Leigh 87 Posted January 4, 2016 Share Posted January 4, 2016 Not so much "big" as soft and full so to speak. A lot of guys seem to have thin lips, and it's not much fun to put a kiss on someone and have a collision w/their teeth. My boyfriend has such nice full lips:o And so do I! Our kisses are spectacular so perhaps there IS merit to full lips equaling kissable lips? Link to post Share on other sites
anonymousbear00101100 Posted January 4, 2016 Share Posted January 4, 2016 (edited) My ex wasn't into making out with me. I later discovered that he just wasn't that attracted to me. And it was the most evident through his lack of kissing. As a man, I think this is really accurate. I did not like making out with my ex. I would do it because she loved it and I wanted to love it, but she just kind of made my lips hurt. I loved her because of her personality and was attracted to her physically because I loved her. She has a very pretty face and I always found her cute, but I never found myself starstruck by her beauty. Whenever we would make out or have sex, it always just kind of had that "good because of what it is, but a little bit uncomfortable and slightly painful" vibe. All of the physical stuff just became a bit exhausting for me and purposefully less frequent. I didn't miss kissing her at all when we moved to separate cities. I definitely believe that having a good kissing chemistry is a sign of mutual strong attraction and a really important part of a relationship. Edited January 4, 2016 by rjblak13 Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted January 4, 2016 Author Share Posted January 4, 2016 Yep. And even if your style isn't initially compatible with your partner, if the attraction and Chemistry are amazing then you WILL still feel super hot and alive from the kissing alone. And when you aren't dying to make out with your partner, and don't long for their kisses then it's likely to be a lack of overall chemistry at play. My ex wasn't into making out with me. I later discovered that he just wasn't that attracted to me. And it was the most evident through his lack of kissing. I would watch music videos and cry when I saw couples making out; it really bothered me that my guy didn't have that raw lust or passion for me. the part how it makes you feel hot is very telling. guys should pay attention to that. Link to post Share on other sites
Redfisher Posted January 4, 2016 Share Posted January 4, 2016 My boyfriend has such nice full lips:o And so do I! Our kisses are spectacular so perhaps there IS merit to full lips equaling kissable lips? You and your boyfriend sound like the perfect match! One could say its spectacular! He's a keeper.... Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 Indeed I've scored sex but not kissing on a few first dates, kissing was more intimate than sex to them. Very important. Just remember that her jaw is smaller than yours, and note that whiskers can hurt her. That said, I find kissing to be less important with age. Not unusual to see mature folks give a quick peck, but heavy kissing seems to fade out with age. Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted January 5, 2016 Author Share Posted January 5, 2016 Indeed I've scored sex but not kissing on a few first dates, kissing was more intimate than sex to them. Very important. Just remember that her jaw is smaller than yours, and note that whiskers can hurt her. That said, I find kissing to be less important with age. Not unusual to see mature folks give a quick peck, but heavy kissing seems to fade out with age. Intamacy is important. Link to post Share on other sites
Redfisher Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 Indeed I've scored sex but not kissing on a few first dates, kissing was more intimate than sex to them. Very important. Just remember that her jaw is smaller than yours, and note that whiskers can hurt her. That said, I find kissing to be less important with age. Not unusual to see mature folks give a quick peck, but heavy kissing seems to fade out with age. I'm finding the opposite.... The 35 to 40 year old women like making out all the time. Seems as a guy if you like it too you are a shoe in. Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 Intamacy is important. So is spelling;) Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 I'm finding the opposite.... The 35 to 40 year old women like making out all the time. Seems as a guy if you like it too you are a shoe in. LOL I guess "age" is a matter of perspective. I was thinking of the over 50 crowd. Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 Spelling is so important in kissing that we used to spell out how important kissing was back when we were kids - K I S S I N G - generally under a tree. heh. Link to post Share on other sites
Redfisher Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 LOL I guess "age" is a matter of perspective. I was thinking of the over 50 crowd. Over 50! Yuck...Haha...Joking my friend. I'm 42 this year ugh.. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Gold Pile Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 Spelling is so important in kissing that we used to spell out how important kissing was back when we were kids - K I S S I N G - generally under a tree. heh. In my day, my turf, the kissers were sitting in a tree. 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Eternal Sunshine Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 I used to dislike kissing; until I met a guy with whom I had amazing physical chemistry with....sparks off the charts and kissing felt like the hottest thing ever Too bad it didn't translate into personality compatibility but that experience makes me never want to kiss anyone that I don't have that kind of chemistry with. Link to post Share on other sites
Michelle ma Belle Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 Kissing and being a good kisser is molto importante Link to post Share on other sites
carhill Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 In my day, my turf, the kissers were sitting in a tree. Come to think of it, you're right. I had a double-decker tree house and it was kissing central, all innocent of course. Kissing and playing doctor. Kids. Heh. However, it did teach how important kissing was as an indicator of 'like'; of course like has many different meanings, as do kisses. Link to post Share on other sites
ASG Posted January 5, 2016 Share Posted January 5, 2016 Kissing is of the utmost importance for me. I have dismissed guys because they weren't good kissers. I've been turned off by a bad kiss before. Conversely, a great kiss can make someone you weren't too sure about become number 1! I prefer fuller lips. I can always tell that guys with thin lips will no be good kissers (for my liking, that is). It has happened way too many times... shame, really. 2 Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted January 6, 2016 Author Share Posted January 6, 2016 Kissing is of the utmost importance for me. I have dismissed guys because they weren't good kissers. I've been turned off by a bad kiss before. Conversely, a great kiss can make someone you weren't too sure about become number 1! I prefer fuller lips. I can always tell that guys with thin lips will no be good kissers (for my liking, that is). It has happened way too many times... shame, really. So the kissing is a good thing? Awesome!! I see how maybe some ugly guys can turn on the super sexy chicks if they are good kissers and make her feel great! Link to post Share on other sites
BettyDraper Posted January 6, 2016 Share Posted January 6, 2016 Yes. I don't like bad kissers. Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted February 6, 2016 Author Share Posted February 6, 2016 Yes. I don't like bad kissers. Who does lol. So it makes a serious difference obviously? Link to post Share on other sites
craw Posted February 7, 2016 Share Posted February 7, 2016 Yes. If the guy is older and he kisses me like a goldfish, I refuse to go further with him, esp if he shoves his tongue down my mouth. He doesn't how to kiss, he won't know his way around in bed. Also, I'm not exactly an expert in kissing with my tongue. Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Yes. If the guy is older and he kisses me like a goldfish, I refuse to go further with him, esp if he shoves his tongue down my mouth. He doesn't how to kiss, he won't know his way around in bed. Also, I'm not exactly an expert in kissing with my tongue. Wow. I feel sorry for these guys. Link to post Share on other sites
blueskyday Posted February 16, 2016 Share Posted February 16, 2016 I have a rule: if the kissing is bad, then there will be no sex. So kissing is very important! Good kissers make good lovers. Good kissers aren't about technique. It's chemistry! Woo hoo? Link to post Share on other sites
Author singlelife Posted February 16, 2016 Author Share Posted February 16, 2016 I have a rule: if the kissing is bad, then there will be no sex. So kissing is very important! Good kissers make good lovers. Good kissers aren't about technique. It's chemistry! Woo hoo? I guess it is in the kiss. Link to post Share on other sites
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