nutter78 Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 We had a huge fight one night and as a result I kicked him out and broke up with him. I told him to come back the next day and get all his things. It took him two days to do it but I got back from work and it was all gone. I messaged him to see if he was OK and he said he had been better then went out on a bender out with his friends. I messaged him again to say I was sorry and was heartbroken and that I wish this had never happened and he replied by saying "I never wanted this to happen either and wish it was different!!!" It's now been a month with just checking in to see if the other is ok. He says he needs time but I believe that if you are meant to work then you work through things together. I know I did the breaking up but it was an awful fight where words of anger came from both sides. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nutter78 Posted January 2, 2016 Author Share Posted January 2, 2016 The reason I broke up with him is because he called me words I could never repeat. AND one night on facebook has shown me there are plenty of other fish in the sea so he can go treat some other girl like that. We were engaged but I just realised I have enough pride NOT to take what he did or even wonder if he will ever come back because I don't deserve that and and no girl does. Link to post Share on other sites
Author nutter78 Posted January 2, 2016 Author Share Posted January 2, 2016 If a man does not love you, respect you and treat you the way you should be treated then MOVE ON. I'm just having a 24 hour period of realisation here. Don't pine for someone who doesn't want you or love you!! 1 Link to post Share on other sites
Author nutter78 Posted January 2, 2016 Author Share Posted January 2, 2016 He chose no contact to sort through his thoughts. If someone loves you they don't do no contact. Link to post Share on other sites
goldway90 Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 He chose no contact to sort through his thoughts. If someone loves you they don't do no contact. If someone loves you they don't end things with you either. Don't blame him Link to post Share on other sites
sambolini Posted January 2, 2016 Share Posted January 2, 2016 If someone loves you they don't end things with you either. Don't blame him ^^ This. It sounds like you broke up with him as a form of manipulation, believing it would cause him to change his behavior. Instead, you have remained broken up. A month has passed, nothing has changed, and now you're trying to justify your decision to break up because you haven't gotten the reaction you were expecting/hoping for. Leave him alone. Quit trying to illicit the response you want. Move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Recommended Posts