're cute if she's free for new years eve and have fun. If your EX want to reconcile she knows what to do. YOLO my friend. I never apologised for flirting and this girl moved away. I know I know, I'm not contacting her anymore. She was my first so I have a strong connection with her. I'm trying to be positive but sometimes life gets me down haha Link to post Share on other sites
alicia59 Posted December 29, 2015 Share Posted December 29, 2015 Jealousy is a strong tactic to get an ex's attention. I'm not surprised at all that she made that comment after seeing what the girl posted. I'm watching it work for my brother and his ex - she gave him no attention until he revealed he had hooked up with another girl; now she's texting him left and right and asking to meet up. The ex thinks they have you on the back burner for if they change their mind...until someone else comes into the picture. Link to post Share on other sites
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