blue16 Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 This ever happened to any of y'all? You think you're over your ex, but then someone mentions his/her name in a conversation and you kind of tense up and the feelings kinda come back to you temporarily? Happened to me tonight, it blows. Link to post Share on other sites
Raindrop100 Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 It's normal. You are at the healing stage but not entirely healed yet. Keep yourself busy and pick up some new hobbies. Sometime busy is the best therapy. Best wishes to you... Link to post Share on other sites
ReluctantRomeo Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 Normal. It passes eventually. Relax. Let the feelings happen for a minute or 2, then deliberately move on. Link to post Share on other sites
Author blue16 Posted June 3, 2005 Author Share Posted June 3, 2005 Well this morning I can't stop thinkin about her, it's almost like I'm back to where I was a couple months ago. Goin out the club tonight tho, the girlies are gonna be hot. This girl is so yesterday. Thx for your support. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 Originally posted by ReluctantRomeo Normal. It passes eventually. agreed RR. and as time passes the feelings get less and less until one day they just dissappear! Link to post Share on other sites
BrotherAaron Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 Yup. The feelings disappear Then, for some reason, somebody just finds out that you broke up with her, and they tell you "I'm so sorry", and you give them a HUGE genuine smile, then look at them quizzically and say "Sorry? What for? I'm havin the time of my life!" and then laugh because it feels so good not to care anymore. Ahahahahahaha. Hahaha. HAh. Phew... oh man. Don't worry man - it's fun to be single, because you never know who you might end up with. It's fun to have sexual tension with people you've just met. We all love first kisses, and when a girl with beautiful eyes can't stop staring. Enjoy yourself. Life has a lot more to offer you than your ex. Link to post Share on other sites
alphamale Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 Originally posted by BrotherAaron Ahahahahahaha. Hahaha. HAh. Phew... oh man. ahhAhahhaHa aha Ah ah ah ahhha ahaH ahaha ha ahah a ha hhaaa ahaha HA Link to post Share on other sites
whichwayisup Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 Originally posted by alphamale agreed RR. and as time passes the feelings get less and less until one day they just dissappear! You do know about NO Contact right???? Outta sight, outta mind/heart/body/soul. Only way to go. Link to post Share on other sites
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 Originally posted by blue16 Goin out the club tonight tho, the girlies are gonna be hot. This girl is so yesterday. Thx for your support. True that! Just make sure you don't do the "Sneak up behind a girl and start humping her leg" move.....Intstant slap in the face Link to post Share on other sites
BrotherAaron Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 Originally posted by IhavenoFREAKINclue True that! Just make sure you don't do the "Sneak up behind a girl and start humping her leg" move.....Intstant slap in the face True that - girls only like it when you approach confidently and then hump her leg, from the front Link to post Share on other sites
IhavenoFREAKINclue Posted June 3, 2005 Share Posted June 3, 2005 Originally posted by BrotherAaron True that - girls only like it when you approach confidently and then hump her leg, from the front See, BA knows!!!! Link to post Share on other sites
Author blue16 Posted June 3, 2005 Author Share Posted June 3, 2005 Originally posted by BrotherAaron Don't worry man - it's fun to be single, because you never know who you might end up with. It's fun to have sexual tension with people you've just met. We all love first kisses, and when a girl with beautiful eyes can't stop staring. Enjoy yourself. Life has a lot more to offer you than your ex. cool thx, you're right. Playin the field and being single is fun...you never know who you could meet. Originally posted by whichwayisup You do know about NO Contact right???? Outta sight, outta mind/heart/body/soul. Only way to go. ya I've been no contact for like over 2 months, which is why I was doing so well. Wasn't until someone was mentioning yesterday that 2 years ago "she loved some guy but he f***ed some other girl, and she cried." and stuff like that is when I had a slight relapse, but I'm doin the best I can to get back to where I was a couple days ago. Originally posted by IhavenoFREAKINclue True that! Just make sure you don't do the "Sneak up behind a girl and start humping her leg" move.....Intstant slap in the face Ahh....the infamous "sneak up and freak from behind." Wait a minute, I thought girls love it when strangers sneak up and start humping their ass...am I missing something? Ya it's been a long time, I thought the feelings would go away (and I thought they did) but judging how I felt last night I know they haven't. But as y'all said, eventually the feelings will go away - I just gotta not contact her at all and I should be good hopefully. I honestly believe deep down she stilll has some feelings for me, but for reasons I won't get into we're apart. I keep having these fantasies of getting a girlfriend, and this girl seeing me with her...and her getting really jealous (I know she would.) Then she starts to get all friendly all of a sudden...then I'm like "Pffff way too late girl." and just keep goin' with my life. Man that would be sweet. Link to post Share on other sites
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