I feel like she does like me, but sometimes I talk myself out of it?

[ClitYeastWood]

When I'm around her I get the feeling that she does like me, but then when I'm away and over thinking everything, I feel like she doesn't and that I'm making things up in my head.

 

 

There have been some moments when I've been 100% sure... like when we kept making eye contact, sometimes 3-4 seconds, with smiles included and I could feel the mutuality.

 

 

We do tease each other too... We've only started speaking 2 weeks before the holidays. We haven't seen each other over the Christmas period though and she finished a relationship not too long ago too.

[ClitYeastWood]

Bottom line is that I'm trying to figure out whether I should make a move or not - this of course lies with whether she likes me or not.

 

I do feel a sense of mutual attraction, but I can never be too sure. Thanks.

[Redfisher]

What are the pros VS the cons? Are you afraid?

[smackie9]

Just ask her out. So what if she isn't ready for a relationship, you can still go out and enjoy each others company.

[ClitYeastWood]

What are the pros VS the cons? Are you afraid?

 

Yeah, I guess I am slightly scared.

 

I guess the Pros would be that she does like me back and we go on a few nice dates together and just have fun and enjoy each other's company.

 

The cons being her not feeling the same, me feeling rejected and the fact that she's on my course/in some of my lectures and seminars, which might make things awkward.

 

 

I was going to ask her out before the holidays, but finding out she was about to dump her boyfriend took me by surprise and ended up bailing. I didn't think it would be the right time, and she certainly didn't look too well.

[ClitYeastWood]

Just ask her out. So what if she isn't ready for a relationship, you can still go out and enjoy each others company.

 

Let me get one thing straight, I'm not in a rush to make us an item. I want us to enjoy eachother's company and go on as many dates as we can. I want the relationship, if it is to become one, to form naturally.

 

I probably will ask her out when we go back to University/after the exams.

 

I'm just constantly thinking about the things that might indicate her interest.

[Redfisher]

Nice user name haha yuck...

[ClitYeastWood]

Nice user name haha yuck...

 

Lol thanks!

 

I've read up that if you playfull nudge a girl you like and she reciprocates in the same playfull fashion, it might she mean she's attracted to you, or at the very least interested?