Ex boyfriend problems?

[Serenax]

We were together for nearly three years and my ex boyfriend broke up with me and he had a new girlfriend. I was upset of course but thought I'd let it go and leave him to it. (His family never approved of us anyways). Fast forward, his close friend who didn't know we were still together asks about me and him. I told her I'm glad it's over and she was like that's sad etc.

 

Fast forward a year and halfish, he asked me if I hate him and stuff. Then couple months later he wanted me forgive him and take him back. He was also asking me personal questions. Then he decided it was a bad idea because of his family etc so I was a bit angry but then said fine. He then tried making me jealous around Octoberish time.

 

A few weeks ago still in December I told his family about us and showed screenshots because I was fed up of his behaviour.

 

Now, he has a new girlfriend. I feel so stupid because genuinely at first I thought he's changed especially since we haven't spoken in so long. He's done the same thing to me twice. I feel heartbroken.

[smackie9]

You were the back burner girl until he found his next GF. I had an ex that tried that crap on me but I knew his track record and laughed in his face. He was in utter shock because all his exes would go back to him. It felt good throwing it back in his face. Why go back out with a jerk eh?

 

Let that be a lesson to ya....if they treated you like crap then don't go back.

[Space Ritual]

Sounds like too much drama between both of you. A year and a half goes by and he asks you if you hate him?

 

You want somebody like this back in your life?

 

On the flip side of that, what are you doing involving his family members in all this drama by showing them screenshots? Who cares, they didn't like you anyway from what you said. So if that was the case you simply reinforced their dislike of you.

 

 

Just stay away from each other. Sounds like you both are toxic souls

[Serenax]

You were the back burner girl until he found his next GF. I had an ex that tried that crap on me but I knew his track record and laughed in his face. He was in utter shock because all his exes would go back to him. It felt good throwing it back in his face. Why go back out with a jerk eh?

 

Let that be a lesson to ya....if they treated you like crap then don't go back.

 

Hmm, I guess so. I only replied because we didn't have any contact with each other for so long so I thought we could at least be civil with each other.

[Serenax]

Sounds like too much drama between both of you. A year and a half goes by and he asks you if you hate him?

 

You want somebody like this back in your life?

 

On the flip side of that, what are you doing involving his family members in all this drama by showing them screenshots? Who cares, they didn't like you anyway from what you said. So if that was the case you simply reinforced their dislike of you.

 

 

Just stay away from each other. Sounds like you both are toxic souls

 

They didn't approve of me because of "caste" not because they had personal dislike towards me. They were shocked at the messages he was sending me because they thought I was chasing him as he's a "higher caste".

 

I feel like messaging him and letting my anger out otherwise I won't be able to forget about this.

[Space Ritual]

Oh so are you in India or in the West?

 

I'm sorry that must be very difficult regardless. How removed are you and is it based on Jati or Varna in your situation?

 

Sorry I guess had you mentioned this in the initial post you may have received possibly better advice from all of us. So I'm sorry for my typical American ignorance.

 

If you care to reply maybe we can help you better.

[Try]

He's done the same thing to me twice.

The first time "shame on him". The second time "shame on you". If there is a third time, "you like the drama".